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Lean, 35
United States, Minnesota, Brainerd

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About Me

I haven't changed this since I wrote it way back when, So I'm going to attempt to update...Before, I wrote I had no Idea what I wanted, I think I have figured this out somewhat. I want someone honest, caring, And someone who is able to take me for who I am. I've tried changing for someone.... It didn't work out to well...I have a 7 year old daughter. She lives with me, And you won't meet her until I think your worth her time... I don't like liars, So no matter how much the truth hurts.... Give it to me.I'm that girl who gives her all in all relationships, Including friendships. I don't play the doormat role very well. I am a very blunt girl, And usually tell it like it is. You must have a sense of humor, If you don't, You probably will not like me.I have a very close group of friends who are important to me, As is my family. I do work, It's none of your business where. I don't need a stalker where I make my money! When I get out with friends, Its usually sports or dive bars.. Karaoke, Live sporting events, shopping, movies, zoo or whatever else they can get me to do. Dance clubs are not really my thing, Ill go, But you wont get m out on the floor unless its a slow song... That pretty much makes me a Husker fan.I like a lot of different kinds of music. The basic female mix... 80's, 90's, pop, a bit of rap or alternative, country, and R & B. It depends on my mood. As of now, My favorite songs are Queen- Fat Bottom Girls, The Beatles-- Mama's Broken Heart, Garth-- Come A Little Bit Closer & just about anything from the 90's!I don't have a type, But my weaknesses are men in uniform, southern boys, And boys with tattoos. I'm also a sucker for a man with a great personality! If you made it this far, and you want to drop a note, go for it. But put a bit of an effort into it. I did. And if I missed anything, Ask.. I might tell you. Hmm..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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