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Em, 44
United States, Minnesota, Zimmerman

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About Me

By the grace of God I am what I am. I Corinthians 15:40Seriously what are we looking for? What can I tell you that would spark your interest enough to reply? What made you click on my picture and then turn the page? Was I not visually appealing enough or did you think I was too pretty for you? Am I a geographic challenge? Do I look spoiled? Were my answers to descriptions insignificant to your personal standard? I have questioned the reasons people come here to find … whatever they are seeking. Please feel free to criticize. I read in a profile once that if I stood straight up and looked down and could not see my feet I would be too fat for whom I was viewing. I replied to this by saying I couldn’t see my feet and being fat had nothing to do with it. Smiling here.I have a lot of questions, that’s just my nature. I find that for most it’s an awkward situation … not knowing exactly who you are trying to “sell” yourself to while you are searching for the “right one”. We all have this check list of remitting and omitting what is acceptable. Keep in mind that we all are far from perfection.I used to believe that I was a simple woman but not simple minded. Being complex doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a mess but could mean there’s more to you than meets the eye. ;***years of life has brought me to this page. I have been a mother for 28 years and was a wife for 17 of those years. It’s ok that you have children … I didn’t care much for the selection “Prefer not to say” but there wasn’t a selection for “unable to bear more”. Besides there’s a few that call me Mee Maw now-a-days. Chuckling here. I’m as real as they come right down to the very fiber of my being. I don’t have a perm or color treated hair and I do my own nails. I live on a budget and work hard to meet my own needs. A bit proud and unspoiled as well as non-materialistic. Being grateful for what you have will ensure that good things will come to you. Be conscious of your actions and consider the consequences. I don’t make promises I can’t keep. Do what you can for your fellow man with no great expectations. Loyalty is as important to me as honesty. I believe there’s a BIG difference between manners and morals (that lesson learned recently). Life is full of drama it’ Forgive yourself for taking that extra bite of chocolate cake then take a walk, life is too damn short. Laugh till your sides hurt. Sing a little, dance a little (even if you’re no good at it) and smile. LaineyMy DefinitionI try very hard to be my definition of a woman as well as a lady when necessary. So here it is .... Woman: A female human. Someone who puts her family on a pedestal, without letting herself go. Knowing her responsibility to her mate and his happiness while achieving her own. Dependable, reliable. Someone who would go days without food to feed her family, and nights without sleep to care for her sick. Someone who strives for the betterment of mankind. She is wise and seeks knowledge. She is ready to try new things. She is well mannered and graceful as well as grateful and thankful. She is witty and sharp and ready for a good laugh when the opportunity presents itself. She wears her heart on her face so her mate and children can see how forgiving she is. She is a caregiver, lover and best friend.-*- WOMAN -*-She came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved.{The spaces between our fingers were designed for the ones who will love us the most} Keep it simple I'm not a flashy girl. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Adult Family & Kids Sci-Fi Thriller Golf Volleyball
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    Elvira

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I've taken a lot of time off of dating. I am not interested in casual dating as it is stated here, but all dating has to start as casual. Different people bring out the different facets of us, so I'm not making rules. I'm also not having expectations that aren't reasonable. We may miss out if we do that. If I knew what worked I wouldn't be here. I am in absolutely no hurry and want to take the time to develop a solid relationship. There's not much of a chance of me changing my basic nature at this point. I am always open to personal growth though. I don't have the desire or strength to be what I'm not. Wasted a lot of time doing that, it doesn't work:) It's just words here, the chemistry and the intentions will determine a second date. I'd prefer to wait until that happens before getting too personal here. I don't expect sparks flying everywhere when first meeting someone, but there should be a few. I love children! However, mine are grown and I'm really looking for the same. How about a smoothie, slushie ? No pressure, expectations, and no booze please. Short and sweet.

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    Sima

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Im a single Mother of an 11 yr old and a 23 yr old. Ive become pretty much a homebody lately. Need to get out more often now that football seasons about to be over with. Im more of an outdoors person. I love the beach although now I dont live near one. I like all types of music and I love to dance and have a good time. Im open to trying new things. I think Dinner where we could talk and get to know eachother.

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  • Shan from Zimmerman | Woman | 42 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Single mom that enjoys watching sports, gardening, reading and I love the beach! Would like to find a great guy to spend my time with. I enjoy downtown and walking by the river. I think it is important to stay mentally and physically active. I also need a guy that I can have a good conversation with I like most types of music, no rap or hip hop, I do think some of it is better when its live. I try to keep my life drama free and I am looking for someone who does the same, and no BS. I love sarcasm and a great sense of humor, laughing is important to me. I would like a real relationship at some point but I think you have to work up to that and not expect to just jump into something serious. If it's meant to be it will happen.If you would like to know more just ask. Drinks, conversation, getting to know each other

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