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About Me

I am an outgoing, fun loving, and independent woman looking for someone to laugh with and have fun. Most of all, let's be ourselves, have fun and just let things happen naturally. :-) About me?? I am a professional who works full time but enjoy having fun after hours. I have two amazing teenage sons who live with me 50% of the time. Soccer is a huge part of our world as they both play year round. So ok, yes I am a soccer mom (ugh!), but wait . . . I swear don't wear mom jeans or drive a minivan!! SUV is the closest I will get to that & I can still rock the skinny jeans. ;-)I believe that life is full of challenges and how we handle that is what shows our character. I roll with the punches and don't believe in wasting energy on things that cannot be changed. A sense of humor is so important as we have to be able to laugh at all life throws us, good and bad, and just enjoy! I am a very positive person and I do my best to surround myself with like-minded people. I believe in helping others and my friends would tell you I truly would give you the shirt off my back (as long as I have a bra on! LOL!) I love life, meeting new people and having new experiences; it keeps things fresh! And...it keeps me waking up every day eager to face the possibilities & looking forward to whatever life brings. I love music, movies, getting out & about on the town or outdoors and enjoy staying in too sometimes. But I enjoy a good cuddle at the end of a day more than almost anything!!Who I'm looking for?? Ultimately, I am looking for a partner who can share in all life has to offer. A man who is fit, confident, decisive, spontaneous, strong but sensitive and who is comfortable with those same qualities in a woman. He can make me laugh & laugh at himself, carry on a conversation & stimulate me intellectually but let loose & have fun too. Someone who can show me things I’ve not experienced and enjoy the adventure in that with me. Ok, ok, like every woman out there I would love to find someone who thinks all my qualities and quirks are the cutest thing ever!! :-) But, realistically, balance is what is key & I hope to find that someone who balances me as much as I do him.I look forward to meeting you!! A nice walk in the park & get to know each other. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tenley

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hey there gents. I'm a smart aleck, a little reserved and button up till I get to know folks, but improving on that with age! Looking for someone who also loves to point and laugh at others! lol. I love music and am rarely anywhere without it playing. I lean toward classic rock/ some alt rock and blues, but truly have yet to find a genre that has completely earned my disdain... This is true?? I'm a big fan of NFL football, but not the Seahawks. You local boys will have to get over that one. I'm originally from the 'Burgh and I bleed black and gold. Here we go! I am a mother of 5 beautiful, fantastical, amazing kids and 3 grandsons. They are my heart and soul and have been and will continue to be my priority in this life. I have done what I must to ensure the best life for them, and because of that I have few regrets concerning them. A worthy goal! My oldest daughter and her family are here and my reason for choosing this place. Quickly, I dig live music, men who have a decent command of the English language (prolly drives me nuts, and "than" and "then" are NOT interchangeable, folks!), who can turn an occasional tool, and I am a bit of a geek so if a bit of Marvel or silly Syfy bothers you, well I'm not supressing my enthusiasm, so there you go. Star Wars rocks. (If that piqued your interest, the next answers are Empire, DUH!) l enjoy getting into the details of film and the shows that I like. DVD extras, commentaries, and even some podcasts, are fun if I'm into something and have the time. That's the key. Time. But what is sheeting rain good for? Lol! I love Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Game of Thrones, House of Cards, and occasionally a good comedy though in my opinion they're hard to find. As for books, I like to read a good story. Love that guy! Having literally just moved into the area, 2 things are true. First, I really don't have time to complete this thing and say anything all that clever as the job hunt is on. Second, please understand that I am starting OVER here. Literally. Job, place, life, friends. So if you want to know what I bring to the table? Me. I work very hard, love the people I bring into my life like crazy, and am a passionate person about the things I believe, and the people I back. If you've read this far ( and don't want to punch me just over football alone) give me a shout. You might even be able to tolerate the ACTUAL me! No pressure, good music. Light conversation. A drink, a bite, or even a walk...Time to just chat and see if we click. Could find a friend at least, or more later at best .

  • Hye

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a little bit country, and a lot of rock-n-roll. I enjoy fishing and hunting. I prefer to hang out in comfy clothing, but can and do deck out well. Although I like and enjoy fun, I love when someone else comes up with a new idea to try. I have an incredibly open mind, but, please have couth. There is almost nothing I like more than listening to music, and I've been known to play bass guitar. Honesty is the best way to turn me on. I am interested in finding a friend to hang out with, and then possibly date. Let's face it, guys, I am no spring chicken, but I haven't yet found that certain unique person to make a marriage match, so I have never been married. Should the right person venture into my life, I might be agreeable to settling down. I like to cook, but that doesn't mean I'm any good at it. I like to have a neat home, but it can be lived in. Working is a serious thing to me. I understand things happen in life, so I won't diss those who have no work, but I am NOT in the market to be a sugar mamma. I may have given the wrong impression in the first paragraph; I am not a tom boy. I paint my nails and like wearing SOME makeup. I also like to wrestle but do not enjoy being hurt. I am a woman and men are still stronger than I am. I value the word RESPECT. You give me that and we will be friends for a long time. Maybe walking around a park, lunch, coffee...no movies, people don't seem to like it when you talk in the movies. A jet ride to where ever...lol just kidding. It might be fun to go skydiving. Making dinner together.....just something where we can chat and find out if we want a second date.

  • Zofia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    i want someone that laughs and can joke around aka smartass... as i am one myself.. someone that can dress up or down to go out. i like to have a nice eveing at home watching movies and cuddling.. Or maybe go out on the town.....i will not be with anyone that has hit a woman.. (i've been through that before and promised myself i would never put my self threw that again) not into guys that have been in and out of jail/prison...not saying that people dont make mistakes.. but when its over and over and over again.. there is a problem.... i have my sh*ttogether and expect the same from you. please dont lie to me.. i wont lie to you.. I dont understand why people lie????? it's stupid.. no cheaters... and if your still hooked up on your past wife? girlfriend? or have alot of drama in your life... i'm not for you... I have one son, he is 22 and is buying his own home, has his own truck and cycle, and pays his own bills.. has a GREAT job... He is an AMAZING young man. I will ALWAYS ALWAYS put him first in my heart!!!! I also have a grandson that is 7 from my oldest son that past away 4 years ago Nov. Oh ya... and if you "have" to drink EVERYDAY! than your not for me either... i was married to that before.. dont get me wrong, i love to go and have a few and relax.. football? pool? baseball? any sport? or just hang with friends.. but just not everyday/night.... and you have to like to bbq with family and frieds.. cause during summer???? it's time for pool party's and bbqs....... good luck to all... fishon!!! Something simple... I think the first meeting is not a "real" date... but after that??? who knows??? I'm up for anything FUN!!!

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