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Jessia, 42

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About Me

Empty nester, and loving it..child is happy and in college, and now have time for my own passions. I have been widowed 8 years, have mourned in my earlier years...but now I embrace myself for realizing the true beauty and importance of life. I dont sweat the small stuff, no drama, that is way to exhausting...don't lie or play games...hell I can't remember what I lied about, and can't remember where I left off playing the game...lol. I do not sit around trying to figure out how to mess with someones life....do people really do that? When I am home I love to be outside.I have horses, and am an accomplished horsewoman there are other sports I like to do. I am a country girl at heart. I was raised city but I chose country 17 years ago. I am country but, not redneck but, it has shown itself once in awhile I have a wonderful light hearted sense of humor and love to tell jokes and when you're not looking I will think of a prank to pull on you so you must have a good sense of humor. I am a very affectionate person and will hug you every time I see you with a big smile on my face and will probably tell you how much you mean to me when I'm getting off the phone. I'll probably be cuddled up against you watching a movie and curled up against you sound asleep at night.I love a man who has a great sense of self confidence I think that is sexy. I really love a man who has a soft heart for animals and children I hope to have a great time with my grandchildren later in life for now my daughter says I'm going to have grand puppies. I enjoyed being around a man who is active and loving. I love a man who is rational and reasonable but will stand his ground and fight for what he believes in.What the hell is the deal with the question..Do you have a car? No I have a lear jet, so your driveway must be a runway...so I can land my plane..chuckle. I am always a good sport and I think someplace relaxed and casual is always good where you can sit and talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Latashia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    GET READY, GET SET, AND GO. WE ARE OFF TO THE RACES.... LETS KEEP IT SAFE AND FUN. SOMEHOW LETS NOT GET DISQUALIFIED BY BEING DISHONEST. LOL NO ONE GETS A HEAD START. SOME TIMES FIRST DOESN'T GET THE PRIZE. LOLJUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE THE BIGGEST BADDEST CAR DOESN'T MEAN YOU ARE 4 SURE GOING TO WIN.LOLONLY GOD KNOWSOkay, My written words of expressions isn't my greatest ability. It certainly a slanted perspective of ones self .. I am modest and loyal to a fault. I based relationships on trust and respect. My life hasn't been perfect . However, That's certainly something that I believe is going to be better. I am a hard working woman with a career. I also am a mother of three ...The baby is ***Oh ***, it is certainly my time to start spending more time thinking about me. I do have a daughter that lives with me that is mildly disabled. The sweetest most loving soul I know. I certainly look like my pictures...some say even better in person .. :) I go to church!!!! I love GodI am extremely affectionate....love to cuddle. I'm not looking for Mr right now.....I want Mr RIGHT. I am not looking for a soul to take care of me ...However, I do believe that people should take care of each other. Futhermore, If someone wants to know more about me ...I hope you have some free time.....cause your going to have to take some quality time to get to know me ..... LETS JUST GET REAL

  • Gretchen

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am an outgoing, fun loving, and independent woman looking for someone to laugh with and have fun. Most of all, let's be ourselves, have fun and just let things happen naturally. :-) About me?? I am a professional who works full time but enjoy having fun after hours. I have two amazing teenage sons who live with me 50% of the time. Soccer is a huge part of our world as they both play year round. So ok, yes I am a soccer mom (ugh!), but wait . . . I swear don't wear mom jeans or drive a minivan!! SUV is the closest I will get to that & I can still rock the skinny jeans. ;-)I believe that life is full of challenges and how we handle that is what shows our character. I roll with the punches and don't believe in wasting energy on things that cannot be changed. A sense of humor is so important as we have to be able to laugh at all life throws us, good and bad, and just enjoy! I am a very positive person and I do my best to surround myself with like-minded people. I believe in helping others and my friends would tell you I truly would give you the shirt off my back (as long as I have a bra on! LOL!) I love life, meeting new people and having new experiences; it keeps things fresh! And...it keeps me waking up every day eager to face the possibilities & looking forward to whatever life brings. I love music, movies, getting out & about on the town or outdoors and enjoy staying in too sometimes. But I enjoy a good cuddle at the end of a day more than almost anything!!Who I'm looking for?? Ultimately, I am looking for a partner who can share in all life has to offer. A man who is fit, confident, decisive, spontaneous, strong but sensitive and who is comfortable with those same qualities in a woman. He can make me laugh & laugh at himself, carry on a conversation & stimulate me intellectually but let loose & have fun too. Someone who can show me things I’ve not experienced and enjoy the adventure in that with me. Ok, ok, like every woman out there I would love to find someone who thinks all my qualities and quirks are the cutest thing ever!! :-) But, realistically, balance is what is key & I hope to find that someone who balances me as much as I do him.I look forward to meeting you!! A nice walk in the park & get to know each other. :-)

  • Ginnie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hey there, fellow meetville users having any luck yet? Me neither...still looking for someone to date/hang out with, have fun and a lot of laughs that may or may not lead to something more. Ultimately I do want to find you ..the man...the man I am meant to spend the rest of my life with . The reason why non of the others worked out.. In mean time, I don't want to be a hermit or complete home body the rest of my life...I enjoy the companionship of a man. lets chat, hang out and go from there (-: .If after reading this, you think we are compatible and there could be a mutual attraction...message me. I want to find someone I have an intellectual and physical connection with. If either of us after a date or two think , nah..this is not going to work...we can bag it...such say, sorry I don't think this is going to work...and we both move on to our next victims...haha jk...no but seriously...don't be afraid of hurting my feelings. I like a person to be upfront and honest with me.. Life is short ..we need to be with who we want to be with. Folllow your gut *** me right all the time. Its when I *** that gets me in trouble..LOL I have a full time job, my own vehicle, my own place to live( house and 6 acres in country) and I hate drama. Therefore, I don't think it is unreasonable to want a man with a job, his own car and own place to live. I am not looking for someone to support me and I do not want to support a man. The best relationships are ***. In my early years, some of my friends said I was a doormat or too caring because I would feel sorry for a man and try to fix his problems and take care of him. I am older now, I have my life figured out, not looking to fix anybody's problems anymore...And I hate drama!! I want someone that never leaves my mind and I smile when I think about them. I may have overwhelming full plate with work and kids, but I have a big heart and to the right man, I will show you why it never worked out with any other woman before. MY STORY - I am a very open straightforward person. I don.t play head games...Give it to me straight and I will too. Don't be afraid to ask me something...Questions are good.. It helps you get to know a person. I have been in only 3 serious relationships in my life. 2 marriages and recently a committed relationship. I am a full time working mother of ***yr old boy and 8yr old girl ) and a couple foster teen boys. .I can do it all though some days I don't want too...LOL... Not looking for a father , they have fathers who love them very much. But of course my kids are very important to me but I have a big heart that has been broken and mended a few times...ready to find Mr. Right. It is totally cool if you have kids, but I am not looking to give birth to any more (-: Love mine to death...but that part of my life is done of having more.. I am looking to find someone compatible to hang out with and have fun and who knows may turn into something long term. In a relationship, I only have eyes for you and no desires for anyone else...I hope you are the same. Dating is different, though I realize we are out there is this horrible single world trying to find someone who is like us and just maybe spend the rest of our lifes with...but maybe we decide we arent soul mates...but I sure like hanging out with you once in awhile and have a good time. I am all for committed relationships but not doing the married thing anymore. I say that...but I suppose that could change with the right person. I can commit without a piece of paper. I am a strong believer everything happens for a reason and there is that one person you are destined to be with. Others you have been in your life for a reason...just not necessary to be your soul mate. I been down the road both marriages and in a relationship and yes long term I want to find someone to share my live with. Taking one day at time. Having someone special to go to bed and wake up to every morning that you love with every fiber of your being...is what I am looking. Right now hoping to find someone with similar interests. From having a quite evening at home snuggled on the couch watching a good movie, to camping, or dancing the night away. A walk on the beach, a drive up the coast for the weekend, BBQs with friends, Fishing on a Saturday morning. Comedy shows and bands are good too. Family activities are awesome.. My needs are simple. Does not take alot of $$ to please me. I dont like fancy restaurants or expensive clothes. I have a wide range of interests. (-: I like good movies or tv shows.. After a long day at work look forward to a low key evening at home. I like to try new things so I would consider myself somewhat adventurous. I think a good relationship has to have a great intimacy connection as well as intellectual You dont have to have everything in common but definitely some things. Its good for both to have mutual friends as well as maybe you want a guys night out. Totally cool to me. I am very straightforward and try not to be too assertive. I am easy going and open. I want to find that one person that feels for me as I do them and we just can not live with out each other. But I am realistic. It will take time. Maybe I will meet a few friends along the way to hang out with and venture out on a date on the weekend...or stay in and cuddle with a home cooked meal and good movie...You sound similar to me...msg me just do it...(-; oh ps..if we do end up chatting on here, I am a texter and *** I really want to get to know you first on here before we venture giving out numbers and adding each other as friends on *** chat to see what some interests are and decide together (-:

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