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Selah, 40

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About Me

Hi there, Thanks for stopping by!I enjoy many things in life. Most of all I enjoy spending time with family and friends, listening to music, taking road trips, spending time outdoors, reading, and of course trying new things...I enjoy going out for a few drinks but I'm pretty much done with the bar scene. I appreciate a night grilling and watching a movie as much as an occasional dinner out. Spending some quality time together is important to me. I am originally from CA but just moved from MN to AZ. It's exciting and scary all at the same time..."Life is like a box of chocolates...You never know what you are going to get" and l look forward to the challenge. Once I get settled n find my way around more I will figure out where I want to go. I am a hard worker that takes pride in my work. I've worked my whole life and do pretty well for myself. I'm not looking for somebody to take care of me and appreciate a man that can take care of himself, unless of course you are sick then I will make you some homemade chicken noodle soup or rub your back after a long day :-)I enjoy all types of music; 80's, country, rock, dance, top 40's, etc. I am smart, funny, kind, very friendly, independent, outgoing, good hearted, sensitive to others, laid back, caring, but can be sarcastic and a bit of a smart ass too... I'm more impressed with somebody that is handy around a house and is honest, faithful, genuine, and is willing to give as much in a relationship as he gets than half naked pics in a mirror. You: Honest and not afraid to speak your mind. Knows the difference between there, their, and they're :0)Outgoing, social, likes to try new things. Has hobbies and appreciates the time he spends with me as much as he enjoys spending time on his own or with his own friends. If you cook that's a bonus :0) I can cook and am actually pretty good but it's nice to have somebody to cook with. If any of this interests you send me a message, would love to hear from you...Good luck in your search! Happy hour or something or someplace where it gives us an opportunity to get to know eachother a little better...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    A little about me...enjoying the best year of my life with one thing missing...perhaps its you! Been single for a year now, never married, no kids and feeling ready to find someone special again. Friends would say I'm fun and funny, ambitious, generous, smart, and caring. I work mostly from home and have flexibility in my schedule, but manage a lot. I'm a teacher at heart but no longer teach in a classroom setting. I have my own business and work for a health care organization. There is much more to know but I'll leave that a mystery for now. ;)I'm looking for the whole enchilada. Someone I have chemistry with and can grow old with. The man for me is ambitious, loving, super fun and adventurous, good listener and communicator, respectful, and perhaps a bit old school romantic. I love feeling like a lady but can play with the boys too! I want someone who can pay his own bills and who has some flexility in their schedule to travel with. Don't message me for a hook up...been there bought the postcard! I'm ready for something real but am down to have fun getting to know each other to see. Something casual like coffee or a happy hour drink. See if there is any chemistry...

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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