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United States, Minnesota, Inver Grove Heights

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About Me

So, how do we succeed at this dating game? Guess I am still trying to figure that one out. If you are on this site, perhaps you are, too.The way I see it is: what we have here is not a problem with scarcity-- there are many many MANY great single guys and gals out there.What we have is a sorting problem. And the way we sort is pretty simple: we openly and honestly tell each other what it is we want and need in a relationship. We also talk about our deal breakers. These open conversations do require the participants to be willing to be vulnerable, for that is truly the only way that anything wonderful can happen between us.(I did say the sorting was simple, I sure didn't say it would be EASY...)As for me, what I am looking for is good conversation and affection. Someone who shows as much interest in me as I do in them. Long, slow, passionate make out sessions. Lots of laughter. A long-term committed relationship is the ultimate goal, yet I am perfectly fine with taking it slow until we both discover that that is what we want.Authenticity and integrity are very important to me, and crucial for a fulfilling relationship.I'll be who I am, you be who you are. If our personalities and interests and dreams mesh, we may be onto something.If not, well, thanks for playing, best of luck...So, shall we have that conversation? I'm up for pretty much anything. We could keep it simple. Coffee or drinks. A walk in the park. Beer and ice cream. I'm game:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Rock Internet Browsing Caribbean Irish Middle Eastern Action Comedy Volleyball
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I enjoy outdoor activities and when given an option would rather be on a trail than a treadmill. I absolutely LOVE my job and try to choose "happiness" every day and to accept that everything is temporary. I believe that the only true contentment in life is found through doing good for others. I'd like to meet someone that would be fun to spend time with, but am not necessarily in a hurry to be in a serious relationship. I enjoy road trips, a great sense of humor, and a positive outlook. I think it is difficult to get to know someone when your mouth is full of food or you're watching a movie, so I would say that an ideal first date would involve doing something active such as hiking or mountain biking. I also think you get to know a lot about a person and compatibility when you do an activity together.

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  • Jenny from Inver Grove Heights | Woman | 44 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm an intelligent and attractive woman who (I think) is well-spoken and loves to get out and experience new things. I love spending time outdoors, dining out, catching a movie or snuggling up at home with my honey and a great book or tv show. Also love having friends over for football (almost here!) and grilling out. Looking for great conversation and company to share good times with. Friendship first is always a plus! Sitting outside enjoying a coffee and great conversation.Update! Please do not message me if you don't have a picture on your profile, if you're my height or just barely over, if you live out of State, if you're "non-religious" or if you're not going to say something fairly intelligent. "hi" doesn't cut it. Not being rude...just my preference! Things I'm learning along the way:-)

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  • Darlena from Inver Grove Heights | Woman | 42 years old | Scorpio
    Darlena

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    This is a first and so not me but here goes. Im fun, Im real, and Im easy going. I dont play games and will run fast if you do. I stand up for myself but apologize like crazy if Im wrong. I play alot but also very serious when provoked. I've had my own business for 12 years. I worked very hard to build it. Business is slow right now and Ive decided its time for something else. I can take care of myself dont need any help for that but if your looking for someone with something financial to offer you should keep looking. Im a very independant person so clingy and jealous dont work for me. Im very loyal but I also think space and time with friends is healthy for any relationship.

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