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Em, 44
United States, Minnesota, Zimmerman

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About Me

By the grace of God I am what I am. I Corinthians 15:40Seriously what are we looking for? What can I tell you that would spark your interest enough to reply? What made you click on my picture and then turn the page? Was I not visually appealing enough or did you think I was too pretty for you? Am I a geographic challenge? Do I look spoiled? Were my answers to descriptions insignificant to your personal standard? I have questioned the reasons people come here to find … whatever they are seeking. Please feel free to criticize. I read in a profile once that if I stood straight up and looked down and could not see my feet I would be too fat for whom I was viewing. I replied to this by saying I couldn’t see my feet and being fat had nothing to do with it. Smiling here.I have a lot of questions, that’s just my nature. I find that for most it’s an awkward situation … not knowing exactly who you are trying to “sell” yourself to while you are searching for the “right one”. We all have this check list of remitting and omitting what is acceptable. Keep in mind that we all are far from perfection.I used to believe that I was a simple woman but not simple minded. Being complex doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a mess but could mean there’s more to you than meets the eye. ;***years of life has brought me to this page. I have been a mother for 28 years and was a wife for 17 of those years. It’s ok that you have children … I didn’t care much for the selection “Prefer not to say” but there wasn’t a selection for “unable to bear more”. Besides there’s a few that call me Mee Maw now-a-days. Chuckling here. I’m as real as they come right down to the very fiber of my being. I don’t have a perm or color treated hair and I do my own nails. I live on a budget and work hard to meet my own needs. A bit proud and unspoiled as well as non-materialistic. Being grateful for what you have will ensure that good things will come to you. Be conscious of your actions and consider the consequences. I don’t make promises I can’t keep. Do what you can for your fellow man with no great expectations. Loyalty is as important to me as honesty. I believe there’s a BIG difference between manners and morals (that lesson learned recently). Life is full of drama it’ Forgive yourself for taking that extra bite of chocolate cake then take a walk, life is too damn short. Laugh till your sides hurt. Sing a little, dance a little (even if you’re no good at it) and smile. LaineyMy DefinitionI try very hard to be my definition of a woman as well as a lady when necessary. So here it is .... Woman: A female human. Someone who puts her family on a pedestal, without letting herself go. Knowing her responsibility to her mate and his happiness while achieving her own. Dependable, reliable. Someone who would go days without food to feed her family, and nights without sleep to care for her sick. Someone who strives for the betterment of mankind. She is wise and seeks knowledge. She is ready to try new things. She is well mannered and graceful as well as grateful and thankful. She is witty and sharp and ready for a good laugh when the opportunity presents itself. She wears her heart on her face so her mate and children can see how forgiving she is. She is a caregiver, lover and best friend.-*- WOMAN -*-She came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved.{The spaces between our fingers were designed for the ones who will love us the most} Keep it simple I'm not a flashy girl. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Kayleigh

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a single mother of two wonderful children. I am a believer in acheiving your "bucket list" and mine includes returning to college.I am currently working toward an AAS degree in Early Childhood Developement and Criminal Justice. I am an adventurous, open minded, tell it like it is woman, with a stubborn streak. I am a very unique woman in many ways because I hate to spend money, unless it is necessary or I am having a "me" moment. My children are a very important part of my life and I enjoy quality time with them each day. I am seeking a good hearted, trustworthy man that enjoys similar activities and a love for life. I am not interested in a "hook up", so if your looking for that dial ***BABE!....Good luck with your search, maybe we are compatible. The ideal first date would be to meet for coffee or wine and get to know one another.

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  • Mellie from Zimmerman | Woman | 42 years old | Scorpio
    Mellie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I sit outside almost every day and watch my neighbors work together in their yard . they are in their mid 70's and it is so amazing how in sync they are with every thing they do. Its like they know each others thoughts and movements before the other does. They move slowly sometimes it seems like they get nothing at all done. It's just being out there spending every minute doing something they love with who they love for the time they have left. That is what i am looking for point blank, nothing less,so if you want anything short of that you should just leave my page now. Hi I am a 41 year old mother of 3 grown kid and have a 2 and a half year old grand daughter. They are my life so that must be respected. I am not into games or drama. I am very open and honest and expect the same. I am very laid back, have no problem speaking my mind and will not put up with any bs. I enjoy all different things and will try almost anything at least once. I want to find that person who I just click with and will not settle for anything less. Surprise me.

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  • Kath from Zimmerman | Woman | 42 years old | Virgo
    Kath

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi, I've invested some time in my career and my son and now I'm ready to invest some time in me. I would love to find a man that is also ready for a relationship. I love the outdoors. I have a big puppy dog that likes to run with me. I enjoy being a nurse.I'm looking for a man that is ambitious, thoughtful, funny, likes to cuddle, kiss, smart...did I say kiss. If you are "kind of" married, separated, or "almost" divorced then I'm "kind of" not interested. I'm emotionally ready for a relationship and looking for a man that is too. Dinner and drinks on a patio, hotdog and beer at a tigers game, bonfire under the stars...the possibilities are endless

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