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Elvira, 43

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About Me

I've taken a lot of time off of dating. I am not interested in casual dating as it is stated here, but all dating has to start as casual. Different people bring out the different facets of us, so I'm not making rules. I'm also not having expectations that aren't reasonable. We may miss out if we do that. If I knew what worked I wouldn't be here. I am in absolutely no hurry and want to take the time to develop a solid relationship. There's not much of a chance of me changing my basic nature at this point. I am always open to personal growth though. I don't have the desire or strength to be what I'm not. Wasted a lot of time doing that, it doesn't work:) It's just words here, the chemistry and the intentions will determine a second date. I'd prefer to wait until that happens before getting too personal here. I don't expect sparks flying everywhere when first meeting someone, but there should be a few. I love children! However, mine are grown and I'm really looking for the same. How about a smoothie, slushie ? No pressure, expectations, and no booze please. Short and sweet.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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