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Malandra, 34

United States, Minnesota, Brainerd

Offline, last seen Tue, 18 Aug 2026 10:20:54

About Me

Save yourself the time & read my profile. I'm not here for sex or casual dating, never have had a shortage of offers or opportunities for either. You may be handsome & have a stable job, but there’s more to being my man than that. If you message & I don't reply don't be a cyber stalker, I'm not interested, I will read your profile & look at all your pictures & I can tell before I reach the “about me” you haven't read my profile or you care more about what you want than if you can make me happy. I am a Christian, I haven't been to church in awhile, but the values & belief are important & my match must share it. If you have no photos, what are you hiding? If your photos are so old, or “artistically” angled I’d walk by you if we ever met in person you’re either lying to yourself, or emotionally insecure. I need a match who is confident & secure. I won’t stroke someone's ego to make them feel good. If you aren't interested in having children regardless of whether you have some already we aren't a match move on.I have been waiting my whole life for Mr. Right…so far we haven’t found each other. I am a very independent woman with a zest for life. Details are the most important thing about life; it's never about how much you’re able to give, but rather the quality of what you give. Giving flowers is only a sign of a well trained man. Going the extra mile, finding out what a girl likes & surprising her with it is my type of man. In my free time I enjoy my garden on the lanai, being in a place where outdoor swimming is a lifestyle, & year round event. I should have bought stock in sunscreen when I moved here but I look forward to trying out some more water based activities soon. I love reading & carry my tablet loaded with espionage, high action, or mystery based stories, everywhere, the beach, pool, appointment (while waiting) tables for one while dining out. I enjoy TV shows like Rizzoli &; NCIS. I also enjoy hitting the town dressing up for dancing, karaoke, drinking & various bar associated gaming. I love to cook and do it with flair. I’m hoping to pick up some local recipes for my collection. It’s a pleasure to cook for others I am the consummate hostess.I went on my first hike this month, despite being bruised & sore for a few days it was fun but would be more fun with someone else. I love people watching, taking photographs, absorbing the culture through every pore & orifice (taste, sound, sight, smell, feel)...it helps you listen to your inner self. I also love architecture & history they are the bones of the past from which we sprung & hopefully we can learn & be inspired by to be better human beings. I’m not an adrenaline junkie, but I do enjoy a challenge so if you’d like to do something I normally wouldn’t ask I may surprise you. I am stubborn & definitely not a quitter. I love to be in the spot light, but I keep my life private. I am an Officer in the United States Army currently it is my occupation & reflects greatly on the type of person I am. If you think you’re the one, do a backbone check, I don’t want doormat. I'm independent, bone-headed, & stubborn, a man has a place in my life as a partner, an equal; at my elbow to escorting me across the street, with his arms wrapped around me as he spins me around the dance floor, or with his face buried in my hair as I burrow into his chest to curl up & sleep. If you don’t know who Picasso, Renoir, & Monet are you might want to learn, I love art. Reading is not only for learning but to keep an active mind. A man who can take care of himself is admirable, to include cooking legitimate meals, & dressing himself appropriately for any occasion. Tell me no when no is what you mean. Tell me when I am wrong & admit when your wrong. Understand the meaning of "I'm sorry", "I promise", & "I love you." COMMUNICATION is so important to me & contrary to popular belief listening isn't always an audile function.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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