Arica, 30
Offline, last seen Sun, 04 May 2025 09:45:56
About Me
A description of me cannot be done in a simple paragraph, it will comes during conversation with me & time course but I will do my best. If I had to describe myself in a few short sentences I think this is how it would go...I am an artistic, optimistic, open minded strong loving woman with a compassionate heart & a desire to please. I love everything about our world, from the small things like beauty of morning dew on fresh flowers to the more complex things of life, like the amazing capabilities of people & what makes us...well us. I love to cook, bake, watch movies (generally I am a sucker for romantic dramas), I love the outdoors but would definitely consider myself as a play safe kind of gal, so if you are looking for adventure that tests your ability...we probably won't hit it off. I like to avoid anything negative, as I have been through a lot of pain in my past. I don't like conflicts & I'd rather find someone with whom I can easily get a long with rather than waste our time together with small bickering over things that don't really matter. I guess you could call me a clean freak...although I am capable of letting loose a bit so i'm not too terribly OCD lol...I just like things in a certain way you could say, it makes life easier when things are predictably put away. I don't see this as a bad thing though, I'm just responsible & use my time well so that I can have spare time to spend with those I love. I love animals, of all kinds & my dream would to be to live in a country like setting with all sorts of farm animals, but because of my creative & personalized dress style I wouldn't be dressed like a farmer. You will find me relaxing with my farm animals in something very comfortable & casual....I just prefer dressing to my mood, sometimes my mood is sweat pants & a tank, sometimes it is jeans & a cute tee, sometimes a skirt & flip flops..sometimes it is sexy lingerie. I would say I am a girly girl until I feel like dressing tom boyish lol. Well I guess all of that was a few more than a few sentences...What I want regarding intimacy, someone who enjoys cuddling & kissing & public affection but is also okay with some time apart if needed. Sometimes we just need a little space. It's okay if you are bi-curious but let me know of your intentions & boundaries because I don't wanna create feelings for you only to find out it'll never get sexual. Let me try and be a bit more specific on things I like and dislike:I like animals...and most people haha, hey it's hard getting along with difficult people so I tend to avoid groups of peopleI like life but as of this moment am finding myself not having anything to love about it...see I have this gap...this open place in my heart that needs filled. I should mention that I have children...they are my world of course but at night I feel awfully lonely. Okay another thing that will push most of you away, I have a boyfriend of ten years...but things between us are so....flat & troubled. He knows I am seeking a female & is okay with it. I like nights in with a movie & good food (mainly healthy only) but am open to nights out but I do not like large groups of people.I like going for walks & drives but I do not like walking in places such as the mall...seems pointless unless you have a reason to be there.I like helping people in any way I can but do not like making someone do something they wouldn't normally do. And I do not expect anyone to do something just because I enjoy doing it.I like visiting museums & theaters.I do not care much for amusement parks unless they have a lot to offer...see I am afraid of heights & will NEVER go on a roller coaster or a ride in the air again....just won't so don't bother asking.I like going out...on occasion but am not down with clubs/partying since I do not drink, I might have a beer or a glass of wine but otherwise do not drink & prefer the same in return.I am NOT a smoker (cigarettes) & do NOT want a smoker.I am ***friendly.I do not do public singing or dancing so don't bother, but we can make our won music & dancing...in the bedroom ;)My favorite kind of movies would be movies such as "Shakespeare in Love", "P.S. I love you", "The Notebook";, "The Kings Speech", "The Other Boleyn Girl", ";, "Star Wars", "The Lord of the Rings", "Iron Man".....well I love a lot of movies but tend to enjoy romantic dramas, comedy, fantasy & documentaries...yes I admit it I am kind of a Nat Geo nerd :)My goal in life....to be as happy as I possibly can with no regrets. I do not put myself around flaky people, people who lie (even if they think it is for the best) & people who constantly have negative thoughts...I need someone who I can rely on, someone who is genuine & someone who will not hurt me...hey just because we may not hit it off for the bedroom, doesn't mean a good friendship can't be built from it. I need someone who is not judgmental & can see the real beauty in me. I tend to be very open minded...sometimes blunt....I never mean to cause pain...I just say what I think. My absolute goal would be to run my own business, but I am not very optimistic about that simply because I am a realistic thinker in that area...when it comes down to the truth and fact..I just don't have the financial ability to start a business...so right now I am preparing myself for a career field change. Going from the food industry to office work where I hope to work my way up to office manager. Lastly, my taste in music..I am open to a lot of music. I don't care much for country though, or heavy metal...When I am in my car I generally have my mp3 player going, and it has mostly old school hip hop/alternative on it (from the 90's) but on the radio I usually have it dialed to 106.9, 92.5, 104.9 or 99.9...93.3 just sucks now...they play a lot of "music" that in my opinion is not good music anymore. Well I guess that just about does it..if there is anything in particular you want to ask...please do so, I prefer questions over assumption. Since it has been a long time since I've been on a date....and I mean a long time, I'd like something old fashioned I think....I mean I am open to more but I want to get to know you in a way that doesn't test my outgoing skills, because I am not very outgoing..I tend to be more shy until I warm up. A good movie & dinner, or date night in with a movie & a meal cooked together. Maybe a walk & coffee...ideas are open.
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