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Nelda, 31
United States, Minnesota, Big Lake

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About Me

I think it's time I update my profile. I have been on and off meetville for a while now. I am looking for a relationship but a relationship can only start with friendship. That being said, I have no expectations - whatever happens, happens. I am NOT looking for FWB, or a "hang out", or an "intimate encounter". I am not married and have no intentions of dating someone who is married. So, if you are looking for any of those things and/or you are already in a relationship that just isn't working for you, then pass me on up. Nothing you can do or say will make me change my mind and honestly, I'm just not interested in your reasons why - deal with that on your own time!Back to me....I would consider myself a people person and love to socialize. My family is very important to me and they just happen to be some of my favorite people to hang out with (we're a party family so it's all good - lol)I enjoy going to bars and cutting loose but I also enjoy spending a night on the couch watching a movie with a special someone. I have 2 young girls who are my everything! I am in school working on my master's, active in my girl's activities, I work full time, and I usually don't have much free time. I'm not always available but I am worth the wait. I'm not going to get into my goals and aspirations cause that's just too boring for a one paragraph opener - we can catch up on that later BUT, I do have goals and aspirations and am looking for someone who does as well.Education is very important to me. I don't expect everyone to have have a degree or to be book savvy but grammar is a pet peeve of mine. Well, certain aspects of grammar. If you don't know the difference between their and there, we're and were, it's and its, or if you spell like you're 13 year old on a texting frenzy, I'm not interested. I won't read messages that lack periods or some sort of sentence closure nor will I try to understand what the hell you are trying to say so don't waste your time. I think when you message someone, you can at least take the time to form a complete thought and/or possibly use spell check (a fabulous creation that many people on here need to learn about). Ok - enough of that rant....can you tell that meetville is starting to get to me? lolAs for music, I like a little bit of everything - mainly country and alternative. :) happy hunting, boys!P.s. - I am the type of girl who likes it when a gentleman opens the door for me! I am a woman and I like to be treated like one. Just thought I'd throw that one out there.Ohhhh, and most importantly, PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME if your profile picture or any of your pictures are of your little toy. I find it disgusting and belittling to have those messages pop up in my inbox. If I want to see that, I'll go find a porn website where they actually look good! Word to the wise - your self pics of that portion of your anatomy often do no justice so you should maybe stop ;) I'm up for anything! BUT I love when a guy makes the plans! Although I say anything, I am against meeting at my place or yours for the first time. This may be a dating website but we should all still exercise some caution.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Indian War Western
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