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United States, Minnesota, Inver Grove Heights

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So, how do we succeed at this dating game? Guess I am still trying to figure that one out. If you are on this site, perhaps you are, too.The way I see it is: what we have here is not a problem with scarcity-- there are many many MANY great single guys and gals out there.What we have is a sorting problem. And the way we sort is pretty simple: we openly and honestly tell each other what it is we want and need in a relationship. We also talk about our deal breakers. These open conversations do require the participants to be willing to be vulnerable, for that is truly the only way that anything wonderful can happen between us.(I did say the sorting was simple, I sure didn't say it would be EASY...)As for me, what I am looking for is good conversation and affection. Someone who shows as much interest in me as I do in them. Long, slow, passionate make out sessions. Lots of laughter. A long-term committed relationship is the ultimate goal, yet I am perfectly fine with taking it slow until we both discover that that is what we want.Authenticity and integrity are very important to me, and crucial for a fulfilling relationship.I'll be who I am, you be who you are. If our personalities and interests and dreams mesh, we may be onto something.If not, well, thanks for playing, best of luck...So, shall we have that conversation? I'm up for pretty much anything. We could keep it simple. Coffee or drinks. A walk in the park. Beer and ice cream. I'm game:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Rock Internet Browsing Caribbean Irish Middle Eastern Action Comedy Volleyball
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

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