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Genevive, 41
United States, Minnesota, Inver Grove Heights

Offline, last seen Sat, 09 May 2026 22:07:22

About Me

Hello,Ok to clarify a couple things, If your a drunk please don't bother, Ya a drink or two on the weekends is fine but everyday NO. If sports or online gaming rule your every thought or conversation..Um NO!I'm not looking to date anyone older than 48 I've , please live within a 20 mile radius. I don't want to travel 4 hours to see my man. If I spend more time on the road then in your arms really whats the point :)This woman is ready, tired of the dating game.. OK a little about me I am a mother of 4, my youngest is 18 I am a grandma as well of 2 very special babies. Not sure I like being called Grandma at 40 but hey I guess it could be worse right?? ..lolI support myself just fine. I'm not looking for a man to support me or to be anyone's sugar Ma Ma either.I love camping in the summer and fishing, and yes I can gut my own fish. I make a pretty darn good salmon over a campfire..Yummy :) I guess you can say I'm not a girly girl, I don't mind getting my hands dirty not to say I cant dress up with the best of them :) I love weekend trips to the ocean, playing at the casino, dancing, shooting darts or playing pool, and just relaxing and watching a good movie.People have told me my personality is that of a strong willed, independent, sassy tell it the way it is, and yes I think I know what word your thinking now. I'm really not. I was raised by my father and I'm an only child along with construction work background has made me seem that way. but in all reality I'm kind hearted,caring,compassionate, loyal, funny, honest woman.I listen to all kinds of music, mostly country, old rock and some oldies. But love to shake my tail feather to a good dance tune as well. What ever the mood strikes me. I watch comedies, drama and suspense movies and of course chick flicks. I am a chick you know..lolI enjoy road trips, treasure hunting. selling on Ebay and love that.I try to live my life to the fullest each day and I'm a very thankful person to all I have and have accomplished in my life.What I am looking for is someone that is ready to have someone in there lives, someone honest, funny, loyal prefer no one with young kids age 10 and above.I'm done raising babies and would like to be with someone that we can just go and take off and do what ever feels clever. As stated above all my kids are 18 and above and none live with me. So I'm pretty independent ... ya ya all the same things you read on every other woman's profile :)No prison release's please, must have a car, I'm not a taxi, must have a job or a good reason for not...lol if you cant handle me saying I miss you or want to hear from you more than 3 times a day, then your probably not for me. Not looking for a booty call or a hook-up I think theirs a lot of men out there that just need to grow the heck up. Looking for something real something like neither you or I have come across before. I dare ya to handle me, bet ya cant..lolI believe everything we go through in life is just a stairway to another adventure and learning experience, if life treats you bad and you let it kick you in the buns then its on you... Pick yourself up, brush yourself off and hold on baby cause your in for another ride!!With this site I have learned that 90% of the men I have met on here are not ready to be in a relationship if you are one of them please don't waste your time or mine .Also if you have to hide me from your kids then ..well you know ..lol I have been on and off here several times Ive met a lot of great people and made long time friends but I'm ready to settle down with that one man that gets me spinning with just the thought of him. You know that feeling we all long for and are on here for. Well minus the players, there just lost..lolI wish all my fellow fishy best of luck, send me an *** might nibble :) I am an open book ask me anything, I cant say you will like the answer but you will get one :) :P There is a hidden mess up on my part in my profile so far 2 guys have pointed it out.. I was gonna delete it but I find it rather funny, so look at this as your treasure hunt find it and I definitely give you some of my time :) happy reading and hunting:) First date to me is just an interview to see what you have learned online is a lie. Now if we made it to a second date on one of my interest will be ideal. Just be real!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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