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Philipa, 44
United States, Minnesota, International Falls

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Really guys, what do you want?Who I am? My main role in life at the moment is a single mom of three great (we all say that our kids are great, but mine really are ;***kids, two of which are teenagers living at home. The other is all grown up and I'm eagerly waiting for the grandmother status to develop. Never thought I'd say I was ready for that...Professionally, I just graduated from college again with a degree in mortuary science and am working as an apprentice embalmer/funeral director for a large mortuary service. It means I work nights and spend my time with a lot of people that don't talk back to me when I talk to them. It's rarely a boring profession in my particular specialty of body removal. I've seen the whole range of things, from pulling people out of a burned house, to picking up the ***yr old great great grandpa from a nursing home. Every night, I expect to top the last experience. I enjoy hanging out on the back patio after work drinking coffee, watching a live music show down on the riverfront, walking around at the Falls with the kids, meandering up and down flea market aisles looking at everything and nothing, cuddling on the couch in front of a good movie, and dancing in the kitchen while I'm cooking. I miss having a best friend and lover to come home to after a rough night or wake up with in the mornings. I miss the simple things in life like being able to count on that one special person. I'm most definitely a family person and an evening of Uno at home will always trump going to a night club. Fall is my favorite time of the year and October is my favorite month. There's something in the smell of burning leaves and the color of pumpkins that just stirs my soul. I do very much enjoy going for rides through the backroads exploring, even more so on the back of a motorcycle. If you like blankets on the grass under the stars, thats a huge plus. :-)There should definitely be something in between "few extra pounds" (which to me means ***and "bbw". I fall somewhere in the middle.If after we talk a while and you want to get to know me better, ask me out. No, I don't want to "hang out". No, I don't want to "meet up". No, I don't want to "play it by ear". Pick a time (No, not tonight), pick a place (somewhere in public), and check in with me the day of. It's that easy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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