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Darlena, 40

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About Me

;-up singerI am an eternal optimistI generally do not wear makeup on weekendsI trust people to a faultI have perfected the art of car dancingI have no poker faceI don't know how to play pokerI sing in the car --; the Hoosier DomeI believe all men are beautiful, each in their own way. I love T-shirt, jeans & tattoos as much as a clean cut guy in a suit. Note: scruffy 3 day beard is extremely sexy. I believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Confidence & intelligence are pretty darned sexy.I practice buddhism & yoga. I am trying to become more centered, focusing on the good in life, the joy in every breath. I love training in the forest preserve, the quiet peaceful sounds, the glorious setting, the sun filtering through a canopy of trees. I grew up on a farm in a very small, rural community.I'm honest person, an open book. I am a woman of little mystery and few secrets. Ask me anything and you'll get an honest answer. Something low-pressure to start like mid-day coffee or early evening drinks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mel

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-40

    I'm just a level headed, universally accepted walking contradiction to this world,. But at the end of the day I'm the most honest, kind hearted, person. I want a sexy partner, loving, caring and not negligent.

  • Tuyet

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Well now, lets see....I'm a nice girl who is looking for someone who will like me for me.I'm very down to earth and don't consider myself to be high maintenance. I'm most comfortable in my jammies, although I do enjoy getting all spiffy when the occasion calls for it.I have a great sense of humour, and I love to laugh and be silly. If you're worried about what others think, and are judgemental, we probably won't get along. Trust is super important to me, and it's a two way street. It's just like respect...you've got to give it to get it. I want to spend my time enjoying each other, not worried about who's having cyber sex with who (or is it whom?). Family is also very important to me, and I'm looking for someone who feels the same. I can appreciate someone who loves and respects their mom. You don't always have to agree, but if you're telling her to fluff off, I have a problem with that. Boy, I sound very demanding don't I? haha, I'm really not!I enjoy rock/alternative music mostly, but my musical taste isn't just limited to those. I love animals. I play hockey in a rec league once a week in the winter....and I'm terrible! But it's okay, 'cause I've come to terms with it. :)Kay, I'm gonna zip it now, 'cause I'm rambling......Oh yeah one last thing...I'm not interested in someone who is mean to stuffed animals!...and by the way, I'm kinda shy until I get to know someone, so feel free to send me a message. Just please use ACTUAL words. I can't stand reading things like "ur hawt, how r u?".If you're looking for an "Intimate Encounter" you're looking in the wrong place.Oh, and I'm not interested in someone who enjoys playing head games. I'm too old for that nonsense. Kay, I'm gonna zip it now. Toodles! I have no idea :)

  • Neta

    Online

    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Let me be more specific about what I'm looking for. Because of my hectic schedule, it's hard to find time for a serious relationship at this time in my life. However, I'm willing to give it my best shot. I definitely want more than just hook ups. First and foremost, I want a friend, someone I can hang out with, do things with, have good conversations with, and if things click and the chemistry's right, maybe more. I want someone I can connect with. I want inimacy, but that doesn 't mean sex. Sex is not a top priority for me. This doesn't mean I don't like it. I'm just tired of meaningless, empty sex, so I'm willing to wait till I find someone who can make it meaningful. If you expect sex on the first or even the second date, then I'm not the girl for you. There is no guarantee on when sex will happen, or that it will at all. Mutual trust and respect need to be built first. My living situation is unusual and some guys have issues with it. My ex-husband lives in the lower level of my split level house. We're not together, but we're still friends, and we think it's best for our daughter to have both her parents around. We don't have dates over to the house. Not because it would bother either of us, but because our daughter is always here, and we both agree that we don't want to bring other people into her life until we're sure they're going to be around for a while. She's top priority. Keeping her life as stable and happy as possible is top priority for both of us. It makes dating complicated sometimes, but it's worth it.A little tip: Starting off with an overtly sexual comment or blatant come on is a sure fire way to get on my bad side. I've spent over half my life playing in bands with male musicians. I learned to be one of the guys in order to survive, and I'm more comfortable being treated like a buddy than a piece of meat. Keep that in mind when you message me, please. Here's another update:ATTENTION YOUNGER MEN! I don't have a problem with age difference. However, I am not here to fulfill your milf fantasies. The above expectations will apply to you the same as anyone else. If you're not interested in actually getting to know me, then don't bother. Sorry. I'm a working single mom. My daughter is the most amazing person I've ever met. Music is my passion, and I've been playing bass guitar for almost 20 years. I used to operate my own business designing and making custom clothing and corsetry, and i still enjoy it but prefer to do so for fun rather than work. So, these days, I have a regular day job in the optometry field. I enjoy playing music, reading, spending time with friends and family, going to concerts and other performances, and watching movies. Most of my time is spent being mommy and working, but I still try to have some fun. I'm trying to build up the courage and motivation to go back to school for a second degree, something that makes me question my sanity sometimes. I'm an avid reader, music is a huge part of my life, I love all kinds of movies, and I enjoy trying different kinds of food. I'm open minded and adventurous in most aspects of life.I used to be a good girl. Really, I swear! Oh, and a semi-professional ballet dancer. No kidding! That was a lifetime ago, though, before I sold my soul to rock n roll. ;-)Message me if you want to know more about me. I'm horrible at writing about myself, so this profile doesn't even begin to scratch the surface of who I am. I'm also a little shy about initiating contact, so I'm more likely to reply to you if you message me than I am to message you first. Creativity can earn you bonus points, but I'm happy with just meeting somewhere we can talk and get to know each other.

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