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About Me

Me: wow, what a question....I am passionate, understanding, loving, caring, independant,smart, goal oriented, hard headed, and know what i want in life and will not settle for less.PLEASE READ STATEMENT BELOW TO SAVE US BOTH TIME;If you message me and i do not reply that means im not interested, and also goes to say you dont meet my standards. 1) If you have longer hair than me, do not message me2) If you are crackhead skinny do not message me, 3) If your body looks like a billboard of crayola crayons, do not message me! !4) I WILL NOT date outside my raceplease save your msg for someone equal to you if you meet one of the above I have children so if you don't like kids, do not waste my time by contacting me. I am self employed and not looking to be taken care of or dependant on a man. Hobbies: too many to list First date: Depends on what we agree upon. I expect the first date to be casual.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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