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Aleisha, 40
United States, Minnesota, Hopkins

Offline, last seen Sat, 11 Jul 2026 06:30:33

About Me

HI! Thank you for looking at my profile! I felt that it was time to find my other half. Please read all about me before deciding to respond, if you don't you probably won't get a responce back from me. A little about me……… I am 40 years young :) Almost everyone says I don't look my age at all. I am hoping that last for years to come. I consider myself beautiful and I have pretty blue eyes. I am a very independent active mom of 3 children and my oldest is in college this year. . I love lying in bed in the middle of the night with the window open and listen to the rain, it’s one of my favorite sounds ever along with a child's laughter. I love to cook and enjoy eating the food after working in the kitchen. I enjoy being in the outdoors as much as possible, but I also love a great night in watching movies and having popcorn. I am a super hard worker and I am currently working two jobs. I am a big fan of Horror Movies although I do not like to be scared, like at a Hunted House at Halloween time. My Kids love it but I just stay back and watch them have all the fun. This last summer I traveled around world and visited 4 different countries and I was gone 6 wks. Now that's what I call traveling! I hope I don't see another air plane for a long time. :) I DO NOT SMOKE and DO NOT DO DRUGS and I am looking for the same. Smokers and drug users need not apply! I do enjoy a good drink and love a great party with friends. I am not a daily drinker but I do like a glass of wine with dinner a few times a week. After a fun night with friends, I love to go to the park and swing on the swings. I am looking for someone that can bring back fun and excitement that you get when you just first start dating someone. Someone who can make me laugh and show me a good time and can make me forget about life’s drama. Also, you need to be able to get along with my kids and enjoy them, as they are the most important part and first in my life. I would prefer someone that is in my area but I wouldn't turn down the right person either. If you are just looking for a hook up, look some where else, I am not the right person for you. When you decided to message me, let me know something about yourself! Remember boys this will be my first impression of you. Please NO simple "HI" or "How are ya?" messages. If you do you will probably not hear back from me. Life is to exciting to leave it at that. Something else if feel is super important to say unfortunately is if you have EVER cheated on our partner... I do NOT want to hear from you! Sorry! Just something I feel very strongly about. I look forward to meeting some new people in the future. I think the best first date is some place new for both people. I think that opening up new fun places is the best way to get to know each other. Out of their element for example a little.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Punk Salsa Adult Drama Boxing
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