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Chae, 44

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About Me

If I had to describe myself I would say first I am a happy person who loves to laugh a lot! Kind, generous, faithful, trustworthy, not materialistic at all and I love and enjoy the simple things life has to offer. I am also brutally honest and say whats on my mind. Not really into sports I would rather be out doing something outdoors than stuck indoors watching TV.I am looking for a man who is also looking for the same things I am like: being in a monogamous relationship, experiencing new adventures together, looking for a best friend as well.Not looking for a player, cheater, liar, or someone who has NO job or car or his own place to live. Not looking for someone who just wants to hang out with someone to pass the time or to just have an intimate relationship with, not looking for someone controlling or jealous. Must be laid back and secure in himself. I am looking for long term begin as friends and develop into something more, not necessarily marriage just a great solid relationship.The simple things mean the most to me, a quick phone call or text to let me know you are thinking of me, flower in my car or a little note you wrote to me. Being romantic is important to me as well, surprising me with a picnic at the park, above all I want to meet someone I can laugh with and have fun with. So if you have a great sense of humor that is a plus because that is a huge attraction for me!I dont really care about race I'm more interested in if your a good person and have a good heart and if your looking for the same things I am. I do have biracial kids so the person I date needs to be ok with that....Distance let's face it is a factor, trying to keep it no more than an hour drive is a plus!(As far as pics I wont answer profiles with no pic, profiles with no shirt on, profiles with only pics of the face only, or face not seen.)All my pics were taken in the last year or two. No surprises I wish you all the best in your search.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Trudy

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Not much for the snow but I love it here. Have 2 girls 13 and 21. I enjoy cooking whenever I'm not working and I'm kind of a clean freak for the most part. Like all kinds of music. I like horror flicks even if they are bad. I enjoy making people laugh and smile even if it makes me look like a dork. I'm a simple person, not materialistic or fake. Can be really quiet at times but I also have my goofy and crazy wild side.More random things about me:Lived in the everglades for over 3 yrs(part of the time with no electricity or plumbing), horse, goat, chickens, dogs, and cats, turtles, baby alligators, and fish, so I know how to rough it when need to and love my jeans and tank tops. I can definitely dress up and look nice. I'll take steak over sweets any day and there's not a veggie I won't eat.Were, we're and where. Their, there and they're. Here and hear. They all have different meanings and spellings. Periods and commas(aka . & ,)were meant to be used in a sentence. Usually a space is followed after but that's not too big of a deal. Apparently a lot of people don't know these things and it drives me crazy. lol. Just sayin.Have a thing for my hands and feet being dirty but at the same time don't mind getting dirty. weird. A freshly vacuumed house makes it look clean even if it's not and I think when you wash your car it seems to drive better, haha. So I might be a little bit strange but it's what makes me, me!

  • Quinta

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    First time I've ever done anything like this, just interested to see what's out there and maybe find a friend who has similiar interests. I work too much (trying to change that) and have 2 beautiful daughters, 14 and 10, that are my life! I live in the middle of nowhere but enjoy it thoroughly. As I sit here typing on my deck with the music cranked and not one neighbor close enough to complain :)I would consider myself a rather laid back person. Generally have fun doing most anything. I'm a huge NY Giants fan (loving on the "other" Haven't had much time to enjoy many hobbies recently but I love to play poker, go bowling every once in awhile and bike trips with my girls. I love all types of music, listening to and playing as well. I enjoy being outdoors, hiking, biking and enjoying this beautiful state we live in. Camping and bonfires (when we don't have all these fire bans) with a few cold beers, just wish I had more time.One key point to who I am is the fact that I am brutally honest! At 41, I'm very much over playing games! I deal with enough teenage drama through my daughters world that I have no desire to deal with it in an adult relationship, friendship or otherwise. I've come to the conclusion that life is going to take us wherever it chooses and as soon as we accept we're just along for the ride, the sooner we can relax and enjoy it!In regards to the "occasional" smoker in my profile..... for those of you who smoke, you're well aware there is no such thing. Didn't want to lie so "occasional" means I'm trying to quit but not quite there yet. One of these days I hope I can change that status to "Non"! I'm also NOT looking for a one night stand or friends with benefits!!....or any other location that appeals to you :) Ok, maybe we should hold off on the boat ride until the 3rd date. Somewhere we can actually hear each other, get to know one another (silence in a movie theatre just doesn't work so well)!! Good conversation and lots of laughter sounds perfect, over drinks or coffee, your choice!

  • Mabella

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I was recently asked what I was looking for, so here is my reply.I am looking for that person that I can't wait to see again, the yin to my yang, etc. I am in no hurry and am realistic on what that looks like for me. I don't trust easily, I am not promiscuous, I can't say that part too many times. I will not jump head first into a physical relationship. I am not looking for an *** term relationship, let's go out have some fun. Not every date is about finding that "special person", it can just be two people who enjoy spending time together. Personally I can never have too many friends. I have never been, nor will ever be unfaithful. I have a wicked sense of humor that comes out more when I start to relax around someone. I am not looking for anyone to take care of me, I can do that just fine on my own. Looking for the person who loves me for just being me...who can give me affection, enjoys stolen kisses, soft caresses and whispers of love, looking for that person who wants to know what makes me, me.To look across the room for you, only to discover that you are already looking at me.I am not a jealous person by nature, if you give me a reason to be, I will walk. No games tolerated here. You are with me or you aren't it is that simple.The person I married was safe and I knew he would never physically hurt me, but with that I also learned that he wouldn't (emotionally) protect me either. We are still friends.***********************As far as drinking goes it would be nice if they had an option for once every couple of months, my drinking days are long since over.I have a great sense of humor that runs the gamet from innocent to a bit naughty sometimes.I exercise regularly but will never have a rock hard body.I have friends and family that are gay, so must be accepting and supportive. Long term I am looking for my best friend, lover and partner in life, but for now I am very content being single, enjoying life and dating here and there until the right one comes along. I will not seriously date more than one person at a time. My animals (cats & dogs) are my fur-babies, we are a package deal. I have a stable full time job since 91.. Financially responsible, excellent work ethic. The only baggage active in my life is used for travel.If you want to know more, just ask and I will answer honestly.**You may have noticed that my profession states Legal Field, this means if you have a felony record, keep looking. We are not a match** Coffee/drink (I prefer soda) or if you have a dog, maybe a meet up at a dog park, zoo, mini-golf, walk along the water front. Something low key and no pressure.

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