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United States, Minnesota, Inver Grove Heights

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So, how do we succeed at this dating game? Guess I am still trying to figure that one out. If you are on this site, perhaps you are, too.The way I see it is: what we have here is not a problem with scarcity-- there are many many MANY great single guys and gals out there.What we have is a sorting problem. And the way we sort is pretty simple: we openly and honestly tell each other what it is we want and need in a relationship. We also talk about our deal breakers. These open conversations do require the participants to be willing to be vulnerable, for that is truly the only way that anything wonderful can happen between us.(I did say the sorting was simple, I sure didn't say it would be EASY...)As for me, what I am looking for is good conversation and affection. Someone who shows as much interest in me as I do in them. Long, slow, passionate make out sessions. Lots of laughter. A long-term committed relationship is the ultimate goal, yet I am perfectly fine with taking it slow until we both discover that that is what we want.Authenticity and integrity are very important to me, and crucial for a fulfilling relationship.I'll be who I am, you be who you are. If our personalities and interests and dreams mesh, we may be onto something.If not, well, thanks for playing, best of luck...So, shall we have that conversation? I'm up for pretty much anything. We could keep it simple. Coffee or drinks. A walk in the park. Beer and ice cream. I'm game:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Rock Internet Browsing Caribbean Irish Middle Eastern Action Comedy Volleyball
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  • Kia from Inver Grove Heights | Woman | 42 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I love the outdoors, hiking & photography. I enjoy a variety of activities from walking on the beach to going out to dance clubs. I love all types of music from classical to heavy metal, and hope to go to a few concerts in the area. Eating and cooking good food is something I enjoy. For weekday exercise I enjoy yoga, I like to get out on the weekends for a hike, or play at the beach. In my downtime, I like reading a good book and listening to music.Looking for someone who will laugh with me, and enjoys trying new things. Let's go for a coffee and have a nice chat to see if we have mutual interests.

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  • Tracie from Inver Grove Heights | Woman | 43 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I have spent a number of years in the land of the sun and realized that everything is not wonderful with fabulous weather. I am not sure what I am looking for however I do know that I will not deal with any drama. I am long past the time to play games, I don't jump from man to man and I am just fine being alone for the right reason than with someone for the wrong ones. I have a son and grandson (who I absolutely adore!) I am close to my family and have a very large extended family. I have lived a few places and love to travel. Anything else.... Please ask....Oh Yah... I LOVE Baseball... No I mean I LOVE Baseball and am a huge SF Giants fan!! Coffee or a drink.... Someone where that is public and we can see how it works out.

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  • Alvina from Inver Grove Heights | Woman | 45 years old | Pisces
    Alvina

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    !! Im looking for someone to spend my life with who like me wants someone not NEED someone.I am a chef so my lover must love food and maby even slip into the kitchen for a kiss or even lick the bowl,even give a pointer never to old to teach an old Kat new tricks.I also love the outdoors camping,fishing,boating anything so that im not always stuck in the house Im not a prissy girl getting dirty is fun....I am a joker try not to be so serious about it all to many stesses in life to not play around and help that bad day turn into good one.I love music all kinds but Country is my passion and would like to take my 2 left feet and learn to do some sh.. kicken in my boots...Im very busy but the time I have I want to be with someone who cant wait to see me the next time and who want to make that time even if its just watching a movie in the dark. KISSING ,HOLDING HANDS,2 of my very fav's,Im a very sensual person,so expect public affection on both ends. So if you want to meet me send a message lets see where we go good luck finding your special love in life. I like for you to plan this date,If your listening to what we talk about you will have no problem planning this date,keep it simple so we can see if sparks fly

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