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So, how do we succeed at this dating game? Guess I am still trying to figure that one out. If you are on this site, perhaps you are, too.The way I see it is: what we have here is not a problem with scarcity-- there are many many MANY great single guys and gals out there.What we have is a sorting problem. And the way we sort is pretty simple: we openly and honestly tell each other what it is we want and need in a relationship. We also talk about our deal breakers. These open conversations do require the participants to be willing to be vulnerable, for that is truly the only way that anything wonderful can happen between us.(I did say the sorting was simple, I sure didn't say it would be EASY...)As for me, what I am looking for is good conversation and affection. Someone who shows as much interest in me as I do in them. Long, slow, passionate make out sessions. Lots of laughter. A long-term committed relationship is the ultimate goal, yet I am perfectly fine with taking it slow until we both discover that that is what we want.Authenticity and integrity are very important to me, and crucial for a fulfilling relationship.I'll be who I am, you be who you are. If our personalities and interests and dreams mesh, we may be onto something.If not, well, thanks for playing, best of luck...So, shall we have that conversation? I'm up for pretty much anything. We could keep it simple. Coffee or drinks. A walk in the park. Beer and ice cream. I'm game:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Rock Internet Browsing Caribbean Irish Middle Eastern Action Comedy Volleyball
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  • Richardine from Inver Grove Heights | Woman | 45 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a young, fun 45 year old who loves spending time with friends...cooking for them, wine tasting, attending sporting events. I golf when I can, however my game needs work. I like to stay active but enjoy downtime too...reading, movies, hanging by the fire pit. I'm open to trying new things, I don't mind getting dirty..revamped my back yard this summer, even planted an apple tree! I haven't been camping in a long time..would love to go..but the opportuninty hasn't presented itself. The most important thing to me in any relationship is communication. Having meaningful, intellectual conversations is crucial. I'm independant, happy with my life but often feel something's missing. I don't believe we're meant to be alone. I value honesty, respect, and loyalty. Life is so incredibly short I want to enjoy it with someone healthy and grounded, someone with the ability to laugh at the little things, himself, and me. One of many favorite quotes: "Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice."

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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  • Dulcie from Inver Grove Heights | Woman | 41 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I enjoy exercising, watching sports, laughing and playing as much as I can. I'm really easy going and appreciate the little things in life. I'm a prankster and can be pretty silly. I'm a tough cookie having raised 3 boys. Although it has taken its toll on me, I'm ready to take a break... wldnt mind being taken care of a little bit. I have a lot to give in a relationship. I like doing little things to show how much I appreciate you. I'm the type that will help with projects around the house rather than just make you a list. I don't hold a grudge or bring up the past, I'm more likely to make a sarcastic joke. I have no problem apologizing when I'm wrong. I do have a rebelous nature so direct demands usually don't work well on me. Enlighten me, if I respect you, I will listen and probably follow your lead just because I trust your judgement. My favorite Holidays are April Fools and Halloween. My passions: children, animals, laughing, being outdoors- camping, jogging, rollerblading, hiking, biking, snowboarding, water sports. I like exercising and it would be nice to find someone who challenges me in that area and brings new ideas to the table. I like running in half marathons, fun challenging myself to do better and better each time. Flowers have a special way of brightening my day! Fun date ideas to me are comedy clubs, hiking, boat/car shows, sporting events. I am very playful, honest and family means the world to me. I would like to find those characteristics in a partner as well. I want to find my partner in crime... laughing and enjoying the little things in life together. My coworkers would probably say that I'm a prankster and quick witted. I'm always finding ways to make work fun. I’d rather spend money on vacations or quality memories than material things. I would love your help lifting heavy things but if it takes u more than a couple days to get to it, I will find a way to do it myself. I once scooted a huge heavy wall unit from one end of the room to the other... inch by inch. My kids swore someone had to have helped me. Probably because I always insist they carry the groceries in for me cause they are soooo heavy. :) I have a great life, I enjoy it to the fullest everyday. I have 3 great children, my family and friends are amazing, and I love my job. I am actually in love with my life! Then one day I hear a slow song or country song on the radio and my heart sinks as I remember the joy of really being in love and having that partner you absolutely adore. I realize how much better my life could be with that special someone to share it with. I want to feel that again. I'm very easy to get along with so don't hesitate to send me a silly *** yourself! Although if you’re in your 20’s or early 30’s, I’m not interested. Also, I'm a tall girl and height is a deal breaker for me. Wish it wasn't but it is, makes me feel like an amazon woman if I'm taller. I usually prefer 5'11 and up. Yes I will let you slide at 5'10 lol.... but I will be bringing my measuring tape! jk The best first dates: a hike, sporting event, fair, comedy club, kayaking, car or boat show. Doing something you already enjoy while getting to know someone. For the first introduction to see if there is any chemistry; I think coffee, drinks, lunch, or dinner are all ok.

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