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Jami, 40
United States, Minnesota, Hastings

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About Me

Update ***I am not on here to date a bunch of guys, I am looking for the one, I will be honest as possible if after that first meeting and I don't feel a connection I under no circumstances want to mislead you or string you along as a back-up plan, while I continue to search. I will be honest and polite and say no thank you, but I will not *** and leave you to wonder. If we share a connection than my time will be spent in getting to know you better. And if you send a message and I don't respond it's only because I did look over your profile and felt we would not be compatible. Let's have fun!I am someone that enjoys the little things in life...;his" presence without ever having to say a word, for me the little things are really "big" because I appreciate and treasure them... I work in a field dominated by women so meeting a guy doesn't seem to be an option and the club scene just isn't my thing anymore, maybe a smaller bar and or grill thats cozy and you can hang out for a couple drinks or listen to a good band. Anyway, I am a fun-loving person, there is nothing better than a caring, confident man that can make me giggle! Life is too short not to laugh and LIVE each day. I can be spontaneous, but if your a planner....that's fine, you'll plan I'll follow. My desire is to love and spoil, support, encourage that special man in my life one day. There is something irreplaceable about having someone to share your day, life and desires with. I believe whole heartedly in second chances and a happily ever after. I want to kiss him goodnight every night and wake him every morning. My love language is Physical Touch: This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face–they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Anything else just ask.....xoxox Something relaxed, comfortable....coffee, drinks, dinner. A place where we can talk, share and see what we have in common. A walk in the park...no pressure, just a friendly environment. "Sometimes when you meet someone, you just click.....I don't believe in love at first sight, but I sure believe in the click" even when I have been disappointed....I still believe in what I feel....Chemistry and attraction are huge factors in a relationship for me. If you won't post a picture, then don't bother. You may say that is superficial or shallow, but I call it being honest. Physical attraction is why we are drawn to another person in the first place, and if you say its not, you are kidding yourself. Yes chemistry and communication play vital roles. But be honest how many profiles do you pass over based upon their photo. Everyone has different qualities they are attracted to and yes, personality is a big one, but you also have to have that physical chemistry. Sometimes it really is about that first kiss.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

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