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Nella, 45

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About Me

I am 45, full figured sexy gal. I have two grown children and two grandbabies whom I adore, family is so important!!You will find I am happy to just wear jeans and dress up if need be, I mean I am happy with a hole in the wall for a burger and beer then getting dressed to the nines (although I am willing to do that if needed). I do enjoy a little hole in the wall!!Not looking for anyone to support me, I can support myself and have for many years!! You will find I am outgoing yet laid back and have a great sense of humor. I AM ALLERGIC TO CATS!!!!!I like to take walks, LOVE the beach, go shopping, dinner, movies, dancing, traveling, campfires, sports, concerts,,etc.(FOOTBALL GO STEELERS)!I love most music from all eras, classic rock, AC/DC, light rock, R&B, all country old and new. Slow dancing in the kitchen while cooking together would be incredible. Sneaking up to you, from behind and wrapping my arms around your waist and swaying to the music, oh yeah that's great!I am down to earth, easy to forgive, easy to apologize, extremely prompt, playful, passionate, compassionate, and tender-hearted. I love slow dancing, moonlight swims, thunderstorms, and snuggling . I am very affectionate and not afraid to show it .I can cook, and playing in the kitchen with someone to prepare an occasional meal, maybe sharing a bottle of wine, is always fun. I hope to find someone to be in a committed relationship with. I appreciate a man with a great sense of humor and one who makes me laugh. I'm looking for my best friend. . . someone to share the good times, but also the trials that are always part of this life. A hand to hold, a shoulder to lean on. . . someone who I can be there for and who will be there for me. I'm looking for my "forever love of my life" and I'm willing to give my all in return. NO LOOKING FOR ONE NIGHTERS, OR BOOTY CALLS, AND IF YOU WANT TO TALK SEXUAL WITHIN THE FIRST FEW MINUTES WE TALK PLEASE KEEP GOING YOU ARE NOT WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR.Is it too much to ask for to find ONE genuinely honest, down to earth man?!!If you have children that is fine, but prefer they be teenagers or older as mine are grown:)NOTE; I AM ALLERGIC TO CATSLooking for serious inquiries ONLY! Pretty much up for anything within reason but prefer a drink or coffee so we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cass

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    If you'd like to know just ask :) ....I am basically just a smartass...lol....I am coloring outside the lines, taking risks and swimming in the gray just like you by being here...I have no expectations on who you should be or who I should be with.......take a little piece of everything...find the passion...and love it all!It's impossible to explain the depths that swim within me and all that I am on a dating site...but for that right person I know I'd stand on a dime in the middle of the ocean....lol...if you think you can tread water than dive in....but leave your pool skimmer at home....there is no shallow end here....

  • Laurencia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Okay guys, let's change a few things on here! I'm not here for a booty call, and If you are, you can hit the back button now. I am an independent woman with a job, take care of my own kids, and pay my own bills, so I don't need a man to take care of me, nor do I feel like I have to have a man to be complete, although the rite one can make it so much sweeter! With that said, I just like to have fun period, doesn't really matter doing what. I like going out at least once per weekend. I love dancing and just getting out of the house. I like going out to eat, but I also love to cook, and I'm actually pretty good at it. I still believe there has got to be men out there that believes that one woman is enough and can be faithful, although I have not found that yet. I know it sounds crazy but, if I can't have a one-woman man, then I'd rather be by myself. I don't ask anything from anybody that I can't give myself in return. I believe that you have to give respect in order to receive respect, and most of all I believe in treating people like I want to be treated.Not sure what I'm looking for on here, but hell if I can meet a few new friends that's got to be a good thing! I do tend to like my men a little younger than I am though. I would love to just have a date that flowed naturally. We could go just about anywhere as long as it was good conversation and respect involved. Romance is always a good thing though. It would be nice for a man to show that he was really looking forward to the date.

  • Sharla

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I enjoy casual evenings out with good company at a winery, restaurant or a nice evening at home. I enjoy weekends filled with my kid's sports activities and downtime to just enjoy life wherever it takes us for that day or weekend. I do like to travel when time allows. My career is very important to me but not as important as my family. I pride myself on work/life balance. I am a mom to two boys 7 and 9 and love that job best. They are great kids and my dedication to them is a top priority. I am easy going but at the same time passionate about things. I will stand up for myself and those I care about. I am very efficient, hardworking and know what I want out of life. I am genuine and have a big heart. I have built a very solid life foundation for me and my boys. I miss the closeness and fun of a relationship. I teach my boys the importance of a good solid loving relationship. I hope to show them the meaning of this by meeting someone who shares the same outlook and values in life that I do. A few additional things about me:Positive attitude on life, successful, emotionally stable, tend to be more laid back, uncomplicated, no drama or game, honest, matter of fact, caring, compassionate, loves life, has much life experience, not pretentious, a great loyal friend/companion, intelligent, able to laugh at myself, independent, adaptable and easy to get along with, hardworking, goofy/funny once you get to know me, roll up my sleeves and will help someone, assertive, classy, takes pride in my appearance and my home. My expectations for others are typically quite high….same as for myself I like nice things and big accomplishments…I worked hard for them allI'd like to find someone who shares my passion for life, who is driven in their career, family focused and honest with integrity. I'm looking for a relationship that is characterized by mutual trust, respect, and admiration with someone who is kind, loyal, has a sense of humor, and has a great open attitude about life. I am interested in someone who:has life experienceis grounded, balanced and dedicated to their family/children.respectful and polite, especially to women and all mankind. has just the right amount of confidence will have by back in any situationis loving, kindfunny but knows when to be seriousunderstanding of me spending time with my girlfriends has depth and has a lot of life experienceis understanding, and a good communicator as well as a good listener.Also…A true southern gentleman warms by heart. Charles or a local restaurant.

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