Total users: 63,037,404 Online users: 226,646
Alesha, 30

Offline, last seen Sat, 30 May 2026 10:15:13

About Me

Hi There!Let me start by saying I hate being on this site, I don't enjoy the dating process it is like an endless job search lol, however I am optimistic to a certain degree and hope one of these times a message I receive will be from a genuine, happy, spontaneous, athletic man.A lot of the people I have met on here there profiles don't match their lifestyles. I am thirty and have three amazing kids ages 12, 7 and three. I am not looking for a dad for them as they have a father but a strong male role model in their lives would be great! I have a huge support network of family so I am able to balance home life and a social life quite well. I do not want to discuss sex within the first six months so if that's what your about please don't even waste your time.What I am looking for in a partner is someone who is honest, spontaneous, works out 3x a week or more, likes going out but also enjoys a night at home, family oriented, isn't afraid of meeting my kids, educated, sexy, enjoys other cultures &..im sure I can think of more qualities I would like but I will stop at this point for now.Sincerely,ME mutual

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Bernita

    Offline

    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    Hi there :) If you're not chivalrous you can leave now! My after-work activities include happy hour, hiking, manicures/pedicures, the gym and shopping. On the weekends I love to go to the beach, hike, go to sporting events, live music, skiing, wine tasting, etc. I love to get out of town! Every three or four weeks(more if possible!) I have the to urge to leave and go somewhere...anywhere... I get bored staying in one place for too long. I love love love classic rock and country! I like hip hop/R & B at the club. Not that I go to clubs often (anymore)...bars and lounges are more my speed. I LOVE to go to sporting events!!! Seriously if you need a partner-in-crime for Laker, Dodger, Clipper, or Kings games....I'm your girl!I love seafood and mac and cheese. Prefer red wine to white wine. I like my men tall! I'm 5'8" and wear heels, so you do the math :) (And if the man I end up with is on the short side, you bet I'll still rock five inch heels cus he'd be so confident that he wouldn't care!)Definitely open to something long term developing with the right guy, but not into wasting time if you're not him :)PSI'm allergic to cats. So, unless you want to hate me for giving your cat away this probably won't work. I'm allergic to dogs too, but am able to tolerate them so long as you vacuum regularly. That's your job! Movies are awful for getting to know someone though. We can do that on our 8th date, okay?

  • Keiko

    Offline

    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I have a brain and I'm too smart to fall for an insincere or cheesy pickup line, I don't care how cute you are, if you only message me with one word ( hi, hey, hello, etc.) I'm not responding. I don't care how much money you make or what kind of car you drive, I'm independent and it doesn't impress me. I'm here to find a real man, with similar interests, that can accept me and all my quirks, my children, and can be faithful. I'm not very girly and I have zero game. I lack the ability to bat my eyelashes, giggle incessantly at a stupid joke, or dumb myself down for attention. I'm not overly romantic, no roses and poems for me. With that being said, I'm also very funny, extremely loyal, and attentive to those I care about. Seriously, kick rocks. Fake people, clingers ( you know who you are, and you're creepy as hell ) people that tell you what they think you want to hear, because if I wanted everything sugar coated I'd work in a candy store, Dave Grohls stupid face, slow music, people that are so optimistic they should be care bears, closed minded, jealous/possessive, dishonest, prejudiced people, and country music. If you've made it this far without calling me a ****, tool, or any other obscenity, feel free to shoot me a message. Because even though my profile sounds a bit rude, it's because of the horrible luck I've had on here. I'm actually pretty damn awesome, so it's your loss if you don't find that out for yourself Somewhere quiet

  • Hildegard

    Offline

    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

    I’m the life of the party, so if you want someone who knows hope to treat you like a queen, drop me a line. I want to feel the same way about someone the 7th year of our relationship as I do the 1st.

Follow Us: