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Nilda, 43
United States, Minnesota, Long Lake

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About Me

I'm not a woman you look at and think "wow, she's beautiful" but I am the kind you get to know and think"wow, she's beautiful." I am confident but not conceited. I'm out-going and thoughtful but can be selfish and insensitive as well. I enjoy good conversation and I love to laugh. What I'm looking for on here is friendship. Yes, I'm a single mom but I'm not looking to be rescued. I don't need to be rescued. I am a strong-minded woman and I know who I am. I don't care how much money you make or what expensive toys you have. Material things are not character. I care about honesty, loyalty, sincerity, family values and the such. I've been hurt just like everyone else but I'm not bitter or jaded and I'm not afraid of having feelings for someone. I do think friendship first is the key to any successful relationship. I like to be comfortable and be myself. I like to be silly, I can be corny, I'm a clutz, I have blonde moments but I'm intelligent, and sometimes I'm just a dork. I'm very sweet and thoughtful. I think surprising someone is more exciting for me than who I surprise. I'm a pretty good cook, too. So if you're going to drink a protein shake *** eating the chicken fried steak and gravy I make, there will definitely be a problem. Looks are only part of what attracts me to someone. In other words, I really don't want to date a pretty pet rock. II've probably watched too much Dateline, Who the Bleep Did I Marry, Dates Gone Wrong and so on - I'm a little skeptical and will have to talk to someone a little while before agreeing to make a date. I guess if you're a serial killer then you'll have to work a little to kill me. I understand the laws of attraction but if all you can think of to discuss with me are my boobs or butt, you will probably get ***'m not trying to be harsh, just being honest and saving you some time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Dance Caribbean German Japanese Spanish Baseball
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