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Philipa, 44

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About Me

Really guys, what do you want?Who I am? My main role in life at the moment is a single mom of three great (we all say that our kids are great, but mine really are ;***kids, two of which are teenagers living at home. The other is all grown up and I'm eagerly waiting for the grandmother status to develop. Never thought I'd say I was ready for that...Professionally, I just graduated from college again with a degree in mortuary science and am working as an apprentice embalmer/funeral director for a large mortuary service. It means I work nights and spend my time with a lot of people that don't talk back to me when I talk to them. It's rarely a boring profession in my particular specialty of body removal. I've seen the whole range of things, from pulling people out of a burned house, to picking up the ***yr old great great grandpa from a nursing home. Every night, I expect to top the last experience. I enjoy hanging out on the back patio after work drinking coffee, watching a live music show down on the riverfront, walking around at the Falls with the kids, meandering up and down flea market aisles looking at everything and nothing, cuddling on the couch in front of a good movie, and dancing in the kitchen while I'm cooking. I miss having a best friend and lover to come home to after a rough night or wake up with in the mornings. I miss the simple things in life like being able to count on that one special person. I'm most definitely a family person and an evening of Uno at home will always trump going to a night club. Fall is my favorite time of the year and October is my favorite month. There's something in the smell of burning leaves and the color of pumpkins that just stirs my soul. I do very much enjoy going for rides through the backroads exploring, even more so on the back of a motorcycle. If you like blankets on the grass under the stars, thats a huge plus. :-)There should definitely be something in between "few extra pounds" (which to me means ***and "bbw". I fall somewhere in the middle.If after we talk a while and you want to get to know me better, ask me out. No, I don't want to "hang out". No, I don't want to "meet up". No, I don't want to "play it by ear". Pick a time (No, not tonight), pick a place (somewhere in public), and check in with me the day of. It's that easy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Justy

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm tiny, sexy, confident and independent with a wild side. I am not typicaI. I have a lot to offer the right man. I am VERY picky and do not go on many dates. I refuse to settle. I would rather be alone then be with someone who does not shake my very existence. I like confident, creative, thoughtful men on the taller side, strong (big arms are my favorite!), established and fit and having a wild streak is good. I love traveling, the beach, boating and hanging out by my pool.;ms, donuts and cinnamon dolce lattes. I love most rock and metal, love country, R&B and top 40. I love going to concerts. Love taking long or short road trips. You must be able to laugh at yourself and not be uptight. I am happy but know I can be happier if I had someone to share things with. I appreciate life and work for everything I have. I am strong willed, direct and uninhibited and I like the same in a man. I am caring so you must be caring too and not afraid to show emotion. If you care to get to know ME, hit me up and let's give it a go. I don't respond to many messages, nothing personal, I just know what I want. Some of you seem to think that because a woman is proud of her body and posts sexy pictures, this implies she is merely a sex object, well think again. I want to prove I am not overweight and that I am small and fit so I post pictures that back that up. I need a man who is secure enough with himself to be OK with me liking to to be sexy. If you are stuck on one floor, don't contact me. Thank you, and good luck! :)

  • Adelia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    ....I'm an extremely confident person. I would like to think I'm "normal" or at least fit somewhere in the spectrum of "normal". I'm a PhD student, mother of one, friends with my ex and his girlfriend, I'm not looking to "hook up" or for "fwb" and don't have time for drama...I'm not sure how "normal" that truly is these days...lol…I’m just a confident, yet goofy kind of girl. I’ I’m looking for the real thing and want a real relationship, curled up on the couch enjoying whatever movie or simply sharing the conversation of our day… Sharing and supporting one another’s dreams and interests…I’m looking for that one person that doesn’t fit on my bookshelf of life, but *** beside me learning the true meaning of life together…I also believe that relationships take time and are not *** in no rush to settle for less than my best friend.I am looking for a guy who understands happiness isn't found in possessions, or in the size of a paycheck. There is no more an attractive quality than a kind/caring/loving soul. If you are the kind of person who comes first in their own life, I am not the girl for you. I am a mom who cares for the future for her son and others…I make conscious decisions every day that reflect the mark I will leave behind when I’m gone and hope you do the same.I am a good person with lots of energy…In a nutshell I am bright, witty, warm, and adventurous. I am educated and intelligent...there is a difference. I can offer both refinement and zaniness, which means I can discuss the existence of nothing and I am wonderfully in tune with my inner child…In fact today my inner child threw a tantrum because the voices in my head refused to share the sandbox of my mental playground…It was weird!...lolWhat you can expect from me: openness, insight, honesty, laughter, intimacy, support, loyalty, independence and respect your independence. I cheer for people in whatever is important to them even in those tough moments.I come house trained, can cook and am able to iron (only when all dryer tricks fail)...lol…And while I am able to take care of most things myself, it doesn't mean that my heart doesn't melt when someone takes the time to do something nice for me. Those little gestures are what romance is made of! I have an open and earnest heart. I know who I am and what I want.What would my friends say about me? (real words from real friends) 1. She is the most balanced person I have ever met and handles every situation with a fair clear view of both sides.2.3. She not only looks like her photos at first glance but when you talk to her you will be consumed by her beauty.4. She is well educated and has the ability to fit in too many walks of life but she is a simple happy person.5. She is not the kind of girl that is going to let one bad moment control the next.6. She has a wild side and can be child like, she is the kind of girl that if there is a ball she will be playing with it.7. She always looks great but the fact that she lives in the moment and knows nails can be fixed and hair can be redone makes her even sexier.8. One of the greatest qualities I have witnessed in her is that she has great compassion for not only her own child but all children.9. She is truly a piece of abstract art! Something low pressure with no expectation....

  • Nelly

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    MUST RIDE A HARLEY Camping, Cooking, Dining, Family, Games, Movies, Music, Playing Cards, Reading, Theater, Travel, Tv My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv i am a full figured woman with a big personality to go with this body. I am an independent woman that does not need a man to take care of. But I do want a man that i can take care of and in return he takes care of me in the long run with life, love, family and possibly marriage. I am looking for a man that wants to put me on the back of a mean machine and experience life together as we are molded together in pure happiness. Is there a guy that can help me with this? I want to be holding tight to the man in my life with no words to say but feeling the closeness of him to me. im such a romantic. I believe that life should be full of romance, laughter trust and understanding. I want a man that is not afraid to show his feelings for the woman he cares about no matter how tough he feels he has to be that when he looks at me, its just us. should be light and not overdone. because ill tell you what, trying to improve one date to another could be quite tiring and expensive. a good movie and dinner with a nice ride, could be a car or a bike. i think maybe a car ride for the first time so this way you can talk and get to know each other. if the fair is in town, that could be a great date or say the renaissance, festivals are fun if there are any. nice walk at the zoo, or things that could help fill in the gaps***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.

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