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Adelia, 41

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About Me

....I'm an extremely confident person. I would like to think I'm "normal" or at least fit somewhere in the spectrum of "normal". I'm a PhD student, mother of one, friends with my ex and his girlfriend, I'm not looking to "hook up" or for "fwb" and don't have time for drama...I'm not sure how "normal" that truly is these days...lol…I’m just a confident, yet goofy kind of girl. I’ I’m looking for the real thing and want a real relationship, curled up on the couch enjoying whatever movie or simply sharing the conversation of our day… Sharing and supporting one another’s dreams and interests…I’m looking for that one person that doesn’t fit on my bookshelf of life, but *** beside me learning the true meaning of life together…I also believe that relationships take time and are not *** in no rush to settle for less than my best friend.I am looking for a guy who understands happiness isn't found in possessions, or in the size of a paycheck. There is no more an attractive quality than a kind/caring/loving soul. If you are the kind of person who comes first in their own life, I am not the girl for you. I am a mom who cares for the future for her son and others…I make conscious decisions every day that reflect the mark I will leave behind when I’m gone and hope you do the same.I am a good person with lots of energy…In a nutshell I am bright, witty, warm, and adventurous. I am educated and intelligent...there is a difference. I can offer both refinement and zaniness, which means I can discuss the existence of nothing and I am wonderfully in tune with my inner child…In fact today my inner child threw a tantrum because the voices in my head refused to share the sandbox of my mental playground…It was weird!...lolWhat you can expect from me: openness, insight, honesty, laughter, intimacy, support, loyalty, independence and respect your independence. I cheer for people in whatever is important to them even in those tough moments.I come house trained, can cook and am able to iron (only when all dryer tricks fail)...lol…And while I am able to take care of most things myself, it doesn't mean that my heart doesn't melt when someone takes the time to do something nice for me. Those little gestures are what romance is made of! I have an open and earnest heart. I know who I am and what I want.What would my friends say about me? (real words from real friends) 1. She is the most balanced person I have ever met and handles every situation with a fair clear view of both sides.2.3. She not only looks like her photos at first glance but when you talk to her you will be consumed by her beauty.4. She is well educated and has the ability to fit in too many walks of life but she is a simple happy person.5. She is not the kind of girl that is going to let one bad moment control the next.6. She has a wild side and can be child like, she is the kind of girl that if there is a ball she will be playing with it.7. She always looks great but the fact that she lives in the moment and knows nails can be fixed and hair can be redone makes her even sexier.8. One of the greatest qualities I have witnessed in her is that she has great compassion for not only her own child but all children.9. She is truly a piece of abstract art! Something low pressure with no expectation....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Justy

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm tiny, sexy, confident and independent with a wild side. I am not typicaI. I have a lot to offer the right man. I am VERY picky and do not go on many dates. I refuse to settle. I would rather be alone then be with someone who does not shake my very existence. I like confident, creative, thoughtful men on the taller side, strong (big arms are my favorite!), established and fit and having a wild streak is good. I love traveling, the beach, boating and hanging out by my pool.;ms, donuts and cinnamon dolce lattes. I love most rock and metal, love country, R&B and top 40. I love going to concerts. Love taking long or short road trips. You must be able to laugh at yourself and not be uptight. I am happy but know I can be happier if I had someone to share things with. I appreciate life and work for everything I have. I am strong willed, direct and uninhibited and I like the same in a man. I am caring so you must be caring too and not afraid to show emotion. If you care to get to know ME, hit me up and let's give it a go. I don't respond to many messages, nothing personal, I just know what I want. Some of you seem to think that because a woman is proud of her body and posts sexy pictures, this implies she is merely a sex object, well think again. I want to prove I am not overweight and that I am small and fit so I post pictures that back that up. I need a man who is secure enough with himself to be OK with me liking to to be sexy. If you are stuck on one floor, don't contact me. Thank you, and good luck! :)

  • Rowanne

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Let's just get this out of the way. Yes, I do have a type of guy I'm physically attracted to. That would be: taller than me, dark hair, average to muscular build (think Middle Eastern or Italian for looks), and in his early- to mid-thirties. I tend to like the "younger" gents because a) that's the age everyone thinks I am, and b) that's the age I act/feel like. That is a general guideline, not a rule. While physical attraction starts things off, it's a kick-ass personality that holds things together!!Some tidbits about my interests and me:MUSIC: 80s, techno, classical, trance, top 40, happy hardcore, electro-swing, ambient, jungle/dnb, lounge, classical IndianTV: Falling Skies, True Blood, Game of Thrones, Criminal Minds, L&-fi, action, horror, documentaries, BollywoodBOOKS: sci-fi, fantasy, mystery, horrorI’m unique, just like everyone else. I'm easy going and open minded. I can swear like a sailor, but can also act the perfect lady. I’m reactionary funny (comebacks and quips), not say something on the spot funny (which is why this profile is so damn boring). I’m pretty much a goofball, but can be serious as needed.; Happiness. Yes, I have a twisted sense of humor.I’m adventurous. I like hiking and camping and SCUBA diving and trying new things and checking out new places. I’ve swum with sharks and neither of us was in a cage. However, I draw the line at jumping out of a perfectly good airplane. That said, I’m also content to just lounge on the couch and watch a movie or a play a game.I’m caring, fair, compassionate, respectful, honest, and aware of how my actions impact my surroundings. That means I don’t walk into the grocery store with my cart and just stop in front of the door to dig out my grocery list. I also don’t go barging into an elevator before everyone has exited. (Yes, those are two huge pet peeves of mine! heh) (Another pet peeve is horrifying spelling and grammar.)I’m interested in keeping myself healthy. I tend to be veg*n (vegetarian/vegan), but have recently migrated back to the dark side and am eating meat again (and no, that's not a euphemism for anything! LOL).Feel free to message me and say Hi! I promise I will respond. Hey, you took the chance to message me, the least I can do is have the decency to respond! Not to mention I’m pretty outgoing and love chatting with people, anyway. And yeah, I’m kind of traditional in that I’d like the guy to make the first move, but I’m trying to get over that. No sense in y’all being the only ones having to deal with flat-out rejection. ;-pInteresting thing I just learned about meetville... If you hit the "show interest" button on a profile it'll send that person a message with just "Hey there :)" in it. I guess this is the equivalent of winking across the room and letting you figure out if you want to pursue it or not. =)Lastly, NO, Mr. Creeper, you will NOT immediately get my phone number. ew First Meet: Someplace casual where we can have fun and still hear each other talk. Something like trivia night, darts, bowling, miniature golf…you get the idea. I think that the first meet should be a “go dutch” situation. No pressure! Also, we’ll know fairly quickly if there’s any chemistry or not and should be honest with each other about it.

  • Rose

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Not looking for a relationship. Just looking for a friend to go do things with now and then. I am a single mother of two kids, One is 10 and the other is 21, I am also a grandma to a beautiful lil girl.I am pretty quiet til I get to know you. Not really sure what all to say about me. I guess if you want to know more just ask. dinner and a movie, or lunch by the river, , really doesnt matter, go for a cup of coffee and go from there.

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