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Tatum, 45

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About Me

Beginning to think it doesn't exist, but I want it all. Looking for someone I'm attracted to and enjoy being with. Want a man who knows how to treat his lady. Basically, wanna be with someone I can't live without. I enjoy outdoor activities. Go to the beach as often as possible. Love college football. :) Enjoy listening to live country music. I teach 5th grade Language Arts. Life is short. Ready for my happily ever after.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elvira

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I've taken a lot of time off of dating. I am not interested in casual dating as it is stated here, but all dating has to start as casual. Different people bring out the different facets of us, so I'm not making rules. I'm also not having expectations that aren't reasonable. We may miss out if we do that. If I knew what worked I wouldn't be here. I am in absolutely no hurry and want to take the time to develop a solid relationship. There's not much of a chance of me changing my basic nature at this point. I am always open to personal growth though. I don't have the desire or strength to be what I'm not. Wasted a lot of time doing that, it doesn't work:) It's just words here, the chemistry and the intentions will determine a second date. I'd prefer to wait until that happens before getting too personal here. I don't expect sparks flying everywhere when first meeting someone, but there should be a few. I love children! However, mine are grown and I'm really looking for the same. How about a smoothie, slushie ? No pressure, expectations, and no booze please. Short and sweet.

  • Flora

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Trying again ... I am a good-hearted woman that seeks the same in a man. I would like to be a priority in someone's life rather than an after-thought. I enjoy a wide variety of things such as walking, taking long drives, traveling, playing sports as well as attending them, gardening, going to the symphony, and cuddling on the couch watching a movie. I'm pretty low-key and definitely low-maintenance. As for music, I enjoy just about everything.I'm pretty much an open book. If you want to know something, just ask me (please keep it PG and under). In a relationship, I must have respect, common courtesty, honesty, trust, and open communication. If you can't give that to me, then please don't waste my time.Finally, guys...if you can't take a picture without your sunglasses on, then how am I to see your eyes? You could look like CeeLo Green underneath those things. Can't take that chance. Also, please stop taking pictures of yourself in the restroom. I'm sure you could find someone to take the picture for you. Just an fyi...I'm a pretty flexible person and non-judgemental, but if all your photos are of you holding something dead and that's your passion, I'm not for you. ***UPDATE*** If one of your profile pictures is of your dog doing its business, please move on. Seriously!***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. I reserve all rights under UCC***without prejudice. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.*** For a first date/meeting, I like to keep it low key/low pressure. We could meet for a drink, or maybe in a park and just go for a walk. We can talk and really get to know the other person on a more personal level. You really can't tell how you'll click with someone until you do it in person.

  • Shalonda

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ACTIVITIES: Spending time with family and friends; BBQs; watching Cardinals baseball or Mizzou football; I'm a Packers fan -; Listening to live music at Sky, Trainwreck, Side Bar, BB's, Beale, or ***; going to a winery on a beautiful day;; watching a movie; bon fires and star gazing; cooking together or dining out; travelingMUSIC: Blues, Classic Rock, 80s, Pop; STL SymphonyFOOD: Steak, BBQ, Sushi, Italian, Mexican, Indian, Chinese. Chocolate is my absolute favorite! ME: I'm fun, honest, trustworthy, and a true sweetheart. I enjoy all kinds of things. It mostly depends on the person, rather than the activity. I would like to meet someone who is positively enjoyable to be around and likes to laugh. ~ Someday I really do want my Happily Ever After ending. I'm interested in dating & having fun without any pressure or assumptions. If it happens, it happens. :)MY DATE: I'm looking for a genuine, caring man who wants to share the adventures ahead and chooses to see the positIve in situations. He is sincere, has integrity, and values honesty. He enjoys talking about a variety of topics and has a sense of humor. Confidence is sexy; arrogance is not. I want a passionate man, one who is family-oriented and focused. I enjoy being treated like a lady. Affection and intimacy are VERY important to me. I'm looking for the kind of love that is unmistakable; you feel it with just a look from across a crowded room or a touch. We have the kind of closeness in which we are totally into each other, and yet supportive of each other's individuality. Thanks for reading this far. I wish you much happiness and love. KEEP IT SIMPLE AND FUN! Lots of fun! Don't tell me all your ex-drama on the first date. Keep it light and flirty, with lots of eye contact. The right man can make me blush just through eye contact. Let's meet for either coffee or drinks, appetizers or dinner. It's nice to talk and get to know each other. I'm also up for a game at a sports pub. I'm not afraid to eat bbq ribs or hot wings on a first date while wearing a white jacket, but please tell me if I have something on my face! LOL BY THE WAY: A simple kiss goodnight is fine IF we're both feeling it, but Mr SixHands&Tongue is not appropriate on the first few dates. It's sad that I even mention this, but I've had to push men off of me. Please, only gentlemen need apply! BEST QUOTES I'VE SEEN ON HERE LATELY: "A great first date isn't about an arousal - it's about an awakening!" "Distance is a mere thin line between two hearts. True love will find its way, even blindfolded.""THE KISS is a deliberate action. You can tell a lot by the way a person kisses you or by the way they respond to yours. You can express gentle affection, playful closeness, ecstatic joy, or even just plain old desire. So many things can be relayed without words through the kiss.""Life is short. Break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that makes you smile""Eve was not taken out of Adam's head to top him, neither out of his feet to be trampled on by him, but out of his side to be equal with him, under his arm to be protected by him, and near his heart to be loved by him."QUESTION OF THE MONTH: Integrity: Do your actions match your words, and do you keep your word? OLD QUESTIONS OF THE MONTH: Do you prefer tequila, vodka, or rum? If none, then what?College football or pro football? How do you show chivalry on a date? What ever happened to good, old-fashioned communication when people actually spoke to each other in the moment, either in person or via telephone? (When you could see or hear his/her reaction or expression before he/she composed a response and you had a better feel for who someone was, rather than what he/she presented in a text or ***': Thank Goodness for densely populated regions of educated people.

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