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I cannot describe my personality in one word, at least a dozen of those words describe me (artsy, hippie, hedonist, geek, sapiophile, etc. etc.). Yup, human beings are dynamic, go figure.I love my life, my kids, my dogs... even my son's cat. At this point I would describe my life as nearly perfect. I'm happy with all I have, all I've done, all I've let go, and all that I hold dear. I have a descent job (career)... Let's leave it at that.I do not drink, as a personal choice, I don't have an issue with it, just don't enjoy it.I have tattoos. I love my tattoos. I love people with tattoos and the stories behind them.I'm an artist, I guess you'd say semi-professional as I've sold paintings here and there for a long time. It's one of the greatest loves of my life... creative expression.I'm a very handy person. I enjoy doing home renos and I love to learn new things.I enjoy staying active. I hike and bike and exercise rigorously 4 to 6 times a week, depending on the week. I love music of all genres (more so with rock, less so with country and rap). I'm a concert junkie, it's how I plan my holidays/road trips. Music is life!!Something that totally sets me apart from other women... I absolutely loathe shopping, I'm not into makeup and fashion is just something that happens... So, yeah, I'm not a "high maintenance girly girl". I do, however, love to cook. I'm a chronic quitter... with smoking that is. I've done this on again/off again thing for years, quitting for 2 years at a time. One day it will stick, just hasn't yet. I've been on my own for a long time. I preferred to raise my kids without a "step-parent" in the picture. I guess I'm a little old-school in that regard. But now they are nearly grown, it's time to change pace. What I seek is another completely dynamic person with positive and negative qualities that mesh well with my own positive and negative qualities (yes, we all have them both). I would prefer someone relatively close to my age who is a music and art lover. Someone who likes to hike, bike and stay active. Someone who is secure in who they are on their own and as a "couple". By no means do I "need" anyone to the point that I'll settle again, that never works. All that I have is too important to let just anyone in. Compatibility, communication, commrodary... Those are all top priorities. And, of course, the standard, honest, sincere, intelligent, kind... yadda yadda... I think those things go without saying. :) Thanks for your time and best of luck to all in the search.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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  • Quinta

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    First time I've ever done anything like this, just interested to see what's out there and maybe find a friend who has similiar interests. I work too much (trying to change that) and have 2 beautiful daughters, 14 and 10, that are my life! I live in the middle of nowhere but enjoy it thoroughly. As I sit here typing on my deck with the music cranked and not one neighbor close enough to complain :)I would consider myself a rather laid back person. Generally have fun doing most anything. I'm a huge NY Giants fan (loving on the "other" Haven't had much time to enjoy many hobbies recently but I love to play poker, go bowling every once in awhile and bike trips with my girls. I love all types of music, listening to and playing as well. I enjoy being outdoors, hiking, biking and enjoying this beautiful state we live in. Camping and bonfires (when we don't have all these fire bans) with a few cold beers, just wish I had more time.One key point to who I am is the fact that I am brutally honest! At 41, I'm very much over playing games! I deal with enough teenage drama through my daughters world that I have no desire to deal with it in an adult relationship, friendship or otherwise. I've come to the conclusion that life is going to take us wherever it chooses and as soon as we accept we're just along for the ride, the sooner we can relax and enjoy it!In regards to the "occasional" smoker in my profile..... for those of you who smoke, you're well aware there is no such thing. Didn't want to lie so "occasional" means I'm trying to quit but not quite there yet. One of these days I hope I can change that status to "Non"! I'm also NOT looking for a one night stand or friends with benefits!!....or any other location that appeals to you :) Ok, maybe we should hold off on the boat ride until the 3rd date. Somewhere we can actually hear each other, get to know one another (silence in a movie theatre just doesn't work so well)!! Good conversation and lots of laughter sounds perfect, over drinks or coffee, your choice!

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I have a fabulous attitude, great hair & good morals. I'm down to earth, easy to please, love to love, have affection to give. I love my 2 cats :) I am a total "save the world, one pet at a time" kind of gal, but I'm not one of those people you'd see on Hard Copy wanted for hoarding animals :) I've never met a stranger: I talk to people in grocery store lines, feed the homeless, and will help just about anyone with whatever they may need. I am dedicated to those I love. I am fun to be around and yet, RESPONSIBLE: I own my own cars, enjoy my home, pay all my bills (on time), haven't been to jail and DON'T use drugs! I am looking for someone who's good hearted, loves animals, is laid back but not drama prone, lazy, or irresponsible. Someone who can laugh with me, cry with me, joke with me, relax with me...a strong man who can just "be" with me.I am serious about finding my special someone…. I want to feel those butterflies you get when you’re thinking about that person and to look forward to the next time I get to see them. I want to check my phone throughout the day and find a text or message from him - you could say that I am looking for my very last, first kiss. I am flexible, nothing too extravagent, but good coffee & conversation will suit me fine. A place with an exit real close, just in case you're weird, so I can slip out easily without anybody noticing me. :)

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