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Emma, 34
United States, Minnesota, Brainerd

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I am a professional gal and take my career (that I love!) seriously but not quite so much my own self. Not sure if I laugh with myself or at myself more? I'm outgoing, a people person for sure, smart (and a smarty pants, as my dad would say), funny, kind of saucy and sarcastic, but have a big heart and really really easy going under all that jazz. I'm up for any adventure though photography is my number one creative passion..then its a toss up between volleyball and jogging (I'm thin but athletic/toned ie. I've still got junk left in the right places), hiking, and drawing, and the welcoming feeling of settling into my cozy couch for a movie, and of course, Guinness. I have my you-know-what together and hope to find someone who does too, finds it important to work on growth and finds joy in a good day of hard work...someone that is also fun/funny and positive to be around and likes to tool around and let loose like me. Basically, I adore witty goofball guys...with ambition and smarts. Trustworthy is a "duh" :)..and I want to admire your decisions. Curious to find a cute date, future relationship (wanna "go steady"? Lol...apparently it is near-;serious" in any sense of the word?? Haha:), or some comfortable companionship, and/or also expand my circle of friendships here in Maui. I do miss having an important man in my life to care for and make laugh (and surprise, love surprises)...and vice versa. The good stuff...My life is rather busy so I don't plan to overwhelm anyone, and I'm not the constricting clingy type but I'm also not into being, or feeling like, one-of-twenty by yet another guy (sorry!) that is overprotective of his Maui "single-dom". Respect (and responsive communication) is important (and sexy!)."No pets" just means I don't have any right now. Pets help make the world go round...so does red wine and dark beer!Just a small FYI, profile pics of just your sculpted chest taken in the bathroom mirror that cut out your face kind of just creep me out. Though charm can overcome height, I cant help but be attracted to men that are a bit taller than me, and it's important to care about ones physical fitness/health (yeah, charm does not overcome this so well, gotta take care yourself!), and who doesn't like someone that's just darn cute (in my way of thinking someone is cute, which might not be the norm). Yeah...a job and car are basics, a full grill, and a prominent sense of humor and understanding. No heavy drugs, please. And, I hope you like kids because mine are seriously amazing. I get to kick it with them ***nights a week.If I judge a man other than by what I learn directly, it's from the level of respect they have of their friends, and if that's all good it goes a long way. Alrighty then. Have a great day and best wishes. Cheers! I can have fun in most any environment (preferably not your ex's backyard though). In regards to good old fashioned gentlemanly date etiquette...while I am able to take care of my own (and more) by means of doors and tabs and such...chivalry is NEVER not hot and goes a looooong way :)... so don't worry that I'll be all women's-equal-rights offended or anything by you being a gentleman in Maui. I am a lady and assume that's why you have asked me out for a fun time? Don't be shy :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Martial Arts Sci-Fi Charity
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