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Shalonda, 45
United States, Minnesota, Zimmerman

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ACTIVITIES: Spending time with family and friends; BBQs; watching Cardinals baseball or Mizzou football; I'm a Packers fan -; Listening to live music at Sky, Trainwreck, Side Bar, BB's, Beale, or ***; going to a winery on a beautiful day;; watching a movie; bon fires and star gazing; cooking together or dining out; travelingMUSIC: Blues, Classic Rock, 80s, Pop; STL SymphonyFOOD: Steak, BBQ, Sushi, Italian, Mexican, Indian, Chinese. Chocolate is my absolute favorite! ME: I'm fun, honest, trustworthy, and a true sweetheart. I enjoy all kinds of things. It mostly depends on the person, rather than the activity. I would like to meet someone who is positively enjoyable to be around and likes to laugh. ~ Someday I really do want my Happily Ever After ending. I'm interested in dating & having fun without any pressure or assumptions. If it happens, it happens. :)MY DATE: I'm looking for a genuine, caring man who wants to share the adventures ahead and chooses to see the positIve in situations. He is sincere, has integrity, and values honesty. He enjoys talking about a variety of topics and has a sense of humor. Confidence is sexy; arrogance is not. I want a passionate man, one who is family-oriented and focused. I enjoy being treated like a lady. Affection and intimacy are VERY important to me. I'm looking for the kind of love that is unmistakable; you feel it with just a look from across a crowded room or a touch. We have the kind of closeness in which we are totally into each other, and yet supportive of each other's individuality. Thanks for reading this far. I wish you much happiness and love. KEEP IT SIMPLE AND FUN! Lots of fun! Don't tell me all your ex-drama on the first date. Keep it light and flirty, with lots of eye contact. The right man can make me blush just through eye contact. Let's meet for either coffee or drinks, appetizers or dinner. It's nice to talk and get to know each other. I'm also up for a game at a sports pub. I'm not afraid to eat bbq ribs or hot wings on a first date while wearing a white jacket, but please tell me if I have something on my face! LOL BY THE WAY: A simple kiss goodnight is fine IF we're both feeling it, but Mr SixHands&Tongue is not appropriate on the first few dates. It's sad that I even mention this, but I've had to push men off of me. Please, only gentlemen need apply! BEST QUOTES I'VE SEEN ON HERE LATELY: "A great first date isn't about an arousal - it's about an awakening!" "Distance is a mere thin line between two hearts. True love will find its way, even blindfolded.""THE KISS is a deliberate action. You can tell a lot by the way a person kisses you or by the way they respond to yours. You can express gentle affection, playful closeness, ecstatic joy, or even just plain old desire. So many things can be relayed without words through the kiss.""Life is short. Break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that makes you smile""Eve was not taken out of Adam's head to top him, neither out of his feet to be trampled on by him, but out of his side to be equal with him, under his arm to be protected by him, and near his heart to be loved by him."QUESTION OF THE MONTH: Integrity: Do your actions match your words, and do you keep your word? OLD QUESTIONS OF THE MONTH: Do you prefer tequila, vodka, or rum? If none, then what?College football or pro football? How do you show chivalry on a date? What ever happened to good, old-fashioned communication when people actually spoke to each other in the moment, either in person or via telephone? (When you could see or hear his/her reaction or expression before he/she composed a response and you had a better feel for who someone was, rather than what he/she presented in a text or ***': Thank Goodness for densely populated regions of educated people.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indian Family & Kids Mystery Romance
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