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United States, Minnesota, Inver Grove Heights

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So, how do we succeed at this dating game? Guess I am still trying to figure that one out. If you are on this site, perhaps you are, too.The way I see it is: what we have here is not a problem with scarcity-- there are many many MANY great single guys and gals out there.What we have is a sorting problem. And the way we sort is pretty simple: we openly and honestly tell each other what it is we want and need in a relationship. We also talk about our deal breakers. These open conversations do require the participants to be willing to be vulnerable, for that is truly the only way that anything wonderful can happen between us.(I did say the sorting was simple, I sure didn't say it would be EASY...)As for me, what I am looking for is good conversation and affection. Someone who shows as much interest in me as I do in them. Long, slow, passionate make out sessions. Lots of laughter. A long-term committed relationship is the ultimate goal, yet I am perfectly fine with taking it slow until we both discover that that is what we want.Authenticity and integrity are very important to me, and crucial for a fulfilling relationship.I'll be who I am, you be who you are. If our personalities and interests and dreams mesh, we may be onto something.If not, well, thanks for playing, best of luck...So, shall we have that conversation? I'm up for pretty much anything. We could keep it simple. Coffee or drinks. A walk in the park. Beer and ice cream. I'm game:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Rock Internet Browsing Caribbean Irish Middle Eastern Action Comedy Volleyball
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm looking for attraction, chemistry, compatibility, friendship and that ultimate spark! I'm confident, clever, quick witted, intelligent, passionate about life, easy to be with and I enjoy the simple things in life. Having a balance is important to me. Having the whole cake' is trivial. What I am looking for is someone I get excited just thinking about and can't wait to be with. One who can carry a conversation about almost anything and challenge the way I think. It's ok to disagree, it's what makes us human. Someone who I can laugh with, cry with, grow with and learn from. A person who feels the same way in return. Someone who has a similar outlook on life and wants to take a risk at the possibilities. Honesty, integrity and family are important to me. If you feel we may be compatible and you have something special to offer I'd like to hear from you. I'm not frantically looking for anything serious, nor do I expect an overnight relationship. However, if the right one comes along, I am open to the possibilities. Maybe he is on here maybe he is not. There is only one way to find out. First date something easy like a Margarita on a patio, then go from there.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    i love to dance and just about any thing out doors. like good movies. im just a good counrty girl. i have kids so they will come first. and i will allwas make time for my man. i allso have a grandson that is 6months old he is my life!!!!!Update I don't date sleep or talk to married men so try some one that don't care about ur wife's thank u. and dont make a date and not keep it becouse then i will never talk to u ever just sayin. AND THE FRIST DATE IS NOT GOIN TO UR HOUSE FOR SEX LOL

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