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Pamula, 40
United States, Minnesota, Hutchinson

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Would you like to meet/date a fun spontaneous person who enjoys to laugh, make people laugh who has no problem laughing at herself (quite often in fact)?My friends would say I'm silly ...never a dull moment in my presence. As I enjoy the element of shock, I will do or say anything obnoxious to freak people out...strangers are the usual victims. My sense of humor is politcally incorrect at times...but I try not to make fun of the handicapped. When I have to, I do understand how to behave properly though. I love to get dressed up and go out on the town... I'm also the baseball cap/jeans kinda girl who can hang with the guys watching sports. Never been married... I was not willing to marry the person I was dating when I was 30 just "because I was 30". I have a lot to offer and I want someone who appreciates that AND has a lot to offer as well.A married guy friend of mine asked if he could write this for me: Heather is a great catch that hasn't happened yet and some lucky guy will some day "catch this trophy at the bottom of the lake." She really can dress to impress (...or WOW more like it) and have a glass of wine and put the jeans on and chill with a beer, all in the same day without missing a beat. Fun, sharp and hot...what more could a guy want! But treat our girl well as she has a lot of people who really care about her." I would love to find someone to cuddle up to on a stormy night by the fireplace with a bottle of wine. I'm looking for an attractive, tall, exciting person who has interests and hobbies of their own, and would like to experience new activities and places together. Someone who is intelligent, spontaneous, and romantic. I've learned a lot about myself living the single life, and a lot about what I don't like in a man. Attraction is always the first thing you notice, and my tastes seem to vary. I prefer men who are taller than 5'***I like to wear heels)I like a clean cut, but don't mind a little facial hair. No cats....no exceptions! Kids are great, but if you frequently fueding with the ex, thats not my thing. Drama free. No baby Daddy issues here. I'm not perfect, and I don't expect you to be either. I'd like to meet a regular guy who works hard, is good with children, lives a drama free life, and hopefully has similar interests. I feel the need to add the fact that I do not have jungle fever. Meet me for a drink... Dinner ? I'm game!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Portuguese South American
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