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So, how do we succeed at this dating game? Guess I am still trying to figure that one out. If you are on this site, perhaps you are, too.The way I see it is: what we have here is not a problem with scarcity-- there are many many MANY great single guys and gals out there.What we have is a sorting problem. And the way we sort is pretty simple: we openly and honestly tell each other what it is we want and need in a relationship. We also talk about our deal breakers. These open conversations do require the participants to be willing to be vulnerable, for that is truly the only way that anything wonderful can happen between us.(I did say the sorting was simple, I sure didn't say it would be EASY...)As for me, what I am looking for is good conversation and affection. Someone who shows as much interest in me as I do in them. Long, slow, passionate make out sessions. Lots of laughter. A long-term committed relationship is the ultimate goal, yet I am perfectly fine with taking it slow until we both discover that that is what we want.Authenticity and integrity are very important to me, and crucial for a fulfilling relationship.I'll be who I am, you be who you are. If our personalities and interests and dreams mesh, we may be onto something.If not, well, thanks for playing, best of luck...So, shall we have that conversation? I'm up for pretty much anything. We could keep it simple. Coffee or drinks. A walk in the park. Beer and ice cream. I'm game:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Rock Internet Browsing Caribbean Irish Middle Eastern Action Comedy Volleyball
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  • Fauna from Inver Grove Heights | Woman | 44 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hello! I'm very compassionate, nurturing and loyal. I feel with my relaxed and caring nature, people can be themselves and feel comfortable around me. I am secure with myself, genuine and live with integrity. I hope to meet someone to share in experiences, enjoy lots of laughs and build a lasting relationship.I'm close with my family, even though they do not live locally and I speak with them often. I value my friends and feel fortunate to have special long term friendships with each one of them. Some of them I've known since elementary school. They know they can count on me anytime to be there for them and share life's experiences. Having no kids of my own, I commend my friends who are parents and am proud to have accumulated a sweet group of "little" buddies as well.I love to smile, making others smile, my dog, sushi, the beach and anything around or on the water, besides seaweed & sharks. Dog beach with my lab is a favorite spot. I do yoga, play golf (sort of), like going to spin classes & working out. I like to hike and go occasionally with friends, and then we have lunch afterwards. Is that defeating the purpose? I like all kinds of music...live music in a big or small setting, I love. I’m pretty much up for almost anything and will try something at least once. I hope to meet a good guy with an easygoing attitude and sense of humor; one with integrity, compassion and interest in others. Someone who'll be my best friend, lover, confidant and enjoys life. I will promise to be the same to you in return. I’m looking for someone, if mutually wanting to date, who's open to and available for a relationship if it eventually moves in that direction. Let’s enjoy some laughs and getting to know each other. Why not? There’s always the catch & release option. Just saying… Something casual; coffee, drink or glass of wine to see if there's chemistry and then go from there.

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  • Annabelle from Inver Grove Heights | Woman | 45 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like walks in the park, summer nights, camping, anything in the mountains, love riding with someone on a harley! Ain't nothing like the wind in your hair and the freedom that you feel on it!! No, its not my bike any longer. I'm not a rider I am the passenger. It's more fun that way!!!I love the races and fast cars! I missed every race this year :***coming up though!! ***and maybe one more, summer isn't over yet! :***day I would like to see the pro's on the big tracks!!! I'm a very caring person with a big heart! I enjoy spending time with my adult children and especially my grandchildren! I'm looking for someone that wants to ride life together. I am looking for the one who is ready to grow old together, enjoying what life offers us now that the kids are grown and enjoying one of the best parts of being a parent is being a Grandparent!! Something to decide together. I would prefer grabbing coffee and go to a park or someplace quiet where we can talk and learn more about each other, if the feeling is right than we can decide together again if we should keep the date going and have lunch, dinner or whatever it may be. I feel uncomfortable eating while trying to talk and learn about this man across from me or next to me (if the feeling was right for the first part of our date) the interruptions of a waiter or waitress is annoying. lol :) agree? Who says ya gotta be traditional? Uniqueness is ideal :)

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  • Ettie from Inver Grove Heights | Woman | 43 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm German, Norwegian, Swedish and Indian women who's looking for that special person to enjoy all the fun and love life can bring. Life has brought me some challenges never thought I'd be single at 43. I found that there is one thing in life and that is, it's always changing. How you adapted to the changes is the key to your personal growth. I'm spiritual person who loves to be with her family and friends. Good friends are hard to come by so I cherish mine. I'm hardworking, very outgoing young lady who absolutely love to laugh. I have a great sense of humor. I'm self motivated successful been with the same employer for 23yrs. I do not take things to serious, life is a gift so I don't take it for granted. I,have a passionate soul, love to kiss/cuddle, I'm sensitive, loyal and honest, I will not lie as my grandma always said "honesty is the best policy" Communication is the key to any relationship. You are who you are you can't go into a relationship thinking you're going to change them. I've have found if you are friends first then you'll be great lovers. I'm well traveled always wanted to sky dive. I'm adventuress and can fly at the set of her pants lol. It doesn't take me 3hrs to get ready, but I do like to dress up and be sexy. I have dated younger men and I'm not looking to date someone over 45 :( sorry. If any of these qualities caught your eye send me a note and we can see if we are a good fit. I'm open to anything. Having a great conversions getting to know each other is the perfect start

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