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Shonda, 42

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About Me

I'm enjoying my life but I do miss being in a relationship and I miss who I am when I'm with someone I really care about.I am a lover of life and I'm the type of woman who has a lot of affection to give to those that I 'let in'. I want a relationship, I don't need ***that's the big difference for me.I am loyal and once you have my loyalty you have all of me.I am single mom of two wonderful teenage boys ***& ***who are off to College, High School, work and as a result I'm suffering slightly from the 'empty nest' syndrome. I'm American but I was born and raised outside of the US .... and as a result, English is my second language ... so please excuse the typos or the incorrect grammar.Please be a gentleman and I will respond. ;) I only have one rule ... no expectations when meeting someone for the first time, so that no matter what, there is no way of being disappointed and ***; enjoy the moment and the other person. :) I love good food, so dinner and wine is something I much enjoy.Coffee and a walk about at the local farmers market is a great option. Museums are a good too ... because sometimes going for coffee is just too short a time to get to know someone.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aleisha

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    My two children are my heart and my soul!! They are my everything!! They are both grown now, but always have and always will come first!! We have fun busy lives!As for dating, I am wanting to go on a few dates. Hopefully with a fun guy. I am attracted to men who are a little younger than me ( in their mid 30s). I would like to exchange a few *** see how we click that way first, then go from there. I am looking for something inbetween a one night stand and marriage. It used to be called "dating" ....now it's called nightrria. lol.POF drive up window: Place your order pleaseME: I'll take one tall, dark-haired, hot ,sexy,faithful, fun guy...with a side of smart assPOF drive up window: ok the #4 ...any modifications to that?ME: ya ...can you make him between ***?POF drive up window: No problem, we'll have him ready at the second window.ahhh if only it were that easy. at least im still friggin hilarious in my old age. :)

  • Gretchen

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am an outgoing, fun loving, and independent woman looking for someone to laugh with and have fun. Most of all, let's be ourselves, have fun and just let things happen naturally. :-) About me?? I am a professional who works full time but enjoy having fun after hours. I have two amazing teenage sons who live with me 50% of the time. Soccer is a huge part of our world as they both play year round. So ok, yes I am a soccer mom (ugh!), but wait . . . I swear don't wear mom jeans or drive a minivan!! SUV is the closest I will get to that & I can still rock the skinny jeans. ;-)I believe that life is full of challenges and how we handle that is what shows our character. I roll with the punches and don't believe in wasting energy on things that cannot be changed. A sense of humor is so important as we have to be able to laugh at all life throws us, good and bad, and just enjoy! I am a very positive person and I do my best to surround myself with like-minded people. I believe in helping others and my friends would tell you I truly would give you the shirt off my back (as long as I have a bra on! LOL!) I love life, meeting new people and having new experiences; it keeps things fresh! And...it keeps me waking up every day eager to face the possibilities & looking forward to whatever life brings. I love music, movies, getting out & about on the town or outdoors and enjoy staying in too sometimes. But I enjoy a good cuddle at the end of a day more than almost anything!!Who I'm looking for?? Ultimately, I am looking for a partner who can share in all life has to offer. A man who is fit, confident, decisive, spontaneous, strong but sensitive and who is comfortable with those same qualities in a woman. He can make me laugh & laugh at himself, carry on a conversation & stimulate me intellectually but let loose & have fun too. Someone who can show me things I’ve not experienced and enjoy the adventure in that with me. Ok, ok, like every woman out there I would love to find someone who thinks all my qualities and quirks are the cutest thing ever!! :-) But, realistically, balance is what is key & I hope to find that someone who balances me as much as I do him.I look forward to meeting you!! A nice walk in the park & get to know each other. :-)

  • Brande

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    In it to win it........I'm not generaly competitive except when it comes to making the most out of life. I have an ever changing variety of interest. At this point in my life I find I enjoy jogging as my me time.Dancing and listening to any live music.Searching out the next park or trail.Road trips with a destination or not. I'm looking for some one that doesn't believe he needs to keep the couch company. If you have a warm heart and a smile to offer I hope to hear from you.

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