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Alysha, 41
United States, Minnesota, Janesville

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About Me

"I don't want to be his entire world....just his favorite part."For me, being in a relationship is not about being completely consumed by another...it's about maintaining your individual lives & everything that interests you...while sharing all of it, the good & bad, with another. It's not about spending ***together, giving up friends, breaking important routines or pretty much neglecting everything that has been your life up until that point. It's about still hitting happy hour with friends, but making time for him after. It's about surprise texts...just because. It's about spending time together...but also spending time apart. Above all...it's not about molding someone into your idea of perfection. Take me, faults & all...or leave me. Be with someone for all they are....& in despite of all they're not. And I'm not a hypocrite....I believe this as much for myself as I do for the guy I'm involved with. Never lose yourself to anyone!As far as I'm concerned, honesty & trust are by far the most important qualities...& are my best attributes. I am an extremely loyal, completely trustworthy person....& require the same of anyone I let into my life. I am affectionate, sensitive, considerate, love to smile, generous, laid back, & equally comfortable at a club or cuddled on the couch. I am not jealous by any stretch of the imagination....& it's not something I can tolerate in a relationship. Jealousy is not an indication that someone cares about you....it's an indication that they are insecure or do not trust you.Looks are not everything....but they do matter. Initial attraction is what sparks your interest. My look may not be what attracts everyone...& I'm not offended by that. People are attracted to all different types...& what is beautiful to one...is not to another....don't take it personally. That being said, looks only take things so far...there has to be a compatible personality to maintain the interest.Family is extremely important...& I'm very close to mine...they are truly a priority in my life. I absolutely love the beach...probably my favorite place in the world. Little things usually make me happier than grand gestures. I could watch fireworks or blow bubbles for hours. You will find me barefoot every opportunity I get. I do not believe in doing anything out of obligation. As a very open-minded, accepting person, I have little tolerance for judgmental, prejudice, opinionated people. Worry about yourself....let everyone else be themselves. If you don't believe in something...don't do it...it really is that simple.I have plenty of faults...; *** obnoxiously.I'm looking to spend time with someone who makes me happier far more than not. I am a completely independent person....I do not need to be with someone...but I would love to find someone I want to be with.Not sure what will come of this....but you miss out on all of the opportunities you don't take...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Watching TV Fantasy Sci-Fi Sport Play Sport Games
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