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Athena, 34
United States, Minnesota, Big Lake

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About Me

Hi, I am a really fun and outgoing person. said everybody... ;) Well I am a recent widow. I have just made it past the six month mark. I have come to the conclusion that I am lonely with a capital L. But I am not desperat. When the right guy comes around it will be as simple as breathing. I have a six year old daughter that will always come first with me. I consider myself a amiture photographer. So I like to go exploring and find the perfect picture. I like to sing karaoke. Before I became an old married women I liked to go dancing. I like to travel but haven't been fortunate to go anywhere good. I like to read and Yes I read those trashy romance novels. There fun. I like to play pool and I like to bowl. I don't play video games but I like to watch others play. I like to tell them how to play and where to go. I love music. I don't know what else to tell you.Now what do I want in a man? I have no clue. What I need is someone that is pragmatic. I tend to be idealistic. So someone to help me keep my feet on the ground would be nice, or at least a couple of inchs off. I am looking for someone who is honest and is a gentlemen. I am not into playing games. But of course if you really want to get my attention all you have to do is make me laugh.I am sorry but I don't date black men. I just don't find them attractive. :-/ OOOOhhhh I could spin a tail about walking along the beach in the moonlight but that would be bs. The perfect first date is to go somewhere to get a drink or coffee and talking, to get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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