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Sela, 28

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About Me

It feels strange to go on and on like I am trying to sell myself to someone I have never met.I want someone who is the aggressor or the more dominant one in the relationship. I don't want to have to ask you out or make the first move, its a turn off. I need to feel pursued.I say what I mean and can be very upfront about things, I find that this can catch a lot of people off guard but I think it's very important to be honest.Some would say I'm strange but I prefer "unique" haha. I am a nerd but I don't fly the flag. I love all things fantasy/sci-fi related. I hate chick flicks so you will never have to worry about me harassing you to watch The Notebook or The Vow, however you will have to tolerate my love of Ren & Stimpy. I have a cat, I love animals and couldn't live without them in my life. I'm girly but not annoyingly so. I'm skinny but I can eat like I'm fat. I'm extremely superstitious. I like when guys treat my like a girl. I have enough guy friends that treat me like "one of the guys" and I love it, but if I am going to date someone I want them to treat me like a lady. Surprise me, nothing impresses a girl more than when you put a bit of planning into it. Just don't take me for sushi because I'm allergic to shellfish!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

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  • Mona

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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

    I actually have no idea where the whole "A priest, a rabbi, and a duck..." jokes go. I hear them on TV and in movies all the times but no one ever finishes the joke! I suppose I could google it but that feels like cheating somehow.People always seem to only mention their good qualities in these descriptions, as if they don't have any bad? Well, I know my bad qualities and I'm ok with them, in fact, I occasionally celebrate them. So, to be a little bit different, here are a few of my other "bad" qualities: -Judgmental-Easily annoyed-Stubborn-Insecure and yet am totally convinced of my awesitude and amazeballsness-I'm antisocial like 70% of the time-Mildly opinionatedAnd some good:-I try to be pretty open and honest-Funny-Reasonably intelligent-Loyal-Mildly opinionatedI enjoy a variety of activities, but right now most of my time is spent working, writing, with my horse, reading, or doing something low key with my friends. I would LOVE to try sailing, fencing, ATVing, kayaking, hot air ballooning, spelunking... the list really does go on. I enjoy doing crosswords (preferably the ones in the 24 magazine since I can usually finish them!), love talking about movies and music and generally feel that a day without a heated debate (including copious amounts of arm flailing) is wasted. What I'm looking for: I'm not entirely sure. I have a pretty decent idea of what I'm *not* looking for and that includes dudes who feel the need to post shirtless photos of themselves. I don't care how proud you are of your nerps, the very act of posting those photos makes me question your judgment and, to be completely honest, I've already thought of several ways to mercilessly mock you. Also, spelling and grammar are important. I can handle the occasional typo but good gawd the little red squiggly lines under those words should tell you something! Have you ever had a conversation with a friend when all of a sudden they whip out the fact that they can't say ";? In fact, they keep trying to say it and all you can think is "Fawk that sounds like they're saying "massive two shits"." No? Just me? I find that when I go to message a guy, I usually only throw down a "hey, how's it going". Generic, I know, but I really don't want to waste time on someone who's not going to respond. Unfortunately that is a pretty boring opening line and not the most conducive to an ongoing, in depth online conversation. So, here's a jumping off point: Who would win in an epic battle between unicorns armed with bacon and bears armed with nets? Hold hands and skip (will seriously marry the dude who knows where that line comes from.)

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