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Octavia, 44

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About Me

I have been widowed for 3 years after being married for 19 years.I am not looking for a sugar daddy.Looking for the man who will accept me and my 2 boys for who we are.I have a21 year old on his own and a 13 year old at home.They are my world just the way it is.I would like to find somebody that like bbq's swimming,camping,bombfirs,have some drinks once in awhile.Would be nice to take a motorcycle ride in the evening or on days weather permitting. My interest are country music,dancing race car tracks and the other that I mentioned already.I am truthfull,honest and expect that in return..Hoping to find what I am looking for on this site. would have to decide that at a later time

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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