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Dean, 40

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About Me

It's so important to make the most of personal time when so much effort and focus is consumed elsewhere. While I love to pursue things independently, I like having the excitement of sharing time and connecting with someone. I have many self-directed hobbies, most of them extremely feminine, and perhaps not as alluring to a man, but to me they define who I am and where my passion lies. I have always had intense facinations with certain things which I have cultivated over the years and continue to nurture and explore, like crafts, objects of beauty and originality, books and poems, many things can move or inspire me. I try to keep things moving forward healthily and productively and making room for life pleasures. My goals are to have a relatively simple happy health-rich life that allows for spontanaeity and light-heartedness. I have a warm and attractive aura about me and have a receptive attitude and approach to life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elle

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

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    Hi there.I am a smart, sexy, passionate and creative writer looking to get started on the next chapter of my life. I am a New Englander at heart -- Most of my time is spent working - I write fiction and nonfiction, and I am working on a book. To pay the bills, I write website copy, blogs and articles for small businesses and nonprofit groups. I love being self employed and I'm pretty sure I could never have a "normal" job ever again. I have an eight-year-old daughter who is silly, bright and energetic. You will notice my sarcastic sense of humor, passion for shoes and constant desire to travel. Whether it's just a weekend away or a two week trip to Europe, I always feel the need to plan a trip somewhere. I love to cook, take long walks and talk politics. I am very rarely bored.Looking for a smart, stable man with a vision for the future and the ability to make me laugh. Hoping for a grown up who is emotionally healthy, honest and lots and lots of fun. A romantic streak wouldn't be so bad either. :-) My ideal first date? A mutual feeling that the evening is passing too quickly and an intense desire to see each other again.

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