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Lettice, 42

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About Me

I am a 42 year old recently seperated women. I have raised a family and enjoyed every minute of it. I am a natural born care giver and enjoy cooking cleaning playing cards and careing for people who appreciate it. Im looking for someone to chat with and possibly meet up with. I do most things that need to be done myself and only ask for help when i need it which i guess characterizes me as indepedant.I can be a bit selfish..(I can explain that)...and sometimes bossy and tough..(i can explain that too)..Im looking for a friend at this point who wont judge me or the choices i have made in my life. And someone to have good conversation. Hope i said enough without saying too much.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Karolyn

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    ***** Ok, just got back on here tonight after quite some time away (and yes with updated pictures :) and I have to say this......if you send me an *** "wanna play" "want a foot massage" "wanna have some fun" or anything along that line do not expect a reply back and I am sorry but you wasted typed letters. I went back and reread my profile and I didn't see anywhere that I even remotely indicated that is what I was looking for..........I am not looking for or want to date a zillion different men. I am looking for one person to focus on and see what happens. Would I like that to turn into a long term relationship, of course, but I am very happy with where my life is therefore I am in no hurry. I have to say though that by being in no hurry does not mean I will play guessing games or stick around long when there are mixed signals on a pretty regular basis. Realized recently I don't have the time or patience for those things and certainly don't deserve them. I am probably one of the least high maintenance women out there, I don't require much....but really is one text a day too much to ask for? Guess so. Please don't take that as bitter because I am so far from that, I just feel once you reach a certain age you shouldn't have to deal with stuff like that. Think it is only fair to point that out at the beginning.Family is and will always be my number one priority with my children being my greatest achievement. I am truly blessed and humbled by them each and every day. My daughter is 17 and a senior, where did those years go..... I also have a son who is 13 and during certain sports seasons they do keep me busy but I have found now that they are older I do have more time for myself. I am more of a summer person because I like the heat more than the cold. However, fall is a great time of year.... that means football season, Go Bucks and Steelers! Vegas is my number one choice for an adult getaway. I think us adults deserve a place to call our own! You will find that I am person who can be on a ballfield with jeans and a ballcap during the day, then change into that black dress for a night out on the town rather quickly and effortlessly. However, as nice as the little black dress is there is nothing better than being curled up by a fire in sweats, a sweatshirt, and a blanket on a cold winter night with that one person and a great movie. I would like someone who is my best friend(any good relationship has to have that component),lover, and as a committed partner to me as I would be for them. I also believe in open communication, if you can't be open and honest at all times chances are good you are with the wrong person. I know physical attraction is important but who you are on the inside will win my heart and last a lifetime. As I have gotten older and hopefully somewhat wiser, I know no one is perfect.....how boring would that be anyway? When you love someone you love their perfect imperfections. I also realize that at our age most everyone has a past. However, if it is still a very sore spot you are probably not ready to be dating in the first place. Lastly,If you are too uptight to laugh at yourself then pass me by, we are definetely not a fit. You will find me laughing at myself more times than not when I do cornball things. "Live well, Laugh often, and Love much." Good luck to you all in your search! I hesitate to say first date as I would prefer a meet and greet over a cup of coffee to see if there is enough of a connection to move on to the first date.

  • Martina

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    im fun careing and very loveing .i love to dance fish cookout spend time with family going four weeling and mudden love to go camping but mostly spend time with the special man in my life showing him so much love and taking care of him some place where we can talk and get to know each other a nice diner or picknic and then go from there

  • Nakita

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a mom and that is not only my job but my life and takes precedence over EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING!!! If they need me I'm there ALWAYS!!! If you can't understand then move on. I am a very loving and companionate person that only wants the best for myself and my kids! Now I have had some really bad experiences but I keep on chugging along because there has to be at least someone NORMAL OUT THERE!! PLEASE TELL ME THERE IS HOPE!! All I ask is that if someone messages youthat you respond back. It's only right even if your not interested just say no thank you and wish them luck. Its the nice thing to do. :)I LOVE to cook and bake especially for my kids and that special someone and enjoying a nice bottle of fine wine( not with the kids) I am looking forward to some new and exciting adventures with a special someone! Come on let's get together and get to cuddling its gettin chilly out there( at least I think it will soon) I would like the first date to be something we can both agree on. No one wants to be uncomfortable so let's talk and see if there is some common ground!

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