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Sela, 28

United States, Minnesota, Cloquet

Offline, last seen Sun, 11 Oct 2026 02:06:06

About Me

It feels strange to go on and on like I am trying to sell myself to someone I have never met.I want someone who is the aggressor or the more dominant one in the relationship. I don't want to have to ask you out or make the first move, its a turn off. I need to feel pursued.I say what I mean and can be very upfront about things, I find that this can catch a lot of people off guard but I think it's very important to be honest.Some would say I'm strange but I prefer "unique" haha. I am a nerd but I don't fly the flag. I love all things fantasy/sci-fi related. I hate chick flicks so you will never have to worry about me harassing you to watch The Notebook or The Vow, however you will have to tolerate my love of Ren & Stimpy. I have a cat, I love animals and couldn't live without them in my life. I'm girly but not annoyingly so. I'm skinny but I can eat like I'm fat. I'm extremely superstitious. I like when guys treat my like a girl. I have enough guy friends that treat me like "one of the guys" and I love it, but if I am going to date someone I want them to treat me like a lady. Surprise me, nothing impresses a girl more than when you put a bit of planning into it. Just don't take me for sushi because I'm allergic to shellfish!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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