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Tandy, 42

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About Me

Hi! And so....what can I tell you? I'm looking for a long-term relationship with someone I really connect with - someone who gets me, has a decent sense of humour (preferably self-deprecating/dry), who doesn't mind a challenge, and has similar interests to me (not all, but some would be good).A bit about me - young in body and mind, I'm an active, independent and feisty (yes, apparently...) sort. I'm pretty direct and honest and as a result, straight-forwardness and openess (no game playing), are important to me. In no particular order, my interests/hobbies include health and fitness - running, gyming, cycling, swimming - and generally keeping in good shape. On the flip side, I also enjoy eating and drinking (and laughing) with friends - and I'm big on cooking too. I'm into travelling and seeing new places and experiencing different cultures - And I love music in a big way - mainly rock and pop - I also love comedy as life is way too short not to laugh - especially at yourself.If any of that sounds appealing and you think we'd get along, then give me a shout!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kelleigh

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am down to earth with a friendly personality. I am ready to meet someone who can make me laugh. Someone who can be themselves and not take the small things seriously. I tend to be quick witted... Family trait (lol). Life is to be lived, so please don't sit at home all day. Once in a while is ok, but I can't make a steady diet of it. I prefer keeping busy and need someone who like to always be on the go. I do try to make the best out of any situation. I am very honest and blunt. So please do ask any questions you do not want an answer to. I have my own opinions on how to live my life and I respect yours if it is different. I like to see a different side of an conversation. So just because I may not agree with your opinion I still want to hear it. There are many sides to a subject and listening to them is how we learn about each other. That is why it is important to be friends first and get to know each other. I do not like drama. It's not worth the energy. There is to much to enjoy, rather then trying to prove who's right or wrong. I am also looking for someone to teach me to BBQ. Keep it simple and enjoy the conversation.

  • Azaria

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    It's the simple things in life I savor such as star gazing on moonlit nights, being completely lost in pillow talk in the wee hours of the morning, traveling, sightseeing, curling up watching a movie together, building a warm loving home and cooking. Soul to soul.....mind to mind...and heart to heart is the only way I know how to live and love. What am I looking for? I'm here looking to fall in love with my best friend.....someone who shares my interests and even challenges them a bit....someone who loves to match my wicked wit while we tackle life together....and someone who is down to earth focused on home and family. And get this, I'm single by choice! ~grin~As you might can tell, I'm a communicator. Humor is usually what captures my attention first. Great conversation is what keeps my attention. I'm very playful and I love to laugh. Having that playful connection where humorous banter naturally flows is very desirable to me. I've led a very successful professional life. To the world I'm a professional business woman. If you didn't know me and just met me on the street, you would notice that about me. At home, well, the ultra professional doesn't exist. I could write a sparking profile related to that part of me but, at the end of the day, I leave all that at work. It's not where my heart is. Being surrounded by nature is soul nourishing to me. I'm very artistic so you will always find me creating and designing in all directions to include the kitchen. Writing is one of my passions.....poetry and prose....with love as my inspiration. So there is a duality to me when comparing my professional life with my personsl life. I would love to find someone who shared or could relate to / appreciate my artistic and creative side because once you get to know me you will find it is what makes me tick. I'm settled, secure with myself and mature with loving someone so I need someone who is not afraid of commitment. If you are separated or just out of a relationship I am sooooo not interested in being a rebound. lol My heart just isn't made of rubber and I prefer keeping it intact. ;)Love doesn't happen overnight but if you spend your time trying to make sure things don't become serious then we won't be a good fit. Any type of relationship starting with friendship has to happen naturally. When I say I'm looking for long term it means I'm looking for that potential in someone. It takes spending time together to figure that out. I'm looking for a friend first. If we can't be friends, we sure can't be anything else now can we?I have a job, home and car. I expect you to have the same. I'm not looking for a man to support me. I'm also not willing to be a sugar mama with a man living off me either. I was raised in a time where a man was a man not one who lives off of a woman. I'm serious about finding love and why I will ask if you're here for a good time only while weighing your options with other women, keep moving. I'm not a conquest. I am a lady....and I expect to be treated like one.I'm not here looking for perfection. What's on the inside is more important to me.It's sad I have to request this but, to clarify for the men who send inappropriate messages to me: No to friends with benefits. No to cuddle buddies. No to one night stands. No to f**k buddies. No to multiple anything. No to casual sex. So don't attempt nor ask. It's not an option.**Sorry to be so straightforward but, I figure it will save us both a lot of time in the end.** I truly believe there is a process to successfully meeting someone online. The first step is always messaging here, moving to texting then to talking on the phone before meeting in person for a date.I think the first date is something that depends on the two people involved. Things that just are not 'my thing' would be things like.....~bungee jumping lol~nightclubs / bar scene (I grew up after college lol)~~you never know~~gambling~~horror / sappy crying / drama diva movies lol~surfing /jet ski/ ski ~gaming / computers (I prefer living life not playing it)~sky diving ~sun bathing my skin to leather (Zzzz boring)~sports (I tolerate it some but not my interest)~mountain climbing

  • Huong

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I love music..esp 80's rock and country...I love going to concerts. I like baseball & Nascar racing. I enjoy going to clubs, dancing, & being with friends. I am a summer loving person, just give me the sun & a swimming pool & I am a very happy person...love being outdoors. Family time is the best time!! I don't have to go out to have a good time, I can have just as much fun at home watching a movie or playing games, such as dominoes, cards, etc. I am open to trying new things. I would like to find someone special to spend time with. I want to get to know someone as a friend first, then maybe it can grow to more. I like being around people who are full of life & like to laugh at the silly every day things in life. I am an honest, trustworthy, straight forward woman & looking for the same kind of guy. I am too old to be playing childish games. I don't have to have a man in my life, but I want a man in my life. I want someone I can talk to & enjoy being with. Someone who really wants to get to know me. I am tired of being used & being taken advantage of.I am currently back in school pursuing a Bachelors Degree in Accounting. go to dinner have nice conversation get to know one another possibly develop into a nice friendship

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