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About Me

It feels strange to go on and on like I am trying to sell myself to someone I have never met.I want someone who is the aggressor or the more dominant one in the relationship. I don't want to have to ask you out or make the first move, its a turn off. I need to feel pursued.I say what I mean and can be very upfront about things, I find that this can catch a lot of people off guard but I think it's very important to be honest.Some would say I'm strange but I prefer "unique" haha. I am a nerd but I don't fly the flag. I love all things fantasy/sci-fi related. I hate chick flicks so you will never have to worry about me harassing you to watch The Notebook or The Vow, however you will have to tolerate my love of Ren & Stimpy. I have a cat, I love animals and couldn't live without them in my life. I'm girly but not annoyingly so. I'm skinny but I can eat like I'm fat. I'm extremely superstitious. I like when guys treat my like a girl. I have enough guy friends that treat me like "one of the guys" and I love it, but if I am going to date someone I want them to treat me like a lady. Surprise me, nothing impresses a girl more than when you put a bit of planning into it. Just don't take me for sushi because I'm allergic to shellfish!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Meridith

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    I guess some might find me a bit boring lol.. I crochet, I enjoy staying fit, walks, the gym. Though I do slack off sometimes. I enjoy many things. It's just difficult listing them all. I'm so old fashion I believe in building a friendship long before actually getting involved with anyone. If you're funny I will wuvs you either way *** I love being around easy going people with a good sense of humor :)I do think dating sites are kinda lame.. but I'm open minded. ;).....also I don't snowboard or ski, i get asked that a lot lol, not that I wouldn't be interested in it, I've just never done any of them...I also hate snow..like a lot :):)

  • Kourtney

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    I'm contemplating getting rid of my page... It seems like there are very few serious people on here. I've 'seen' my share of guys on here without jobs, grown men without a vehicle, men that lie about having kids or having a girlfriend or EVEN having a wife.This disgusts me! Men who can't do what they say they will and their word means nothing is a HUGE turn off. Reliability is a great characteristic to have and it's very sexy to not be a flake or late all the time. Men don't leave a woman waiting, she just may move on from you and find something better in the time it takes you to learn to treat her as she deserves to be treated. Also, please don't waste my time and yours if you can't speak English and you have lousy spelling and grammar, this dries me right up! Most importantly, if you don't have faith in God I'm sorry please don't waste my time and yours. It's only realistic to date someone that has similar beliefs and values and finding a God fearing man is the MOST important thing on my list so if you have no faith in your life or Christ-like qualities like honesty, loyalty, compassion, etc I'm NOT interested. That being said, I'm not that picky after that, but, obviously a physical connection has to be there, that's human nature. I have a type, it may not be you but don't take it personal, everyone on Earth has different qualities and traits they find attractive. I don't always date my "type" either but I definitely have one. I enjoy the simple things in life and don't need to be at an expensive restaurant or club to have a good time. About me...I love going for walks in the river valley, visiting friends, going camping, and road trips. I keep busy with my job and staying active either outside or at the gym. I'm the most honest and game free girl you will ever meet. I'm very blunt and to the point. I love to make people laugh and I'm constantly cracking jokes, often times I'm just like one of the guys. I listen to hip hop, rnb, reggae, old school, and oldies. If you have read my profile and you think you meet my criteria and we might just click then please go ahead and message me, if not, thanks for stopping by and good luck in your search! most likely coffee date

  • Roselee

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    I am a deep thinker due to what life has brought my way - always up for learning and seeking the highest possible living ever - not in the material way but in the thinking way.Live with no excuses.love with no regrets. Reading s my most favorite passtime. Socailizing and meeting people is another. A night on the town means dancing(no pro; but have gotten many complments) Life has brought me some hard blows;each one of us is fighting something - to find purpose to find who/what we are - adversity allows us to appreciate the fragilty yet intricate life of consicious/unconsicious the seen/unseen, it allows us to see the depths and heights we can travel despite it all. Enjoying the ride, no, no i never die.

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