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Elle, 40
United States, Minnesota, Hastings

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About Me

Hi there.I am a smart, sexy, passionate and creative writer looking to get started on the next chapter of my life. I am a New Englander at heart -- Most of my time is spent working - I write fiction and nonfiction, and I am working on a book. To pay the bills, I write website copy, blogs and articles for small businesses and nonprofit groups. I love being self employed and I'm pretty sure I could never have a "normal" job ever again. I have an eight-year-old daughter who is silly, bright and energetic. You will notice my sarcastic sense of humor, passion for shoes and constant desire to travel. Whether it's just a weekend away or a two week trip to Europe, I always feel the need to plan a trip somewhere. I love to cook, take long walks and talk politics. I am very rarely bored.Looking for a smart, stable man with a vision for the future and the ability to make me laugh. Hoping for a grown up who is emotionally healthy, honest and lots and lots of fun. A romantic streak wouldn't be so bad either. :-) My ideal first date? A mutual feeling that the evening is passing too quickly and an intense desire to see each other again.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    **No time for drama, fakes, or deceitful people**I'm from and live in a small town, but I also have big city interests in addition to my small town background. I live in a small town & work 2nd shift which makes socializing difficult...so Here I am! I want a man who is a gentleman,a romantic & Strong. Is this you? I am a single mother of a beautiful son. He is brilliant & mildly Autistic & it does present a challenge. He charms everyone who encounters him & is the reason I strive for better, and he is my motivation to plow through when life posts seemingly insurmountable roadblocks. Whomever I date must understand that my child comes 1st in my life. Family trumps all. No man will meet my child unless we have established a connection that will be progressing into the real LTR realm. That being said.....I am quick witted, passionate, intelligent, loving, articulate, sassy, funny, love to laugh, sarcastic, openly opinionated, and honest. If you ask a question, be prepared for an honest answer...though, it may not be what you want to hear. I'm very affectionate and appreciate a man who knows how to treat a lady as such and can show it openly without being asked. I enjoy music and movies from nearly all genres. My favorite music is classic R&B/Soul, 80's & 90's music of pretty much any genre. I have to admit that country music is my Least favorite, though I can tolerate& like some of it. My interests vary with my mood and environment. I enjoy everything from: backyard BBQs, playing pool or bowling (I'm horrible at both but it's hilarious to watch & I have fun w it), a night out on the town with dinner and dancing, amusement parks & roller coasters, speed boating, cooking for friends & family, enjoying a good glass of wine with someone special, or a night in with a movie, cuddling under a blanket on a cold night listening to the rain & Like most humans on this planet, I am a work in progress. Life has knocked me down many a time and I have always managed to get back on my feet. I'm not a perfect person, but I am strong & determined. I strive to enjoy today while I have it and look forward to what may lie ahead. Perfection does not exist. I am a realist. Intelligent conversation & a great sense of humor go a long way with me. No one likes to have their feelings hurt or their heart broken, but it is a hazard with any relationship. However, without the fall you'll never know where it may lead.***Please do not message me unless you have pics. Physical appearance isn't everything, but there should be some attraction. Thank you *** Oh and no mullets. Just not into the whole Joe Dirt look. At least I'm honest. LOL A 1st date that allows each person to be able to Communicate & get to know one another. A casual brunch or dinner date. After all, it's a "get to know you" thing. NO Pressure. Then, take it from there to wherever it goes.

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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