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Jobeth, 45

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About Me

I think we need a handbook for this site.....I'm not sure why this is a game to most ppl.. if you are only gonna talk to me once..don't tell me i'm your perfect woman and then never speak to me again.. women need closure.. all you're doing in making alot of bitter man haters.. i understand if you just don't click but if you do and you tell her you want to meet her and then never speak again, we really don't know how to react...it really sucks.. and those of you who have done that very thing know who you are and should be ashamed...I am open, honest to a fault and straight forward.. and i expect everyone else to be the same..I have values and morals..I have played the game and don't really like it.. I guess friends is what I'm after.. I'm not possessive or jealous and can only hope to find one as such..I'm happy with my life and very secure in myself.. I'm not a desperate 40 something... I love the water, i find it soothing .. I have learned a different variety of music strengthens the soul..This whole dating thing has been a real disappointment.. I have met some true friends, but the dating part is just wrong we'll figure that out later

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aveline

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Wow... This is not easy! Like my headline says, I'm looking for my best friend. Life can get lonely and I want to share it with someone. I'm pretty easy going, I hate confrontation. I'm a lover not a fighter, but I will fight with all that I have for my love. I'm a girly girl... but can hold my own. I don't have a problem with asking a man for help nor do I get upset if I have to do it myself. Romance is awesome.. Candle lit dinners, flowers, notes hidden in my purse, morning texts, and encouraging words makes me weak in the knees. Its all about who you are with! I give to a relationship as much as I get, I believe a relationship is a work in progress, it's usually not perfect but neither am I. I will always give my best fight. Haven't had much time for hobbies, always up for trying something new. Pepper, and I need a regular dose of Big Bang Theory. Laughing keeps me sane, I don't care if I'm laughing at the T.V., someone else, or at myself, it keeps life in perspective. For the first date.... Hmmmmmm.. No dark parking lots please! I don't want to leave out a potentially great idea so I will leave that up to you :)

  • Aleisha

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    My two children are my heart and my soul!! They are my everything!! They are both grown now, but always have and always will come first!! We have fun busy lives!As for dating, I am wanting to go on a few dates. Hopefully with a fun guy. I am attracted to men who are a little younger than me ( in their mid 30s). I would like to exchange a few *** see how we click that way first, then go from there. I am looking for something inbetween a one night stand and marriage. It used to be called "dating" ....now it's called nightrria. lol.POF drive up window: Place your order pleaseME: I'll take one tall, dark-haired, hot ,sexy,faithful, fun guy...with a side of smart assPOF drive up window: ok the #4 ...any modifications to that?ME: ya ...can you make him between ***?POF drive up window: No problem, we'll have him ready at the second window.ahhh if only it were that easy. at least im still friggin hilarious in my old age. :)

  • Nam

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    So, how do we succeed at this dating game? Guess I am still trying to figure that one out. If you are on this site, perhaps you are, too.The way I see it is: what we have here is not a problem with scarcity-- there are many many MANY great single guys and gals out there.What we have is a sorting problem. And the way we sort is pretty simple: we openly and honestly tell each other what it is we want and need in a relationship. We also talk about our deal breakers. These open conversations do require the participants to be willing to be vulnerable, for that is truly the only way that anything wonderful can happen between us.(I did say the sorting was simple, I sure didn't say it would be EASY...)As for me, what I am looking for is good conversation and affection. Someone who shows as much interest in me as I do in them. Long, slow, passionate make out sessions. Lots of laughter. A long-term committed relationship is the ultimate goal, yet I am perfectly fine with taking it slow until we both discover that that is what we want.Authenticity and integrity are very important to me, and crucial for a fulfilling relationship.I'll be who I am, you be who you are. If our personalities and interests and dreams mesh, we may be onto something.If not, well, thanks for playing, best of luck...So, shall we have that conversation? I'm up for pretty much anything. We could keep it simple. Coffee or drinks. A walk in the park. Beer and ice cream. I'm game:)

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