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United States, Minnesota, Hutchinson

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About Me

Ok, dang...didn't think that I would be forced to take this step again! I don't go out much, not because I can't, I don't prefer it, so I am going to attempt a cyber meeting. My profile says I "want to date with nothing serious", well I eventually want a serious relationship. We all do. I have dated alot and fell in love, got hurt, several times, moving on. I want to meet people, due to the fact that I am fairly new to the area. I prefer the company of a comical, talkative, sensitive, outgoing, sweet, not afraid of PDA kind of a fella. I am a romantic, I believe in I love you's everyday.....if not several times a day, a kiss goodnight, good morning, good bye, and hello. I like to get "I'm thinking of you" texts through out my day. I am not an expensive high maintenance girl. I don't require you to pay my bills or buy me dinner or a movie. If you WANT to pay for the date, that'll just be brownie points for you, but not a requirement.....I am a fun person, don't plan to put out on the first, second, maybe not even tenth date. I just want a REAL boy! No Pinocchios! I don't like working around a branch for a nose! In other words, DON'T BE A LIAR! Or a cheater, back stabber, dead beat dad, or just a plain mean dude...... Chivalrous! Not a knight in shining armor per say, that would be fashion suicide these days. ?? Also, I have to say, I don't like to see guys post pictures on these dating sites with there kids or nephews or nieces or any other children! Don't you know the world we live in now a days? I like kids, just don't put there innocent little faces on here for freaks to look at and do unlawful down right disgusting things to them. If you have kids, whether they are yours or your distant relatives youngsters, it's alright. I have one of my own. I didn't say it cause it's a deal breaker! Don't run! ALSO, let me just put this out there now! Not that I feel I need to explain myself or anything. But, in the section where it says body type, I did choose a few extra pounds. Because I am in fact, chubby. But I can run, I can ride in a car, I even wear skinny jeans. I'm not huge. But I don't want you boys to be misconceived or scared. I've learned in my ancient age, looks aren't everything. I know there has to be attraction, but I've learned that personality is the key and can make anyone attractive. I can't stand it when dudes write in there profiles and say mean stuff about chicks like about weight, looks, money... I know there are standards, but come on, your no better than anyone else! If you were you wouldn't be in a dating site would you? So climb down off of your slightly too high horse and join us in the real world won't you....it's not all that great all of the time and you need to be a realist, but we don't always bite, hard!! And BTW, if I only had bones, we couldn't wrestle, I have muscular legs and can take you down, wanna try me? In other words, flab is fab! ?? First dates start on the phone. Please have texting capabilities, I prefer to text before calling! And PLEASE PLEASE.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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