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Derryl, 45
United States, Minnesota, Lonsdale

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My closest friends usually describe me as being "geniune or real". I can say I shoot straight from the hip. I am a grounded/down to earth woman who enjoys caring/pleasing others, for the majority has a great outlook on life, loves to have fun (comedic/sarcastic) and welcomes adventure. Life is way to short to take EVERYTHING so serious..don't sweat the small stuff... I believe that laughter is the spice of life and some of the most enjoyable things are the simplest things in life. Time is precious...you never get it back...so if you choose to do something - give'er your all and share in the moment. I enjoy being active; am most at peace/happiest when I can enjoy the outdoors. I am open to trying just about anything...I don't get scared easily and am not afraid to get my hands dirty. What motivates me?...my girls...basically trying to be the best mom I can be. I realize...they did not welcome nor had choice in the dissolve of our family/marriage...however, it is up to me to give them the tools they will need to find happiness some day. I know that kids learn by example (pretty big shoes to fill ;). They come first, and they should..they inspire me to become a better person (I am far from perfect, but always trying to better myself). Who/what I am looking for? Someone who would like to share in life/experiences (not all of them ;) but a guy that would know what decision to make for the common good - good for both; or is able to discuss/compromise). A man who hard working, enjoys life (being outdoors, adventure, possess a great sense of humor, has common sense, enjoys being romantic and spontaneous). Chemistry is a must (love great eyes, smiles, athletic type build). I don't like to play games, so communication (yes talking) is required. So here I am, ready to experience life, love and laughter again...Thanks for your time, hope to hear from you. Walk...hike...sunset...Coffee...Drink or two..;-).Or something more adventurous...open to ideas.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Punk German Middle Eastern Turkish Drama Horror Romance
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