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Charlyn, 40

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Soooo.....update ***I often wonder why there are so many people on earth that are single and don't want to be. It shouldn't be this difficult to find someone you are compatible with. But after looking through the sea of faces that are single, it must be. Also, i am not big and tall, but I would be classified as bbw in today's standards. I am looking for my soulmate. I honestly think I have already met my soulmate, but we both took different directions in life. There's a good chance you have already met your soulmate, too. So, that leads me to the next section here.I understand that most guys have good girl friends that are part of their life, and that is cool with me. I also have guy friends. I am not ready to "move in" with someone or even get married at this point. Marriage is the only way I will live with a guy. I also do not drink and drive. Not even one drink. So, our meeting can be at a restaurant or bar, but I'll be having a coke.Things I like to do for fun are sewing (I try, anyway), thinking, writing letters, admiring flowers, making homemade pizza, etc. So now the topic of sports...I am not into them. However, if you are, I wouldn't mind sitting on the couch beside you rooting for your team. I will probably ask you to explain what just happened or talk to you throughout the whole game. I do not hunt. Or ride 4 wheelers. But I love to camp, though.I'm not so much into movies as I am music. I would choose listening to music anyday over watching a movie.I am trying to lose weight. I feel like I should say this so it doesn't seem like I have "given up" on myself. I have reluctantly accepted myself as a bbw, but honestly had a lot more fun buying clothes when I was thinner. And now they have a weight watchers app for your phone- so cool!!Hopefully this helps decode me a little. I am one of those simple/complex people. I like the simple things in life, but sometimes those are the most complex.Talk to ya soon. Things that sound fun: listen to a band, meet for a drink( soda for me), planetarium, a poetry reading, library, art galleries, etc.Things that don't sound fun: movies(theater or rented), putt putt, coffee when it's hot outside, swimming, cuddling, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    ;-up singerI am an eternal optimistI generally do not wear makeup on weekendsI trust people to a faultI have perfected the art of car dancingI have no poker faceI don't know how to play pokerI sing in the car --; the Hoosier DomeI believe all men are beautiful, each in their own way. I love T-shirt, jeans & tattoos as much as a clean cut guy in a suit. Note: scruffy 3 day beard is extremely sexy. I believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Confidence & intelligence are pretty darned sexy.I practice buddhism & yoga. I am trying to become more centered, focusing on the good in life, the joy in every breath. I love training in the forest preserve, the quiet peaceful sounds, the glorious setting, the sun filtering through a canopy of trees. I grew up on a farm in a very small, rural community.I'm honest person, an open book. I am a woman of little mystery and few secrets. Ask me anything and you'll get an honest answer. Something low-pressure to start like mid-day coffee or early evening drinks.

  • Shea

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I think this is the hardest part, promoting yourself isn't easy! I'm a fun-loving, hard working, honest, caring person. I like to do things for other people and volunteer on several committees. I've grown up in a small, close community and am close with my family. I love to laugh and joke! I am a chatty girl but HATE talking during movies! I am very close with my family and enjoy spending time with my nieces and nephew... He's a ten year old boxer/pitbull mix who didn't get the memo that he's not a person. When I'm not working or at a committee meeting, I like to spend time with friends and family. I love to go dancing (80's and disco music being my favorites to dance to... now I'm showing my age!) occassionally with friends but I don't really make a habit of it.I love to bake and would like to find a way to sell my baked goods or maybe even open up a bakery of my own one day. Right now I will have to stick with bringing my treats to my co-workers. I love to quilt and sew, too. I enjoy spending time with friends but look forward to finding someone to cuddle with on the couch watching tv/movies or just spending a quiet night in.My life is very full and I feel blessed to have the family and friends that I do and feel like the only thing missing is that special someone just for me. I think that the most successful relationships are those where two people are thrilled to be together but also have time apart to follow their own interests. I like the idea of being with someone who can be in a group of my friends and hold his own without me right there, too! I really enjoy travelling and would like to find someone who also enjoys it. I'm looking for a man who is also honest and hard working, someone who makes me laugh but thinks that I'm absolutely hysterical too!! I think that a first date should be as relaxed as possible, maybe with an activity to take the edge off a little bit. A little distraction could help with nerves!

  • Odette

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    If u r about sex dont bother. If u cant respect me..get lost. If ur lucky u already have my number. all men who start a conversation with hi sexy...need not apply. Im a lady. the rest comes later!!Old school for the most part. I enjoy cooking, camping, reading and cuddling!I have a caring nature and love to give my attention if its respected! Will always be faithful and loyal. Been through enough heartaches and somewhat skeptical! Should be in a friendly atmosphere. Prefer to meet somewhere a guy socializes at but not if it takes Away the attention I need. Lol

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