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United States, Minnesota, Le Center

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About Me

Family is important, but my sense of family extends beyond those who share my DNA to the people in my life who step up to the plate for me when required, who I trust have my back when it counts, and for whom I do the same. Fitness (and overall healthy living) plays an important part of my day-to-day life - for the social aspect, blowing off steam after a challenging day, and maintaining balance. I'm not religious, but a strong spirituality informs what I do, how I see the world, and how I treat people. I've been told I can be a bit of a sass (who, me?), and I've yet to disagree... I definitely enjoy trying new things, with varying degrees of commitment and success... (Spanish lessons, kayaking, boxing) and welcome a challenge. Try to laugh daily, and at myself often - it's key to keeping perspective. Self-improvement and personal growth are somewhat of a passion. More of a morning person, though not obnoxiously so...don't like the cold, but will make the best of a rainy day...TV doesn't take much priority for me, but love a good movie - a great book even more so. Would love to connect with someone with a similar intention to infuse joy whenever and wherever possible, with a clear sense of what they want to create in life. Certainly not without our imperfections, (that is, after all, what makes us real and loveable) yet we are committed to mimizing the drama and chaos, maximize fun on a regular basis, and agree that games are for whiling away the rainy afternoons. We don't just give lip service to ideas of respect, honesty, and integrity, but come to relationships expecting to be held accountable and authentic...and would do nothing less than hold each other the same way. You 'get it' when I say that it's not about the stuff we have, but the passion we share...simple as that...and can't help but get excited about the future we're creating as "that couple". You know, the one that everyone hates, because we're so happy and such a perfect fit...If this sounds like you - great - can't wait to hear from you! If not, hope what you ARE looking for is just a mouse click away.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jayna from Le Center | Woman | 45 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    i am a kind caring , loving person with a good sence of humor not into head games i enjoy the sun so i spend lots of time out in the summer i am also a very fun person to be aroundplease no country music... i truley hate my pic being taken so to see the true me it is meeting in person i do have pics please ask and i will send . I HAVE A CHALLENGE FOR YOU:WILL BE COMPLETELY HONEST... you can ask me ONE question (only in my inbox). Any question, no matter how crazy, sinister, or wrong it is. I WILL answer no matter what. You have my FULL honesty, but i DARE you to put this on your profile and see what questions you gettake a chance you might be pleasently surprised !!

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  • Christiane from Le Center | Woman | 42 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Ok so....not really sure what I want to write at this point. Basically I'm just checking things out and seein' what's out there. I am NOT looking for a booty call nor do I want anyone looking to me for one! I would just like to find someone that I can relate to and that is HONEST, loving, affectionate (I LOVE affection...cuddles, holding hands, kissing...), loyal, attentive, a good listener, has a great sense of humor and can be totally silly and goofy at times and can hold a conversation! I have 2 awesome kids that live with me full time. I love to spend time with family & friends just hanging out and sometimes enjoy a drink or two out on a patio or by a cozy fire in front of the TV. I like the beach, camping, going for long walks, having drinks at a pub, and many other things that we can talk about later... I have a great sense of humor and am loving, honest to a fault, sarcastic, loyal, easy going, a bit of a perfectionist, a smart ass, cheeky, social, sensitive,...oh and I wear my heart on my sleeve! What you see is what you get. I don't play head games and don't like a lot of drama. Anyway ok enough about me...what about you??P.S. If you take the time to send me a message I will at least take the time to send you a message back. I may not be interested but I will at least reply. It's a respect thing!! A first date can be anything...well ALMOST anything! Lol. I usually like to meet for coffee or whatever else you like to drink or maybe a walk in the park just to get to know each other a bit better at first. Then go from there.

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  • Lillie from Le Center | Woman | 44 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Most of my friends are suggesting that I give this online dating stuff a try so here goes... I am a strong willed,independent,caring,compassionate women. Humor is the spice of life, I find many things funny and am quick with my tongue. I can play the quiet and shy roll all though do not maintain it for very long. I am not looking for someone to tame me but someone I can be friends with and if it grows into something more then great. I don't want someone that I need to walk behind or in front of, I want to be side by side. I am not looking for someone that requires ***attention. I have a busy schedule, yes could possibly slow down some, maybe I will meet someone who makes me want to, however I enjoy what I do for work. For the right person I may be able to take a little more time off to be with them but I will continue to work hard at what I do. You need to be strong enough to tell me NO at times, but smart enough to know when to just say yes. I will admit that yes I do have a temper and it shows at times, but doesn't everyone.... ok so maybe not those that are still in denial. I am not the type of girl that needs to be wined and dined all the time, I am capable of feeding myself and have on occasion been known to whine haha. All that said I am not the type for casual hook ups or booty calls. Please don't waste your valuable time if that is what you are about. I am hoping to meet new friends, really if you don't like someone enough to be able to spend quality time with them then the whole thought of intimate contact seems moot... doesn't it?? That's where the morning after regrets, trying to chew off you arm while trying not to wake your sleeping partner comes from.Not looking for anyone with a drug habit or problems with alcohol, yes this also includes those that think they don't have a problem... as in they get drunk fall down ( no problem ), or "I only do drugs on days off!!"Sorry not interested. Not against social drinking. I am a single mom of three wonderful children that are all almost grown, only two left at home and only that is part time. I love family time, however with teenage kids that usually consists of them dropping their laundry on the floor and then wondering where it went once its clean. What's for dinner, and never being able to find the house phone. Thank god for personal cell phones and having two bathrooms!!I am who I am and don't have the ability or wish to pretend to be someone I am not.I most definitely do not have the body shape of BARBIE!! I have more curves then would like, yes trying to change that part, not doing very well but still trying. I am comfortable with our without makeup, with hair in a ponytail or done up, can dress up or just jeans and a tee shirt. Don't like head games from either side, yes sorry to be the bearer of bad news but men actually play them too :) If this has in any way tweaked your interest send me a message, you never know where things go. Coffee and a chat would be great. See if there is something worth a second cup or just going our own ways with no regrets.

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