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Nilda, 43
United States, Minnesota, Long Lake

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About Me

I'm not a woman you look at and think "wow, she's beautiful" but I am the kind you get to know and think"wow, she's beautiful." I am confident but not conceited. I'm out-going and thoughtful but can be selfish and insensitive as well. I enjoy good conversation and I love to laugh. What I'm looking for on here is friendship. Yes, I'm a single mom but I'm not looking to be rescued. I don't need to be rescued. I am a strong-minded woman and I know who I am. I don't care how much money you make or what expensive toys you have. Material things are not character. I care about honesty, loyalty, sincerity, family values and the such. I've been hurt just like everyone else but I'm not bitter or jaded and I'm not afraid of having feelings for someone. I do think friendship first is the key to any successful relationship. I like to be comfortable and be myself. I like to be silly, I can be corny, I'm a clutz, I have blonde moments but I'm intelligent, and sometimes I'm just a dork. I'm very sweet and thoughtful. I think surprising someone is more exciting for me than who I surprise. I'm a pretty good cook, too. So if you're going to drink a protein shake *** eating the chicken fried steak and gravy I make, there will definitely be a problem. Looks are only part of what attracts me to someone. In other words, I really don't want to date a pretty pet rock. II've probably watched too much Dateline, Who the Bleep Did I Marry, Dates Gone Wrong and so on - I'm a little skeptical and will have to talk to someone a little while before agreeing to make a date. I guess if you're a serial killer then you'll have to work a little to kill me. I understand the laws of attraction but if all you can think of to discuss with me are my boobs or butt, you will probably get ***'m not trying to be harsh, just being honest and saving you some time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Dance Caribbean German Japanese Spanish Baseball
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I guess that's what I always wanted, a man to have my back, protect me, stand up for me..I've never had that. I love music and concerts. Love sports too..go skins! I'm very down to earth and easy to please. Like doing outdoor things like riding horses and ATVs. But I also love to dress up and put on a pair of heels and go out and look sexy hopefully.lol I find myself much more comfortable around blue collar types. Feel like I just don't have a lot in common with executive types.. but I'm willing to be proven wrong. My kids live with me and see their dad every other weekend so that's when I'm free. Anybody I'm dating needs to understand that. Players and ladies men please keep browsing, not interested ! We are all getting older so I don't expect you to look like a model. Just be honest, sincere, reliable and if you make me laugh..extra bonus points!!Update: I'm not into endless messages that go nowhere. If you want to get to know me, ask me out and you'll find out. But I'm done with the texting a and the virtual experience. Do you men even want to really meet a woman?? There's a lot of weirdos on here so don't ask for my number. You will get it after we meet and see if there's any chemistry. And if you are so concerned if I'm under ***lbs or a certain height or weight..keep fishing. And look for a shallow pond to match your thought process. To actually have one!!

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I like all seasons, but Summer has to be my favorite. I'm a big kid at heart and I'm just looking for a nice guy. I feel I'm easy to get along with. I love all kinds of music, Also looking for somebody who loves the beach as much as I do, likes boats, sailing I like to have fun, and I'm always up for whatever the day brings. let me know what ideas you have.

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  • Catriona from Long Lake | Woman | 43 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hobbies: I do not have hobbies.Goals: To get off of this site I am a single 43 year old lady with fraternal twin sons who are 20 years old. I work full time at a job that I like most of the time. I work straight afternoons, so that makes dating difficult as if it wasn't already! I am 5'7 with blue eyes, brown hair and a bit overweight but it is proportioned well (if this stuff matters to you). I enjoy going for walks, watching movies, cooking, reading. I am a down to earth person. I am not materialistic at all. I have a hard time at saying no to people. I do not like to hurt others in anyway..so I happen to love to watch sports...football, baseball, hockey not a fan of soccer, golf or tennis...I mean I will watch it but not my fave. If there is anything you like to know..just ask. I will not respond to messages that are crude or rude, and if I dont respond, it means I am not interested based on your profile. Happy Fishing Meet and greet..coffee, tea, drink..chat see how things go.

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