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Ginnie, 41
United States, Minnesota, Inver Grove Heights

Offline, last seen Fri, 06 Feb 2026 17:48:05

About Me

Hey there, fellow meetville users having any luck yet? Me neither...still looking for someone to date/hang out with, have fun and a lot of laughs that may or may not lead to something more. Ultimately I do want to find you ..the man...the man I am meant to spend the rest of my life with . The reason why non of the others worked out.. In mean time, I don't want to be a hermit or complete home body the rest of my life...I enjoy the companionship of a man. lets chat, hang out and go from there (-: .If after reading this, you think we are compatible and there could be a mutual attraction...message me. I want to find someone I have an intellectual and physical connection with. If either of us after a date or two think , nah..this is not going to work...we can bag it...such say, sorry I don't think this is going to work...and we both move on to our next victims...haha jk...no but seriously...don't be afraid of hurting my feelings. I like a person to be upfront and honest with me.. Life is short ..we need to be with who we want to be with. Folllow your gut *** me right all the time. Its when I *** that gets me in trouble..LOL I have a full time job, my own vehicle, my own place to live( house and 6 acres in country) and I hate drama. Therefore, I don't think it is unreasonable to want a man with a job, his own car and own place to live. I am not looking for someone to support me and I do not want to support a man. The best relationships are ***. In my early years, some of my friends said I was a doormat or too caring because I would feel sorry for a man and try to fix his problems and take care of him. I am older now, I have my life figured out, not looking to fix anybody's problems anymore...And I hate drama!! I want someone that never leaves my mind and I smile when I think about them. I may have overwhelming full plate with work and kids, but I have a big heart and to the right man, I will show you why it never worked out with any other woman before. MY STORY - I am a very open straightforward person. I don.t play head games...Give it to me straight and I will too. Don't be afraid to ask me something...Questions are good.. It helps you get to know a person. I have been in only 3 serious relationships in my life. 2 marriages and recently a committed relationship. I am a full time working mother of ***yr old boy and 8yr old girl ) and a couple foster teen boys. .I can do it all though some days I don't want too...LOL... Not looking for a father , they have fathers who love them very much. But of course my kids are very important to me but I have a big heart that has been broken and mended a few times...ready to find Mr. Right. It is totally cool if you have kids, but I am not looking to give birth to any more (-: Love mine to death...but that part of my life is done of having more.. I am looking to find someone compatible to hang out with and have fun and who knows may turn into something long term. In a relationship, I only have eyes for you and no desires for anyone else...I hope you are the same. Dating is different, though I realize we are out there is this horrible single world trying to find someone who is like us and just maybe spend the rest of our lifes with...but maybe we decide we arent soul mates...but I sure like hanging out with you once in awhile and have a good time. I am all for committed relationships but not doing the married thing anymore. I say that...but I suppose that could change with the right person. I can commit without a piece of paper. I am a strong believer everything happens for a reason and there is that one person you are destined to be with. Others you have been in your life for a reason...just not necessary to be your soul mate. I been down the road both marriages and in a relationship and yes long term I want to find someone to share my live with. Taking one day at time. Having someone special to go to bed and wake up to every morning that you love with every fiber of your being...is what I am looking. Right now hoping to find someone with similar interests. From having a quite evening at home snuggled on the couch watching a good movie, to camping, or dancing the night away. A walk on the beach, a drive up the coast for the weekend, BBQs with friends, Fishing on a Saturday morning. Comedy shows and bands are good too. Family activities are awesome.. My needs are simple. Does not take alot of $$ to please me. I dont like fancy restaurants or expensive clothes. I have a wide range of interests. (-: I like good movies or tv shows.. After a long day at work look forward to a low key evening at home. I like to try new things so I would consider myself somewhat adventurous. I think a good relationship has to have a great intimacy connection as well as intellectual You dont have to have everything in common but definitely some things. Its good for both to have mutual friends as well as maybe you want a guys night out. Totally cool to me. I am very straightforward and try not to be too assertive. I am easy going and open. I want to find that one person that feels for me as I do them and we just can not live with out each other. But I am realistic. It will take time. Maybe I will meet a few friends along the way to hang out with and venture out on a date on the weekend...or stay in and cuddle with a home cooked meal and good movie...You sound similar to me...msg me just do it...(-; oh ps..if we do end up chatting on here, I am a texter and *** I really want to get to know you first on here before we venture giving out numbers and adding each other as friends on *** chat to see what some interests are and decide together (-:

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Adventure Music Sailing Tennis
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