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Lynn, 39
United States, Minnesota, Hastings

Offline, last seen Fri, 06 Feb 2026 21:43:28

About Me

I am checking out what's out there....;) it appears that there are a lot good catches, and hopefully I am not reading too much into what is said. It gives me hope to believe that there are good guys out there.....and hopefully I can meet one, and see where it goes. I am 39, single and looking for something serious. I would like to start slow, but hopefully connect with a mature, respectful, funny, honest, intelligent, loyal man. Is that too much to ask for??? I am not looking for someone to take care of me, but someone to spend quality time with, and start a new life together.I moved to NC over five years ago from CA, and have made some really good friends, finally, however, they are all married. I am tired of being the third, or five wheel. I am finally at a place in my life, that I feel confident that there is someone out there for me. I am ready to take the next step, and put myself out there, and take a chance. Internet dating seems the easiest way these days, to connect, with singles.I work full time Monday through Friday. I work out at the gym a lot, and am a work in progress. I also work out with a personal trainer at least 2 days a week. I am dedicated to getting in better shape, and having fun learning new active ways to get there. I enjoy playing baseball/softball, basketball, as well as watching on tv and live. I enjoy all kinds of music, and am starting to even like a little country. lol. I am kindhearted, smart, funny, loyal, honest, and respectful. I treat people the way I would like to be treated. I was taught, if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all. I am a positive person, and want to be surrounded by positive people and attitudes.If you are at all interested, and have more questions, let me know...I look forward to hearing from you. If this has not intriqued you, I wish you all the best, hope you find what you are looking for! something casual, and see if there is a connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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  • Isaura from Hastings | Woman | 37 years old | Pisces
    Isaura

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Hello, I am going to make this short and sweet.. I am single and would prefer not to be but I realize that this does not happen over night and that you get to know the person and see if you click and all that first and that it takes some time before it gets to the relationship stage. Anyhow I'm a non-smoker and would prefer that the guy I date is the same way. I would also like the guy I meet to live less then an hour away but who knows if we really seem to click maybe the right one would be worth a drive. I am up for doing many different things I will briefly list what I'm not into....I think I'm easy to get along with. I also like to play video games so if you are into that as well it would be fun to play with someone.. I have a cute picnic basket.. wanna use it with me? I also have been told I am a great cook. I think my date and I could decide this together although I will say that a movie is not the best plan because it doesn't leave you much time to talk unless you like do something before or after the movie like dinner or whatever it might be.

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  • Kaelea from Hastings | Woman | 38 years old | Aries
    Kaelea

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hello ... I'm on this site not to find a perfect man ... but the one who is simply trying to be the best he can be. I don`t believe in the myth of a soul mate since we are a very complex entity. I am looking for someone to love, someone to share my joys and sorrows with, for someone who evolves personally, emotionally and professionally, who is respectful, smart, responsible, expressive, educated, well-mannered, attentive, tolerant and understanding, with good communication skills among other characteristics..... And the list can be long... But really ... these characteristics do not need to be developed 100% because you are like me and have requirements that together we can develop 110%.I`m a happy, complete and accomplished person. With strengths and weaknesses. I try to be better every day. I am cheerful, sensitive, expressive, educated, hardworking, thoughtful, loving ... and much more. This list can be very long lol but the first virtual impression is not the same as the first real impression! Let's meet then and try to get yo know each other as real people! ...So go ahead ... want to go for a coffee?.......but also like small villages and countrysideI can communicate in English, French and SpanishNOTE: NO PIC NO ANSWER !!! A coffee ...could be good ... !!! Then maybe a walk ...

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  • Deanna from Hastings | Woman | 40 years old | Aries
    Deanna

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Is there still a chance that there might be a man out there that still believes in opening the car door for a girl or when ya walk in a room his hand is on the small of her back or holding her hand..... IF SO where are you......I believe comminication is the MOST important part of a relationship rather it be a friendship or a relationship also you have to have trust and honesty..... Im a mother of a beautiful 2 year old girl who is my world.. NOT LOOKING FOR A DADDY for her...... just want some companionship for mom maybe find that Mr. Right for ever... I like to listen to country music mostly but do like 80s rock and stuff like nickelback and such.... I like to fish and camp and go hunting take drives in the country or even sit out back and just enjoy the evening.. hang out with my friends... I have been known to be a smartass from time to time.. just like making people smile humor is the best medicine in life. I would say Im more of a simple kinda girl ya dont have to come to the door with flowers and chocolates just come with a smile an want to go have a good time is more important then anything. I have tried to live my life to where I am happy and the people I have in my life are happy.... try to keep everything on a positive level ... I dont want any drama around me ..... New Friends are a great thing to always have. maybe a park bench and just talk or even dinner but there will need to be conversation to get to know each other

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