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Joslyn, 44
United States, Minnesota, Lonsdale

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About Me

Hi, I'm a friendly, fun, down to earth woman who loves nature and almost any outdoor activity as well as city life. I enjoy gardening, cooking, concerts, dancing, skiing, canoeing, biking, fishing, hiking, and camping. I read alot and watch PBS more than any other channel. I have great friends and family that I do lot of activities with. I'm creative, handy and am trying to make a living as a designer - landscape and cabinetry but I work other jobs when I have too. :/ Lately I've had a burning notion to move to a farm so if your a farmer - yahoo! In the past I've run marathons and done triathlons but would like to switch up to adventures like kayaking around the shores of Lake Superior when the kids are grown and on their own. However, I've also been a single mom for the past 14 years. Four teenagers. Yup four. I need a night out once in a while!!! Ultimately I'm looking for someone who has similar passions and also wants that special woman to share a life with, a partner, a lover and best friend. Someone solid, true, family oriented, adventurous and can keep up with me. The best is yet to come come baby!I heard this saying once that pretty much sums it up for me: "Don't waste your time on a man who isn't willing to waste his time with you.";Sometimes I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure, I make mistakes and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." Thanks for reading and good luck finding that special woman!!PS I'm actually a 42 year old Libra, if that matters to you - my friend set this profile up for me with the wrong birth date and I can't change it now. Quick lunch or drink after work. If we like each other, the second date is the fun one. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Play Musical Instrument Traveling American Korean South American Action Adult History
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  • Annette from Lonsdale | Woman | 42 years old | Libra
    Annette

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    In a nutshell.... I'm divorced, have a 15yr old son (joint custody), and I work ***hrs a day Mon-Fri. Obviously I don't have much time to go out & meet new people (hence my presence on this site!) :) I'm looking for someone as a friend to hang out with at first, then see where it goes from there. This person MUST have a sense of humor (preferably slightly twisted)& be somewhat sarcastic. Also, HAS to like cats! I would prefer someone UNATTACHED, no drama, no head games, no druggies or alcoholics, and no police record!!! ;) I would also prefer that you have all of your teeth. Oh, and if you're looking for a one night stand, KEEP LOOKING! NOT gonna happen here! ;) So on that note, to all you serial killers, rapists, etc., beware...I have a CCW and am ALWAYS armed!!! (not kidding on that one)I'm definitely a rock music person, so if you're into only country AND western (OR rap!), we're probably not going to hit it off! :-P I do love live jazz, and some of the newer whatever-you-call-it music that the teens are into (though NOT much!) If you want to know more, feel free to ask....Oh, and I'm a GEMINI, NOT A TAURUS!!! (although I CAN be "bull-headed!") lol!**UPDATE - APPARENTLY I NEED TO SPECIFY THAT I AM NOT BISEXUAL NOR DO I PLAN ON BEING SO IN THE FUTURE! ALSO, I AM NOT ON HERE TO FIND RELATIONSHIPS BASED SOLELY ON SEX! AND IF WE EXCHANGE CELL #'S, THAT DOES NOT MEAN I WANT YOU TO SEND ME "INAPPROPRIATE" PICS OF YOU!**One more thing... I have to INSIST that you be at least 6' tall! Thanks & good luck! :) Well this is a tough one. But to put it simply, I think a first date should consist of 2 people getting to know each other...see if there are any common interests, if there's any "chemistry" there...if so, move forward & see what happens. If not, you can never have too many friends to hang out with ;)As far as where to go/what to do... depends on what each of us enjoy!

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  • Shaunda from Lonsdale | Woman | 41 years old | Leo
    Shaunda

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love life and all the adventures. I have a strong passion for my career and a genuine desire to impact the future. My sense of humor is wicked and I love a little banter and lots of laughter. As for my faith...Life has thrown me a few curve balls and I can say I'm a survivor only by the grace of God. My day to day life is an interesting and engaging tale. I tend to look at life differently, I don't sweat the small stuff, and I tend to live in the moment. I realize the past is the past, today is all we have, but there is still a need to prepare for the future. I am naturally a giver, would probably give the shirt of my back if public lewdness wasn't illegal. ;)My friends would describe me as an intelligent, straight up, honest, and loyal person; who has a fun loving positive attitude, and a witty sense of humor. I enjoy photography, a good movie, the outdoors (especially on the water), painting (canvas and redecorating), family time, and hanging with friends.Although my relationships says currently separated....I am in the middle to end of the divorce process which comes at the end of a long separation.I generally don't date outside my race, just a preference. Plus if you are just looking for a hook up please keep looking........I'm not that girl...... .........tbd.

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  • Sherisse from Lonsdale | Woman | 44 years old | Aquarius
    Sherisse

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a very outgoing person with a big heart. I enjoy being with people who like to have fun and laugh.I am a mother of 2 beautiful girls who mean the world to me. Looking for someone who likes to enjoy a good movie A walk outside.A nice dinner, or just enjoying each other's company

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