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Em, 44
United States, Minnesota, Zimmerman

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About Me

By the grace of God I am what I am. I Corinthians 15:40Seriously what are we looking for? What can I tell you that would spark your interest enough to reply? What made you click on my picture and then turn the page? Was I not visually appealing enough or did you think I was too pretty for you? Am I a geographic challenge? Do I look spoiled? Were my answers to descriptions insignificant to your personal standard? I have questioned the reasons people come here to find … whatever they are seeking. Please feel free to criticize. I read in a profile once that if I stood straight up and looked down and could not see my feet I would be too fat for whom I was viewing. I replied to this by saying I couldn’t see my feet and being fat had nothing to do with it. Smiling here.I have a lot of questions, that’s just my nature. I find that for most it’s an awkward situation … not knowing exactly who you are trying to “sell” yourself to while you are searching for the “right one”. We all have this check list of remitting and omitting what is acceptable. Keep in mind that we all are far from perfection.I used to believe that I was a simple woman but not simple minded. Being complex doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a mess but could mean there’s more to you than meets the eye. ;***years of life has brought me to this page. I have been a mother for 28 years and was a wife for 17 of those years. It’s ok that you have children … I didn’t care much for the selection “Prefer not to say” but there wasn’t a selection for “unable to bear more”. Besides there’s a few that call me Mee Maw now-a-days. Chuckling here. I’m as real as they come right down to the very fiber of my being. I don’t have a perm or color treated hair and I do my own nails. I live on a budget and work hard to meet my own needs. A bit proud and unspoiled as well as non-materialistic. Being grateful for what you have will ensure that good things will come to you. Be conscious of your actions and consider the consequences. I don’t make promises I can’t keep. Do what you can for your fellow man with no great expectations. Loyalty is as important to me as honesty. I believe there’s a BIG difference between manners and morals (that lesson learned recently). Life is full of drama it’ Forgive yourself for taking that extra bite of chocolate cake then take a walk, life is too damn short. Laugh till your sides hurt. Sing a little, dance a little (even if you’re no good at it) and smile. LaineyMy DefinitionI try very hard to be my definition of a woman as well as a lady when necessary. So here it is .... Woman: A female human. Someone who puts her family on a pedestal, without letting herself go. Knowing her responsibility to her mate and his happiness while achieving her own. Dependable, reliable. Someone who would go days without food to feed her family, and nights without sleep to care for her sick. Someone who strives for the betterment of mankind. She is wise and seeks knowledge. She is ready to try new things. She is well mannered and graceful as well as grateful and thankful. She is witty and sharp and ready for a good laugh when the opportunity presents itself. She wears her heart on her face so her mate and children can see how forgiving she is. She is a caregiver, lover and best friend.-*- WOMAN -*-She came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved.{The spaces between our fingers were designed for the ones who will love us the most} Keep it simple I'm not a flashy girl. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Adult Family & Kids Sci-Fi Thriller Golf Volleyball
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  • Bettye from Zimmerman | Woman | 44 years old | Aries
    Bettye

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Basically, I would like someone in my life who wants to spend time together out having fun, has my back when I need him most, and is interested in learning what makes me . . . me. Someone with a great sense of humor would be absolutely fabulous. Life is no fun without laughter, and I like plenty of it. I have ***year-old daughter who is, by far, my greatest accomplishment; a very close relationship with my family; and wonderful and very loyal group of friends. I get along with my ex about 95% of the time, and I actually like his new wife. If that's not emotionally healthy, I really don't know what is.I'm educated, have a job downtown that I absolutely love (I should . . . I wrote the job description!), and workout regularly. Seems my Italian side refuses to let me starve myself in order to maintain my current dress size. However, I may have developed an incurable addiction to the Stairmaster. There are worse things, right?As for likes and dislikes regarding music, movies, food, books, hobbies, travel, and whatever else you want to toss in . . . Well, I think you just learn those things about someone along the way and see if they work for both of you. I don't think two people have to like the exact same things. In fact, I think it's far more interesting if they don't, so you can learn new things. As long as you have those important core values in common, I think the rest will just fall into place . . . if you let it. :)Best of luck. I prefer as low key as possible for a first meeting. I don't drink coffee, but if you want to grab a different type of drink and chat for a bit, I'm totally game. :)

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  • Kayleigh from Zimmerman | Woman | 43 years old | Scorpio
    Kayleigh

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a single mother of two wonderful children. I am a believer in acheiving your "bucket list" and mine includes returning to college.I am currently working toward an AAS degree in Early Childhood Developement and Criminal Justice. I am an adventurous, open minded, tell it like it is woman, with a stubborn streak. I am a very unique woman in many ways because I hate to spend money, unless it is necessary or I am having a "me" moment. My children are a very important part of my life and I enjoy quality time with them each day. I am seeking a good hearted, trustworthy man that enjoys similar activities and a love for life. I am not interested in a "hook up", so if your looking for that dial ***BABE!....Good luck with your search, maybe we are compatible. The ideal first date would be to meet for coffee or wine and get to know one another.

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  • Kaelyn from Zimmerman | Woman | 41 years old | Cancer
    Kaelyn

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Looking to feel completed...I want a relationship I do not "need" one. I have been on my own for 12 years now and really miss the companionship of someone special in my life.Relationships take time and dedication...friendship first then go from there.I am ready to meet that person I cannot wait to get home to see... I do work more than I would like right now- but have goals set to change that. I turned 40 and it hit me just how quickly life is passing! Time to explore the online method (after saying I never would) and find a new person to share time with me. Thanks for reading my profile and best of luck in your search as well! Meet for coffee or a drink to get to know each another in a public place.

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