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Karolyn, 41
United States, Minnesota, Lake City

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***** Ok, just got back on here tonight after quite some time away (and yes with updated pictures :) and I have to say this......if you send me an *** "wanna play" "want a foot massage" "wanna have some fun" or anything along that line do not expect a reply back and I am sorry but you wasted typed letters. I went back and reread my profile and I didn't see anywhere that I even remotely indicated that is what I was looking for..........I am not looking for or want to date a zillion different men. I am looking for one person to focus on and see what happens. Would I like that to turn into a long term relationship, of course, but I am very happy with where my life is therefore I am in no hurry. I have to say though that by being in no hurry does not mean I will play guessing games or stick around long when there are mixed signals on a pretty regular basis. Realized recently I don't have the time or patience for those things and certainly don't deserve them. I am probably one of the least high maintenance women out there, I don't require much....but really is one text a day too much to ask for? Guess so. Please don't take that as bitter because I am so far from that, I just feel once you reach a certain age you shouldn't have to deal with stuff like that. Think it is only fair to point that out at the beginning.Family is and will always be my number one priority with my children being my greatest achievement. I am truly blessed and humbled by them each and every day. My daughter is 17 and a senior, where did those years go..... I also have a son who is 13 and during certain sports seasons they do keep me busy but I have found now that they are older I do have more time for myself. I am more of a summer person because I like the heat more than the cold. However, fall is a great time of year.... that means football season, Go Bucks and Steelers! Vegas is my number one choice for an adult getaway. I think us adults deserve a place to call our own! You will find that I am person who can be on a ballfield with jeans and a ballcap during the day, then change into that black dress for a night out on the town rather quickly and effortlessly. However, as nice as the little black dress is there is nothing better than being curled up by a fire in sweats, a sweatshirt, and a blanket on a cold winter night with that one person and a great movie. I would like someone who is my best friend(any good relationship has to have that component),lover, and as a committed partner to me as I would be for them. I also believe in open communication, if you can't be open and honest at all times chances are good you are with the wrong person. I know physical attraction is important but who you are on the inside will win my heart and last a lifetime. As I have gotten older and hopefully somewhat wiser, I know no one is perfect.....how boring would that be anyway? When you love someone you love their perfect imperfections. I also realize that at our age most everyone has a past. However, if it is still a very sore spot you are probably not ready to be dating in the first place. Lastly,If you are too uptight to laugh at yourself then pass me by, we are definetely not a fit. You will find me laughing at myself more times than not when I do cornball things. "Live well, Laugh often, and Love much." Good luck to you all in your search! I hesitate to say first date as I would prefer a meet and greet over a cup of coffee to see if there is enough of a connection to move on to the first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore Jazz Latin Family & Kids Fantasy Martial Arts Thriller American Football Watching Sports
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