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Risa, 41

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About Me

NOT SEEKING INTIMATE ENCOUNTERS First off I'm a single Mom and I work VERY hard. If you DON'T like kids..(or my dogs) .. we won't get along. My daughter comes first.. while highly capable she's pretty awesome and extremely well adjusted. Respect is not an option, it's demanded. I am in healthcare surrounded by people who need me 8hrs a day. I'm not looking to be a barfly or run non stop after I'm off of work. I like to smile n laugh a lot. Life is really tooo short to get down for long. Have been lucky enough to surround myself with an amazing network of friends and family. Cooking with my friends/partners is something I really love to do. I can do simple to complicated food lol ... don't know how? I'll teach ya some easy ones. It's been said I'm more of a 'guy's kinda gal' .. I don't consider myself a ultra feminine/girlie-girl... I'm not prissy.. I dont' care about the latest fashion trends but more into my own style and comfort :) However, I do like dressing upon occasion.. This being said..I'm not your hunting or fishing pal either. I work very hard at what I do...and I like to relax and have fun. My career is in healthcare and I'm surrounded by folks who are physically and emotionally dependant on me for their every need. This means I like to relax and mellow out after work -- not see how many clubs can be seen in a night. First date? Hmmmm I'm a coffee and tea drinker...I DO drink, albeit more socially or with friends. I used to go dancing all the time but after working so many consecutive years in healthcare running on my feet all day/night, I kind of lost the drive to do so LOL...yet I do like to do so from time to time. I love to shoot pool even though I'm terrible at it. I have a minor competitive streak that comes out of me when surrounded by good friends, laughter, pool tables n beer.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Fauna

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hello! I'm very compassionate, nurturing and loyal. I feel with my relaxed and caring nature, people can be themselves and feel comfortable around me. I am secure with myself, genuine and live with integrity. I hope to meet someone to share in experiences, enjoy lots of laughs and build a lasting relationship.I'm close with my family, even though they do not live locally and I speak with them often. I value my friends and feel fortunate to have special long term friendships with each one of them. Some of them I've known since elementary school. They know they can count on me anytime to be there for them and share life's experiences. Having no kids of my own, I commend my friends who are parents and am proud to have accumulated a sweet group of "little" buddies as well.I love to smile, making others smile, my dog, sushi, the beach and anything around or on the water, besides seaweed & sharks. Dog beach with my lab is a favorite spot. I do yoga, play golf (sort of), like going to spin classes & working out. I like to hike and go occasionally with friends, and then we have lunch afterwards. Is that defeating the purpose? I like all kinds of music...live music in a big or small setting, I love. I’m pretty much up for almost anything and will try something at least once. I hope to meet a good guy with an easygoing attitude and sense of humor; one with integrity, compassion and interest in others. Someone who'll be my best friend, lover, confidant and enjoys life. I will promise to be the same to you in return. I’m looking for someone, if mutually wanting to date, who's open to and available for a relationship if it eventually moves in that direction. Let’s enjoy some laughs and getting to know each other. Why not? There’s always the catch & release option. Just saying… Something casual; coffee, drink or glass of wine to see if there's chemistry and then go from there.

  • Rosanna

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I wanna be crazy about someone that's crazy about me. :-) My taste in music is vast.... I appreciate all music. I work hard and I work a lot...I struggle with balancing it .... give me a reason to want to find that balance. My history is interesting; definitely to be shared when trust is earned. Not everyone gets to know everything. :-.. relocated here in April. Lastly: if I've added you as a favorite; it means you've caught my attention with something you've written. If you aren't interested or do not feel we are match: please remove yourself... Totally cool with that! Happy fishing! What I do know.... movies are not a good idea when you are trying to get to know someone new; who wants to hear us talking through the movie? :-)Surprise me. First meeting should be simple, non-committal.

  • Ginnie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hey there, fellow meetville users having any luck yet? Me neither...still looking for someone to date/hang out with, have fun and a lot of laughs that may or may not lead to something more. Ultimately I do want to find you ..the man...the man I am meant to spend the rest of my life with . The reason why non of the others worked out.. In mean time, I don't want to be a hermit or complete home body the rest of my life...I enjoy the companionship of a man. lets chat, hang out and go from there (-: .If after reading this, you think we are compatible and there could be a mutual attraction...message me. I want to find someone I have an intellectual and physical connection with. If either of us after a date or two think , nah..this is not going to work...we can bag it...such say, sorry I don't think this is going to work...and we both move on to our next victims...haha jk...no but seriously...don't be afraid of hurting my feelings. I like a person to be upfront and honest with me.. Life is short ..we need to be with who we want to be with. Folllow your gut *** me right all the time. Its when I *** that gets me in trouble..LOL I have a full time job, my own vehicle, my own place to live( house and 6 acres in country) and I hate drama. Therefore, I don't think it is unreasonable to want a man with a job, his own car and own place to live. I am not looking for someone to support me and I do not want to support a man. The best relationships are ***. In my early years, some of my friends said I was a doormat or too caring because I would feel sorry for a man and try to fix his problems and take care of him. I am older now, I have my life figured out, not looking to fix anybody's problems anymore...And I hate drama!! I want someone that never leaves my mind and I smile when I think about them. I may have overwhelming full plate with work and kids, but I have a big heart and to the right man, I will show you why it never worked out with any other woman before. MY STORY - I am a very open straightforward person. I don.t play head games...Give it to me straight and I will too. Don't be afraid to ask me something...Questions are good.. It helps you get to know a person. I have been in only 3 serious relationships in my life. 2 marriages and recently a committed relationship. I am a full time working mother of ***yr old boy and 8yr old girl ) and a couple foster teen boys. .I can do it all though some days I don't want too...LOL... Not looking for a father , they have fathers who love them very much. But of course my kids are very important to me but I have a big heart that has been broken and mended a few times...ready to find Mr. Right. It is totally cool if you have kids, but I am not looking to give birth to any more (-: Love mine to death...but that part of my life is done of having more.. I am looking to find someone compatible to hang out with and have fun and who knows may turn into something long term. In a relationship, I only have eyes for you and no desires for anyone else...I hope you are the same. Dating is different, though I realize we are out there is this horrible single world trying to find someone who is like us and just maybe spend the rest of our lifes with...but maybe we decide we arent soul mates...but I sure like hanging out with you once in awhile and have a good time. I am all for committed relationships but not doing the married thing anymore. I say that...but I suppose that could change with the right person. I can commit without a piece of paper. I am a strong believer everything happens for a reason and there is that one person you are destined to be with. Others you have been in your life for a reason...just not necessary to be your soul mate. I been down the road both marriages and in a relationship and yes long term I want to find someone to share my live with. Taking one day at time. Having someone special to go to bed and wake up to every morning that you love with every fiber of your being...is what I am looking. Right now hoping to find someone with similar interests. From having a quite evening at home snuggled on the couch watching a good movie, to camping, or dancing the night away. A walk on the beach, a drive up the coast for the weekend, BBQs with friends, Fishing on a Saturday morning. Comedy shows and bands are good too. Family activities are awesome.. My needs are simple. Does not take alot of $$ to please me. I dont like fancy restaurants or expensive clothes. I have a wide range of interests. (-: I like good movies or tv shows.. After a long day at work look forward to a low key evening at home. I like to try new things so I would consider myself somewhat adventurous. I think a good relationship has to have a great intimacy connection as well as intellectual You dont have to have everything in common but definitely some things. Its good for both to have mutual friends as well as maybe you want a guys night out. Totally cool to me. I am very straightforward and try not to be too assertive. I am easy going and open. I want to find that one person that feels for me as I do them and we just can not live with out each other. But I am realistic. It will take time. Maybe I will meet a few friends along the way to hang out with and venture out on a date on the weekend...or stay in and cuddle with a home cooked meal and good movie...You sound similar to me...msg me just do it...(-; oh ps..if we do end up chatting on here, I am a texter and *** I really want to get to know you first on here before we venture giving out numbers and adding each other as friends on *** chat to see what some interests are and decide together (-:

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