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Soila, 40

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About Me

I am back after apparently being deleted for some unknown reason..I am gonna give this another shot but recently this site has gotten really shady, with fake people and profiles..I am a single mother of 3 kids and I have a grandson. I have a 20 year old son who has a son who will be 2 years old in November ***. I have a 16 year old daughter and a 14 year old son. My kids are my world and come first before myself or anything else so let's get that out there up front. With that being said they are not babies so I can usually go out with little to no difficulty. I just will not blow them off if they need me or are involved with something that I need to attend. I love spending time with my family and friends. One now lives in Germany and the other I see almost every day.I listen to all kinds of music. I love to dance, write poetry (I have actually had 2 poems published), scrapbook, read, travel, hang out with friends, go to wine tasting and visit wineries, love movies both going and just curl up and watch them at home. I love going to the beach it is my peaceful place. Sitting on the beach at sunset with a drink, my toes in the cool sand and smelling the ocean air and listening to the waves....Don't be a player cause I'llshut you down with a quickness. I don't play games. surprise me

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Day

    Online

    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hi Everyone!Not sure what to write in here... The size of this or any box seems not enough to describe who I am and what I am looking for in a partner.A few random thoughts, would probably describe me best than any list of likes and dislikes... while leaving upon you the excitement of the discovery! ;) And I know how much you guys like that, and I also know that I deserve brownie points for this! :DBesides I think, that likes are subject to change as we evolve and grow through life. Who you are is what really matters and shall never change.If the latter changes, let me know... I'll redirect you automatically to the next profile. The chick "next door" looooooves crazy!!! LOL (But not kidding.. And if you can fluctuate in between extremes you’re very intelligent I think… and complete. MAGICAL is probably the term that best describes the man I am looking for.Non-smoker is fine as I am trying to quit... :))Dog Lover is NOT a must... but not a Dog Hater IS!!!I am not a big fan of internet dating, it is not me at all... But I was also told not to put all my eggs in one basket, so I thought I’d drop a few in the “Pond” and see what happens… :)I am not complicated, and the small things in life are the ones that make me happy! When it comes to dating and relationships, my Philosophy is well summarized in this quote of one of my favourite thinkers:“Every man carries within himself the eternal image of woman, not the image of this or that particular woman, but a definite feminine image. This image is fundamentally unconscious, a hereditary factor of primordial origin.”Carl Gustav Jung.In simple words: When it feels right(for both...) then it is!It all comes down to chemistry in the end.. and attraction is a must. A first date with somebody met online shouldn't even be called such, but rather a First Meet.And I would keep that very casual and simple.. just to get a feel of each other. Coffee or a few drinks, and if there's a spark, we'll take it from there and schedule a First Date. :)PS: ** I DON'T HAVE AN EXTENDED PROFILE... THAT'S BS!!! **

  • Elli

    Online

    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am a mother of two girls very beautiful girls. Sadly enough I haven't been the mom I set out to be originally...or the wife for that matter...if I could go back ...oh if only....I am an addict...it is not the first time i have found myself starting to try to put my life ( what's left of the beautiful loving home I had before that day I didn't say no.... I am lost and just sear hung for the beginning... I am in need of a good solid brick wall tough enough to handle me but soft enough to make it feel like if been rocked to sleep... I am the worst about shopping ...I love it..absolutely love it...I carry a lot of guilt with me from mistakes that id ete if given the option. As much as I hate that part of me ...its also the part I like the most...I don't like the outcome. Or consequences. I am able to be a great mother when I am focused I am loving and caring but the fast life has suited me better than the daily routine.

  • Van

    Online

    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm looking for my best friend!! A man who knows what he wants out of this crazy journey who's ready to settle down with ONE women.I have a lot of love to give if you treat me right..so if ur into playen the mind games plz don't even contact me I have no time for it.And if you don't have a JOB, UR OWN PLACE, CAR, DO DRUGS, OR DONT TAKE CARE OF UR KIDS..plz don't waist my time bymessaging me. I'm a big girl looken for a big guy. 8)..wanna know more just ask...8) Maybe meet for some drinks,or some coffee, a walk in the park,or out to dinner.

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