SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Karaugh
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I've been divorced for nearly 2 years. Wounds have been licked and I'm ready to get into the dating scene again-I guess I am a glutton for punishment. Plenty of fish says I should talk about hobbies/goals/my uniqueness and taste in music...here goes:Hobbies: gardening, walking for fun and fitness, fishing, dancing, travel, camping, reading, card and board games. I am fairly competitive but can take a loss with minimal tears and tantrums.Goals: personal goals are finding a partner to share my life and interests with. I have 2 beautiful grown children who have been my primary focus, but now that they are grown I am excited to focus time and energy on myself. Currently I'm in the process of buying my first home as a single person and am looking forward to remodelling and decorating it. I think men who know how to use a hammer are SEXY! Though it's not a deal breaker to just hire an expert-recognizing and accepting strengths and weaknesses is attractive in and of itself :) Professional goals involve possibly returning to school to finish my master's degree within the next 5 years. What makes me unique...hmmm, with 6,000,000,000ish people on Earth, I don't know that anyone is really THAT unique. However, some qualities I have that make me who I am are an ability to be nearly always happy. I am genetically geared towards a positive outlook, and it's not something I have to work on. I have a permanent smile and a slightly twisted sense of humor. I consider myself to be above average in intelligence (doesn't everyone?), and enjoy conversations with funny, intelligent people. I know, I TOLD you it's difficult to be truly unique! Although my family is very conservative and somewhat religious, I am not. Through painful trial and error I have learned that I need a partner who not only "tolerates," but shares my liberal views.Music tastes: I gravitate towards Indie and alternative rock. Although I can usually find songs within every genre to enjoy, I really don't care for gangster rap and country music. The first is too hateful and the second is too whiney and depressing for my tastes. Guilty TV pleasure: toss up between Americas Next Top Model and So You Think You Can Dance (you would think I'm 15yrs old). Uh, I'm not...pedophiles need not apply. An ideal first date would be somewhere intimate with a good****ail where we could discuss our interests and hopefully find common ground. Best case scenario would be lots of laughing, though not to the milk coming out your nose extent, because that is almost never sexy. I think the mark of a good first date is losing track of the time. If you find yourself checking your watch every few minutes it's probably time to cut your losses and agree to "just be friends"...both knowing we will never be friends. :)Another fun first date would be deep sea fishing... because if you are still attracted to someone who smells like bait you are on the right track. Or maybe a wine tasting tour. I am completely *** wines and would appreciate some guidance on the subject. Plus the smell of the aging barrels is much better than fish bait.
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Rosanna
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I wanna be crazy about someone that's crazy about me. :-) My taste in music is vast.... I appreciate all music. I work hard and I work a lot...I struggle with balancing it .... give me a reason to want to find that balance. My history is interesting; definitely to be shared when trust is earned. Not everyone gets to know everything. :-.. relocated here in April. Lastly: if I've added you as a favorite; it means you've caught my attention with something you've written. If you aren't interested or do not feel we are match: please remove yourself... Totally cool with that! Happy fishing! What I do know.... movies are not a good idea when you are trying to get to know someone new; who wants to hear us talking through the movie? :-)Surprise me. First meeting should be simple, non-committal.
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Ginnie
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
Hey there, fellow meetville users having any luck yet? Me neither...still looking for someone to date/hang out with, have fun and a lot of laughs that may or may not lead to something more. Ultimately I do want to find you ..the man...the man I am meant to spend the rest of my life with . The reason why non of the others worked out.. In mean time, I don't want to be a hermit or complete home body the rest of my life...I enjoy the companionship of a man. lets chat, hang out and go from there (-: .If after reading this, you think we are compatible and there could be a mutual attraction...message me. I want to find someone I have an intellectual and physical connection with. If either of us after a date or two think , nah..this is not going to work...we can bag it...such say, sorry I don't think this is going to work...and we both move on to our next victims...haha jk...no but seriously...don't be afraid of hurting my feelings. I like a person to be upfront and honest with me.. Life is short ..we need to be with who we want to be with. Folllow your gut *** me right all the time. Its when I *** that gets me in trouble..LOL I have a full time job, my own vehicle, my own place to live( house and 6 acres in country) and I hate drama. Therefore, I don't think it is unreasonable to want a man with a job, his own car and own place to live. I am not looking for someone to support me and I do not want to support a man. The best relationships are ***. In my early years, some of my friends said I was a doormat or too caring because I would feel sorry for a man and try to fix his problems and take care of him. I am older now, I have my life figured out, not looking to fix anybody's problems anymore...And I hate drama!! I want someone that never leaves my mind and I smile when I think about them. I may have overwhelming full plate with work and kids, but I have a big heart and to the right man, I will show you why it never worked out with any other woman before. MY STORY - I am a very open straightforward person. I don.t play head games...Give it to me straight and I will too. Don't be afraid to ask me something...Questions are good.. It helps you get to know a person. I have been in only 3 serious relationships in my life. 2 marriages and recently a committed relationship. I am a full time working mother of ***yr old boy and 8yr old girl ) and a couple foster teen boys. .I can do it all though some days I don't want too...LOL... Not looking for a father , they have fathers who love them very much. But of course my kids are very important to me but I have a big heart that has been broken and mended a few times...ready to find Mr. Right. It is totally cool if you have kids, but I am not looking to give birth to any more (-: Love mine to death...but that part of my life is done of having more.. I am looking to find someone compatible to hang out with and have fun and who knows may turn into something long term. In a relationship, I only have eyes for you and no desires for anyone else...I hope you are the same. Dating is different, though I realize we are out there is this horrible single world trying to find someone who is like us and just maybe spend the rest of our lifes with...but maybe we decide we arent soul mates...but I sure like hanging out with you once in awhile and have a good time. I am all for committed relationships but not doing the married thing anymore. I say that...but I suppose that could change with the right person. I can commit without a piece of paper. I am a strong believer everything happens for a reason and there is that one person you are destined to be with. Others you have been in your life for a reason...just not necessary to be your soul mate. I been down the road both marriages and in a relationship and yes long term I want to find someone to share my live with. Taking one day at time. Having someone special to go to bed and wake up to every morning that you love with every fiber of your being...is what I am looking. Right now hoping to find someone with similar interests. From having a quite evening at home snuggled on the couch watching a good movie, to camping, or dancing the night away. A walk on the beach, a drive up the coast for the weekend, BBQs with friends, Fishing on a Saturday morning. Comedy shows and bands are good too. Family activities are awesome.. My needs are simple. Does not take alot of $$ to please me. I dont like fancy restaurants or expensive clothes. I have a wide range of interests. (-: I like good movies or tv shows.. After a long day at work look forward to a low key evening at home. I like to try new things so I would consider myself somewhat adventurous. I think a good relationship has to have a great intimacy connection as well as intellectual You dont have to have everything in common but definitely some things. Its good for both to have mutual friends as well as maybe you want a guys night out. Totally cool to me. I am very straightforward and try not to be too assertive. I am easy going and open. I want to find that one person that feels for me as I do them and we just can not live with out each other. But I am realistic. It will take time. Maybe I will meet a few friends along the way to hang out with and venture out on a date on the weekend...or stay in and cuddle with a home cooked meal and good movie...You sound similar to me...msg me just do it...(-; oh ps..if we do end up chatting on here, I am a texter and *** I really want to get to know you first on here before we venture giving out numbers and adding each other as friends on *** chat to see what some interests are and decide together (-: