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United States, Minnesota, Inver Grove Heights

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This is the part where I try to describe who I am and what I want without making myself look like a conceited princess or a shallow *ss...Ok I got this:Transplanted myself here from East Coast and I do like it despite the rain. Miss my family (roots) & the food so I try to get back more than once a year.Sports...Yes! I like to watch and go to games esp if my team is playing but, it won't rule my Sat or Sundays.I'm a beach girl... always will be. I grew up with it in my back yard. I do camp & have to say 3 days is my max Lol, I'll be missing my shower gels by that time.I have two teenagers and they live with me 50% of the time. They are the joys of my life when they are not bickering with each other :) While I am a package deal and before we even "go there" , we would need to build our relationship first. I am listed as separated, legally yes, but make no mistake we live in separate homes and are cordial where we need to be especially involving the kids. If you have been divorced you know how expensive it can be especially when the ex keeps wanting to adjust or rewrite a part who knew it would take this long ...filed last October. We have as drama free as it can be. I date until I find that "spark" but then I go offline and I do expect the same from my partner. I actually like the results I get from going to the gym, lately dating and the dining out process (I Am A Foodie) has allowed me to put a few back on...Ugh so I'm back in gym ***days. I enjoy red wine, but not against any microbrewery or vodka martini that comes my way. I completely own that I have a travel bug, always planning the next big ( or little) So many things to be passionate about but lets save that for when we meet...no? I know who I am and I will know it when I feel it, my heart leads the way...I'm looking for a partner yes, but I know it doesn't happen overnight. It takes effort on both parts willing to work together. I love waking up to someone but I'm not afraid to be alone. I know I'm not into just having "fun" or casual hook ups. If that's your thing, cool just have at it with someone else.Thank You and good luck in your search :)****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning! Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. IT IS RECOMMENDED THAT OTHER MEMBERS POST A SIMILAR NOTICE TO THIS OR YOU MAY COPY AND PASTE THIS ONE First meet..coffee ( I know ANOTHER coffee date) but if its the most comfortable then why not? An activity sure but... I can get pretty competitive, just sayin'First Date... possibilities are abundant

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Charlyn from Inver Grove Heights | Woman | 44 years old | Leo
    Charlyn

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    So here is my attempt at being absolutely honest.Firstly,Gentlemen, I think you mean well...however,asking for long explanation of someones life is not making conversation, it feels like an interrogation.I went to a lot of trouble to write quite a bit here, if your profile consists of 3 sentences, and write me simply asking me to tell you "My story" you are an idiot.If you are even remotely wondering if you could be a narcissist... I beg you ,Nay I implore you, keep clicking. ;)Having said that..Lets start with the bad.1. My hair does not always look like this,yes it is long,and red,and at the moment in a pony tail. It can look nice,I know that,at times I clean up okay.I am not a Barbie,anyone wanting that is going to be sorely disappointed..lolI am a real person,right now I have and my hair in a ponytail,and that is how I wear it half the time..2.I am picky, I've heard....Cant really help that.Its not at all that I think I'm so great or anything else,except I still believe "The One" is out there somewhere.I'm only putting myself through this to find him.I read people writing here that looks don't matter.I tend not to believe that, in most cases.. Looks do matter...a lot. Some people just prefer one look to another.Personally I seem to be attracted tall semi scruffy,men with a cute smile. Yes,like everyone,I know.Men in ponytails are about the sexiest thing ever in my book.Bald can be very sexy on the right guy. Goatees are cute, big furry beards,just not doing anything for me.Very pretty yuppie looking men,are just a no..It is a safe bet to say,if you get a manicure more then me,its a no..Exceptions are always possible.After that,who really knows what makes one person so irresistible,and another..just not..:(I know all this sounds shallow,in the end suppose it is,again..cant help it.In some way I do believe" The One" must look like in some way what I'm attracted to... I don't pretend to have the answers.Fate hardly cares what I think anyways,I have found that out..3.I'm not a "things" person.... Yes, I like stuff,not quite enough to give up much freedom to pay for it.No I don't steal. Yes,I do work.I don't begrudge you yours(things)either.Its just not something I care about.Your things don't impress me at all,I don`t care what kind of truck/car you have,where you live. I have my own truck,my own place. I'm not looking for someone else's.4. Almost deleted this..I like musicians.. I always have,I have no idea why,it is a problem I am aware of. Im seeking help.lol..It could be something I will get over,however it seems unlikely.I am not starstruck or a groupie type.I have no musical talent at all. Casual musicians,guitar pickers,seem to also seem to fit this requirement. It could just be the long hair,no amount of soul searching has produced the answer for this.I would actually be dead glad to date a man that isn't a musician. I have not had good luck with them..It just seems my fate. One I`d be VERY happy to change. If that is you..please let me know.. Seriously...5. I am more of a Tomboy then a princess type,if you are afraid to get dirty,I will laugh at you..I own dresses and high heels, I clean up nice I think.I also own mud boots and tons of old jeans and old tshirts.6. I have kids.Young ones at home.(12and ***I am not having anymore.. If you hate kids,are annoyed by them,stop reading now. I would like it if you had kids,that makes sense to me. I am certainly not having anymore...7.I am a terrible typer. I work on the computer,its not improving.It looks like I am drunk half the time. I`m not.8. If I really like you,I will say stupid things.I don't know why,I try not to,I just do.I only get my foot out of mouth long enough,to get the other one in.Its unlikely this will change either,as much as I wish that it would.This fortunately does go quickly,its possibly a bloodline curse..I'm not sure. Kind people generally find it funny. Judgmental people do not find this funny,I try to disclose it,I know it will happen.I dread it every time.. The good thing,is also this is an isolated issue,that is only activated around men I really like alot..9. I have horses,and farm animals.If we end up together,I'm going to ask you to help with the fences.. That is just life,fences break down,they need fixed.It is very hard to do by yourself. If that sounds like a nightmare for you,Im not the girl for you.I will however do things that are in compensation for said fence fixing help etc..The Good.1.I am not shallow,I do not judge people by their station in life or their bank account or by the car they drive.I've had a lot of money,and driven the best cars,and lived in fantastic places. I do not any more,because it wasn`t worth the cost,in freedom.Everyone has their priorities,and we all find them at different times.Life is an adventure,if you stop growing,that when you start to get old. I am certainly not the person I was 10 years ago,or even last week.2.I am good with children and animals,I will like your dog,your dog will like me,your kids will like me.. This has always been a constant,Im not bragging,its just true.3.I can cook,quite well I have been told.I don't eat fast food,okay I try not to.I try to cook with as much organic as can..Chemicals are bad..I grew up on a farm.. Real food is good..I would really like to grow much more of my own vegetables etc. I blew it on the garden this year,next year I have huge plans.You should care about this in some way. I think the world is slightly in trouble,it is good to have your own food,also you know where it came from,and it tastes better. I am not a crazy zealot,I just think it makes sense. Its fun to grow things isn't it?4.I`m not crazy,colorful yes,but never in a dangerous way.My exes all still speak to me.Most still like me a lot,and we are friends. If you run,I will not chase you. I am neat like that. Even if hurts I will not chase you,life is not a movie,if people runaway,its because they do not want to be near you. I respect this thinking. Its not romantic to stalk.5.I am nice,I don't do mean and nasty things that men fear girls will do.If you lose your job,I will not leave you,I never leave anyone in bad times.This has also been a downfall of mine. If I love you,I am loyal like a dog.I don`t turn in to a devil if I have pms.6.I know things,I read things,I like to talk to men I like..I have ideas,I wont just smile and nod,, lets not call it a date... I also thought I should add that I am a serious MMJ advocate/activist, so if that bothers you, probably better to keep clicking. If you have any interest why, just ask ;)What I definitely do not want to do, is go for a ride on anyones harley......

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  • Hulda from Inver Grove Heights | Woman | 42 years old | Aquarius
    Hulda

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Recently divorced after 23 years. I have one incredible son that exceeds my expectations. I currently work for a school district and a retirement community. I am an early riser and enjoy the outdoors, movies, concerts, performing arts, sporting events, and Shopping!!! (I can buy or be just as content with window shopping and trying on....) Will always be a life-time learner by trying something new or seeking various educational classes in the evening. Enjoy day trips to new locations. (In a vehicle with temperature control options. No motorcycles for me :) P.S. The family joke for me is.... The only thing I cook is fruit and vegetable salads. :)Thought I might add a few more details to clarify possible misconcieved ideas from messages I have recieved. I am grateful for my spirtual connection and I enjoy attending church when I can. Places to go, people to see, and things to do. I prefer to be active and do something over sitting and eating.

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  • Marilene from Inver Grove Heights | Woman | 42 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I stay physically fit by going to the gym, playing sports and love dancing. I'm also an artist who plays with different mediums. My goal is to find somebody who enjoys having a good time and eventually be with hem for the rest of my life. someone who can be adventurous and spontaneous as I am! I am very very interested in learning from others people! I am metropolitan woman with a cute slight french accent who is independent in every aspect and loves to laugh... I like all kinds of music ex: Love tango!, Swing, blues, classic rock... except for punk music. I just went to find the right man not the perfect man cause, no body is perfect but, COMMUNICATIONS and nature! I would love to go for a drink and appetizer, going for a walk by a lake or on the beach, perhaps some pool or going to a nice dinner or, art gallery and lets discover who we are...

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