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Oretha, 40

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About Me

I'm just me. :) I am a full-time student and newly single mom to an amazingly bright 9-year old who is my world. I have been out of the dating loop for a long while and am kind of new to this, so I'm a little unsure about what to say here. But, I'm a quick learner. ;)After working in the service industry for ***years (because that is just what I've always done and what I know), I am now back in college and working towards getting a teaching degree with the hopes of eventually teaching middle school or high school History. I am a bit of a nerd at heart (okay... maybe a lot a bit... lol)... I am always reading or looking up new things trying to expand my base of useless knowledge. :)I love all kinds of music, but tend to steer clear of newer country or hardcore rap. I love discovering new music and going to concerts. I love movies of all kinds. I love reading (when I have time or can stay awake... LOL), especially historical fiction. See? Kind of geeky, but I like to think it's just part of my charm. ;)I cannot STAND games or players... be straightforward. I'm a big girl, I can take it. ;)I am opinionated, but open minded and tolerant. I am headstrong, but also capable of listening to reason. I am quirky and accepting of others quirks. Yes... I have very short hair, and no, I won't consider growing it out... it suits me. ;) I am straight-forward and honest, and expect the same from others.I am an open book... ask me anything and I'll give you an honest answer. I prefer a good beer over wine. I prefer watching a good movie over Nascar. I can have a conversation with anyone (I've never met a stranger... ), but can get a little shy when the conversation is focused on me (I blush easily). I know I may not be everybody's cup of tea, but that's fine by me... I don't even like tea. ;)What am looking for? Kindness, a killer sense of humor, confidence, HONESTY, good conversation, wit, intelligence, respectfulness, shared interests, individuality, an infectious laugh, a great smile, wicked chemistry and *butterflies*. :) Also, the choices given for what my "intent" may be are way too generic... I am looking to get to know someone and see where it goes. I'm not anti-relationship; I just don't want to jump into anything, but rather ease into it. In other words, no ***, just add me and I'm not just cruising this site for hook-up's. There's a middle ground, right? :)**Just as an aside to see who actually reads this, I don't really understand the whole "Meet Me" feature on here...;So and So wants to meet you"... it just seems less impersonal. :)Also, as I said, I am not looking for just a hook-up or a fling. So, all of you that are (ESPECIALLY you married creepers looking for a mistress), please just save the wear and tear on your keyboard and keep looking. I'd be game for just about anything that involved good conversation and laughing until my cheeks hurt.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Well... I love the heat as I grew up in snow mostly. If you don't love movies, you won't like me. I'm a huge movie buff whether just renting and hanging out at home or going to the theater. Popcorn is a food group!!!! I also like grabbing a bite with friends, BBQ's, concerts, festivals, wine tasting events and weekend road trips to Cali when I get the chance. For music I like alternative, dance, pop, mainstream, and blues. I prefer pubs and dive bars to loud clubs. It's better when you can actually have a conversation with the person your with. Real Estate is my passion and I'm hoping to find someone who is passionate about what they do as well. Life's too short to be doing things that don't make you happy. I'm adventurous and love trying new places and things to do. Vegas is awesome for having so many restaurants and events to explore. Just need a partner in crime to share some fun experiences with. I'm a Mom of 2 kids who I have Sunday to Wednesday which are the world to me. I do real estate so I can work around their schedules and spend the most time with them I can. So... I'm looking for someone who has Thursday, Friday or Saturday time off to date or hang out. It's an industry town and a lot of people have Monday and Tuesday off, which won't work too well. I'm also not looking to have more kids and start a new family... just want to have fun and work on a committed, honest, balanced relationship that brings happiness to both our lives. It's ok if you have kids too as long as you are available on the weekends. Kids come first and I don't expect to take your time away from yours either. I'm looking for someone to spend time with, not a texting pen pal. I don't mind texting back and forth a little to make plans but prefer to meet for coffee or a drink right away. If the chemistry is there great, if not then we can both move on. Chemistry or attraction is very important, it's either there or not. I'm not a super model but I work out and swim so I expect someone who takes care of themselves as well. You also need to have a job, place and a vehicle. If you read this far and like my profile please *** lets get to know each other:) For a first date, I'm cool with meeting for coffee to see if there is a spark. If there is and we want to date again, I'm open to dinner or a movie or both. I'm not a picky eater, I love anything from Mexican to Sushi.

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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