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Kandi, 32
United States, Minnesota, Andover

Offline, last seen Mon, 12 Jan 2026 06:36:28

About Me

If you aren't willing to share a picture, I'm not interested in chatting. . I sucked it up and put my pictures out there....just sayin'If you take issue with what I'm looking for/think I am too 'demanding', there's no need to message me and spew hatred. Why even waste your energy? We can happily go about our separate lives....Not looking for FWB. I'm not saying I am a total prude, but I don't need to hook up with a bunch of randoms to feel validated. I'm a one guy kind of girl. (Obviously that does not include meeting guys for coffee, because I'll have to meet a few people before I find what I am looking for.)I'm basically looking for someone that isn't a total douche. If you are genuinely a good person that treats others with respect, that goes way further than looks in my book. I tend to consider my partner's feelings when making decisions. I would expect that if you want to date me, you have the ability to consider the feelings of another person. (Chill out guys, that doesn't mean I want to control your life, but if you are totally self-absorbed, it won't last long)I surround myself with friends that are awesome and can speak their minds. If you prefer someone that gets in line with your way of thinking, I'm not that girl. That isn't to say that I will fight you on everything, it just means that sometimes we won't agree. Hopefully you are able to have calm discussions about things. Deal breakers:Liars - I feel like this goes without saying.Drugs- if you use them, chances are I won't be hanging around youDrunks - drinking once in a while is alright, but all the time...I'm not interested. Abuse - if you have ever raised your hands to an ex, I am not interested in dating you.Avoiding family - my family is pretty awesome, if you don't want to spend time with them, then you won't be dating me. Hopefully you have a family that you like to hangout with as well. Sad Pandas - I'm not here to fix your problems. If you have a 'poor me' attitude, I'll lose interest really quick.Drama - I really hate playing games. (unless it's board games. If it's board games, I'll probably win.)Anyhow, that's pretty much it. I'm sure I'll update this at some point. Drop me a line if you want. If not, happy fishing :)In the meantime, I'll be scrolling through the 'Meet Me' feature and working up the courage to say hello. Whatever we decide that is PG in nature.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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